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@ ik_moore2
I dont think its the case that ive 'outgrown him@ AT ALL, i just think i deserve someone thatll appreciate me more than he does, thats all, if all these didint come about, i can barely fault the guy and would have LOVED to spend the rest of my life with him without a second thought but it gets to that point where I dont feel he'll ever change adn if I decide to stick with him then I should put up and shut up; and I CANNOT do that. Every human has a threshold point, i jus think ive reached mine is all.

@poster
it is normal to feel the way you feel but the writing was on the wall . . . . . . you just decided to overlook it (also you were young and inexperienced in the dating game).

did you say that the guy wanted to marry you?! well, he had his cake and was having desert on the side,  . . . . .  what do you expect?!

this guy has cheated on you therefore he had no respect for you or the relationship you had. . . . . . . such man should be run away from as there is absolutely NO WAY to make him change. he will beg and say all the right stuff now to get you back but when the relationship gets back to cruise control mode, he will get right back to cheating mode.

get off your a$$ (sorry for my French), look at the mirror and be positive about yourself/life, go out and live life like nothing happened AND put yourself back on the market!why should other men be deprived of a good women like yourself?! the only one who should suffer is the he goat you were dating before.
*****just take it as an experience and LEARN from it! *******

Poster

Just brave up, u will see another guy that will love you.
Remember life is full of up and down
But do let that pin you down
Stand up to ur feet
and move on.
It is well.

@poster
just make sure u take ur time 2 take a stance.
cuz almost all of us have been guilty at one point in time of wat your man has done.
really want u to find out if it is u he loves.
at least one more chance that is if he deserves it wont kill.
leaving sumone "that truly" loves you for sumone that doesn't, is never a fair deal.

at the same time nobody deserves to be cheated upon, i would never support that at least now that i know otherwise.

pleaseeeeeeeeeee take your time before you make that final decision (one week is for mourning not for taken serious decisions)

@poster how old are you?? you need to get out and get busy!! i know exactly how you feel i just end up datin someone else but its not always the best option (or so they say) thats why its good to be close to family and friends and let a boyfriend be an adition, and not the other way round.

ikmoore2:
Forget all the foolish girls that are advising u to throw away ur love, cos if u check well their BFs do worst tins than urs (BF) did.

you have just said my mind,ladies are their worst enemies... they advice someone to leave,but in reality they are sticking to their cheating bfs..