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Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by BedLam: 10:19pm On May 29, 2018 |
Vianna:2.4 years. |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by BedLam: 10:21pm On May 29, 2018 |
Pipedreams:Lol. The irony but really it has nothing to do with my life. |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 29, 2018 |
paparazzi1987: and to those fools who've the habit of taking their Nigerian wives to USA and UK.. keep on taking them there.. by the time they're through with you.. your eyes are gonna open.. Never trust Nigerian ladies. ..take them to the UK and USA and you'll be given the blackmail of your life. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by BedLam: 10:26pm On May 29, 2018 |
CsRockefeller:I wasn't even ready for dating when I met her. I just wanted to chop and clean mouth but this one hooked me. She was so nice and at first thought she was just trying to get me but realized she's nice to everyone and very supportive. We met when I was in a one bedroom apartment and she just moved in. Fast forward, I told her I wasnt ready to marry and she said she doesn't mind that when I'm tired I should tell her and she will move on. we got married 16 months ago. End of story for now. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by meobizy(f): 10:29pm On May 29, 2018 |
greenguy:However even friends grow apart. Differences in upbringing always rears its ugly head after a while. No matter how compatible you both are problems must arise. 15 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by beautyhound(m): 10:46pm On May 29, 2018 |
Vianna: i hv noticed dt too, older women tend to haf great personality to d younger men... |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by beautyhound(m): 10:47pm On May 29, 2018 |
BedLam:noticed dt too, older women haf gr8 personality to younger men |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by beautyhound(m): 10:49pm On May 29, 2018 |
Vianna:nawa o after reading d post? u fall my hand 17 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by okwabayi(m): 10:53pm On May 29, 2018 |
OrangeDream:GODDAMN! If you don't warn her now it will only get worse. Do it now because if you don't it will slowly cause resentment which you may eventually act on. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by beautyhound(m): 11:02pm On May 29, 2018 |
BedLam: A woman dt knows what she wants nd sets standards will always rise... |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by beautyhound(m): 11:03pm On May 29, 2018 |
meobizy: that's why u shud marry ur friend... u nd ur friends have tins in common...in fact a lot of tins. SMH. How do pple tink in ds country sef |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by Ssalk: 11:03pm On May 29, 2018 |
Marriage is not for the faint hearted, if you want to enjoy your marriage please always try to perform your duty as a man. The moment you stop doing your duty as a man, that will be the beginning of the end of marriage. Even if you have the best wife, there will be tension if you at man don't play your role. Finance is the major key success of marriage, I know this cos I have been married for 4years now except that she annoyed me with calls as if I am a baby. 19 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by daewoorazer(m): 11:07pm On May 29, 2018 |
Ssalk: The annoyance part with calls got me 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by adaksbullet: 11:09pm On May 29, 2018 |
pembisco:ode, seen these small kid telled me too grow up Mine first born his on ss1 and u are there saying trash on ur mouth 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by okwabayi(m): 11:09pm On May 29, 2018 |
blazer2018:I wanted to say this too but think of it, what if she's cooking for in-laws or visitors? He should help her kill the habit before it disgraces both of them one day. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by adaksbullet: 11:09pm On May 29, 2018 |
GreatCracker: Am also his eglish teacher in home |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by smart6(m): 11:14pm On May 29, 2018 |
Please i am interested in the finance aspect, especially the one that said the man's money is the family's and the woman's hers. Kindly share how you pull this through after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by mtngloetiartel: 11:17pm On May 29, 2018 |
adaksbullet:son, u are drunk. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by okwabayi(m): 11:24pm On May 29, 2018 |
cliqtips:People inexperienced in relationships can still find other willing individuals to cheat with. Dating inexperience before marriage is not a guarantee the person wouldn't find a long term cheat partner. |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by ADRIAN88(m): 11:27pm On May 29, 2018 |
donogaga: Well-said bro, spot on! Seems we're on the same page here. However let me state here that your good friends will/should help you out in your time of need if they can & also speak strong words to you to man up to face whatever circumstance you may find yourself in. How much more a wife who you love and who truly loves you? Ofcourse she shouldnt insult, but lets face it, men generally take high-tempo advice from loved ones/friends for insults; especially delicate matters like finance. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by lilyheaven: 11:27pm On May 29, 2018 |
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Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by okwabayi(m): 11:28pm On May 29, 2018 |
smart6:I'm not married but I believe a way to ameliorate this is for her to have a job. Working women have less demands and she can also help out either in children's fees or helping her family to an extent. If one marries a full time housewife it's your salary and food money she'll share between herself and family members. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by adaksbullet: 11:28pm On May 29, 2018 |
mtngloetiartel:kid, u are craze |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by okwabayi(m): 11:31pm On May 29, 2018 |
lilyheaven:You should get a nanny for the kids [if any] and find a less time consuming job for yourself. I'm not married but if there's one thing I'm very sure of it's the disrespect which comes when you start asking him to provide money for everything. It may not start now, tomorrow or the next four years but trust me it'll happen eventually. 5 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:32pm On May 29, 2018 |
RALPHOW: You're right on the issue of finance. ..finance is the major bedrock of a marriage.. Your last line.. It's better both the men and their wives have good jobs that way things will be better for everybody. I'm still amazed how some men find it easy to marry full time housewives or wives who don't contribute anything..Trust me being the sole provider is bad for a man's health. Godforbid bad thing. My advice to all young men is; don't marry a wife who won't contribute.. it'll be a disaster. I can share a story with y'all in 2012 my friend got married to a full time housewife against the advice of his friends and his parents.. This lady even went as far as resigning from her job but my friend still refused to send her from his home. He assumed the role of "sole provider " saying he his the man.The woman has become a liability to him then. He was using an Hyundai car when he got married, now he has sold his car . My friend who was fair in complexion before is now black in complexion because of too much burden. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 29, 2018 |
Please don't kill yourself with burden because of ego.. Forget about "you're the man" stuff. When you get married and you see the commitment and burden that comes with marriage you'll understand what I'm saying. Marry a woman that will contribute. 16 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by smart6(m): 11:40pm On May 29, 2018 |
okwabayi: Yea, the case that cause palava in homes is where man and wife work but finance is oga's lot. That's the case type i wish to know how couple manage it. |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by MarieSucre(f): 11:42pm On May 29, 2018 |
akeentech: Happy Children's Day sir. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by spartacus11(m): 11:42pm On May 29, 2018 |
NaijaMutant: You're Not Married 3 Likes
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Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by flames01: 11:44pm On May 29, 2018 |
poshestmina: Maybe you did something that affected his trust in you. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by spartacus11(m): 11:45pm On May 29, 2018 |
unilagfreshest: 1 Like
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Re: Married Folks: What Changed After You Married Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:49pm On May 29, 2018 |
okwabayi: why should he disrespect her if she ask for money?? he thought he was wise when he told her to resign from her job.. I really don't understand the basis for your post. He told her to resign from her job so he must bear all the burden that comes with that decision. How some men find it easy to tell their wives to resign from their jobs and become full time housewives.. I still don't understand. Well.. Their choice. 1 Like |
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