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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 5:48pm On May 20, 2018
Safiaa:
I can’t, never been in one.
ummmm ok
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by princfred(m): 5:53pm On May 20, 2018
First most women end up in one because they choose mundane things in getting into relationship. Two, the lack of care nd respect towards a man can make him abusive. Men should know a woman considers him her hero to have agreed to be with him and so should stop the abuse.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by daveP(m): 9:08pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:


Those are the ones I know of ..
I’m not disputing the fact that working class ladies don’t go through it.. I just didn’t list that .... as I don’t personlly know any in my circle ..so can’t really speak on it


so your knowledge about such is limited in that area? hmm. I prefer not to let that be an excuse. cos monsters exists and everything and anything happens in relationships.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 9:50pm On May 20, 2018
Hi can I marry you, I am also from Ebonyi state
Pricelessangel0:

The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by don4real18(m): 10:01pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.
Lol... grin Your Auntie tried. Doesn't sound like Naija to me
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pat081: 10:23pm On May 20, 2018
Don’t endure domestic abuse in a marriage because of your kids and what people will say. If You die as a result, the man, the people and the kids will bid you dust-to-dust, he will marry another woman and she will take your place as the mother of your kids. So please ladies dnt kill ur self
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by SoapQueen(f): 10:39pm On May 20, 2018
Hector09:
i ve seen many working class ladies staying put in an abusive relationship

My thoughts exactly!
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by SoapQueen(f): 10:43pm On May 20, 2018
Safiaa:
You can never really understand, until you’re in one. That’s all I can say

True. Never say never. Abuse isn't all about domestic abuse. Emotional abuse can be worse.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 11:04pm On May 20, 2018
Pat081:
Don’t endure domestic abuse in a marriage because of your kids and what people will say. If You die as a result, the man, the people and the kids will bid you dust-to-dust, he will marry another woman and she will take your place as the mother of your kids. So please ladies dnt kill ur self

dont mind them, life no get duplicate

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 9:10am On May 21, 2018
don4real18:
Lol... grin Your Auntie tried. Doesn't sound like Naija to me
Na Naija ooo, there is nothing wey eyes no go see and wey ear no go ear.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 9:30am On May 21, 2018
shocked
DonPiiko:
Hi can I marry you, I am also from Ebonyi state
wink Awwwn, I would have love to but Ebonyi guys are too strongheaded and stuborn for my liking.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 9:39am On May 21, 2018
I will treat you like a princess
Pricelessangel0:
shocked

wink Awwwn, I would have love to but Ebonyi guys are too strongheaded and stuborn for my liking.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 10:09am On May 21, 2018
Several reasons...Maybe the guy has a good dic A game , or she totally depends on the guy financially, the guy has threatened her dat if she leaves him he might harm the kids,the fear of the unknown....she feels if she leaves him then no man would want to have her,low self esteem.several reasons as i said b4.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 10:16am On May 21, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Am serious, even the one he didnt buy he requested for it and because of how insultive and shameful it is, no one need to ask for verification and it was refundf, it was later that the aunty started saying and pointing to what he did not buy for her that he said he did even down to pant and cream.
refund money for the pant and cream he bought?shocked.. Hahacheesy. What can he say for men who sponsor ladies through secondary school to the university with the hope of marriage and yet the men get dumped but they don't get any refundcheesy.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 10:27am On May 21, 2018
GUILT!
deep down in most of them, they know their attitude isnt right with the man, they know they share a large portion of the blame, but attitude wont let them admit their fault, so they stay for the time being
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 11:06am On May 21, 2018
mistel:
GUILT!
deep down in most of them, they know their attitude isnt right with the man, they know they share a large portion of the blame, but attitude wont let them admit their fault, so they stay for the time being
guilt we makes u to stay in an abusive environment
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 11:08am On May 21, 2018
lefulefu:
Several reasons...Maybe the guy has a good dic A game , or she totally depends on the guy financially, the guy has threatened her dat if she leaves him he might harm the kids,the fear of the unknown....she feels if she leaves him then no man would want to have her,low self esteem.several reasons as i said b4.
what do u mean by good dic can u elucidate cus every body is talking abt good dic, so some people ve a bad dick
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 21, 2018
Hector09:
what do u mean by good dic can u elucidate cus every body is talking abt good dic, so some people ve a bad dick
cheesy i mean the sex the guy gives her might be very good nacheesy. He's the only one who has given her dat ultimate orgasm in za oza roomcheesy. Bro some women can be funny. If the guy dey treat her like beast,slapping her upandan but in za oza room he dey on point..omo some babes no go waka oo. Dem go still remain in the abusive relationships.they don't care if they lose their life in the process.it will take outside intervention for such ladies to come back to their senses.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 12:50pm On May 21, 2018
lefulefu:
cheesy i mean the sex the guy gives her might be very good nacheesy. He's the only one who has given her dat ultimate orgasm in za oza roomcheesy. Bro some women can be funny. If the guy dey treat her like beast,slapping her upandan but in za oza room he dey on point..omo some babes no go waka oo. Dem go still remain in the abusive relationships.they don't care if they lose their life in the process.it will take outside intervention for such ladies to come back to their senses.
i think say na only boys like Bleep ooo so girls too like am
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 12:59pm On May 21, 2018
Hector09:
i think say na only boys like Bleep ooo so girls too like am
na waoh see question wet u dey askcheesy. Pls no take seriously wetin some nl girls dey always dey yarn here about weda sex na foodcheesy. If sex no important to ladies for naija then why do we hear stories of some nigerian wives dragging their husbands to court over the reason of starving them with sex and blah blahcheesy.them love sex oo but then some of dem go dey pretendcheesy.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 1:11pm On May 21, 2018
lefulefu:
na waoh see question wet u dey askcheesy. Pls no take seriously wetin some nl girls dey always dey yarn here about weda sex na foodcheesy. If sex no important to ladies for naija then why do we hear stories of some nigerian wives dragging their husbands to court over the reason of starving them with sex and blah blahcheesy.them love sex oo but then some of dem go dey pretendcheesy.
intresting

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Quim2: 3:03pm On Jan 28, 2021
Pricelessangel0:

The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.

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