Vianna:

What's the age diff?

Pipedreams:


But ur Moniker Bedlam says a diferent thing Are you sure your not living in a Bedlam?

paparazzi1987:
We had a very cute son

Got a new job

Got promoted twice within 18 month in my job

I Was able to easily raise funds to migrate to Canada for my msc.

Got a very attractive job in canada after my Msc

Now am patiently waiting for her and my son to Joine soon InShaAllah

CsRockefeller:


wow.... you got married at 25 how did you do it?
im currently doing my Nysc im 26, do you think i can get married next year?
i really want to get married early.

but im eager to hear your story.

greenguy:
Marry your friend. Love as the world knows it today is film trick. What keeps marriage is friendship. Every other factor hinges on it.

Vianna:

She was older than you when you both married?

BedLam:
Yes and still older

Vianna:
What's the age diff?

OrangeDream:
For the first time in my life, i felt violated by my own bathroom when her friend (the longest period in the world) paid her a visit.


She carries bushy hair around in the house like my grandmum and spit around too.


I don't even think my roof will survive our 5th anniversary cos that woman will snore it down very soon.



Worst, how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?.


I don't know whether to call this PREDICAMENT, PROBLEM OR PALAVA?

BedLam:
I wasn't even ready for dating when I met her. I just wanted to chop and clean mouth but this one hooked me. She was so nice and at first thought she was just trying to get me but realized she's nice to everyone and very supportive. We met when I was in a one bedroom apartment and she just moved in. Fast forward, I told her I wasnt ready to marry and she said she doesn't mind that when I'm tired I should tell her and she will move on. we got married 16 months ago. End of story for now.

meobizy:

However even friends grow apart. Differences in upbringing always rears its ugly head after a while. No matter how compatible you both are problems must arise.

Ssalk:
Marriage is not for the faint hearted, if you want to enjoy your marriage please always try to perform your duty as a man. The moment you stop doing your duty as a man, that will be the beginning of the end of marriage. Even if you have the best wife, there will be tension if you at man don't play your role. Finance is the major key success of marriage, I know this cos I have been married for 4years now except that she annoyed me with calls as if I am a baby.

The annoyance part with calls got me

pembisco:


Please grow up.

blazer2018:




Omo dis one weak me o....[/b]how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?[b].

"suck d soup and threw d meat bck inside d pot"....Jesus is lord..

But u guys kiss now; especially all those early morning kisses ...which is even better sef, raw saliva or cooked and spiced one?

GreatCracker:
Verily Verily i say unto you, that your marriage is highly exceptional

adaksbullet:
Mine wive his now alway wear no bra inside house go pamtless

She we no park his hair well too


She his slay is she's whant too go out, but she his alway turned granma inside house no pakage, notin notin


Even when she his wear pant, she we wear big pant insteed off g string



Am jus hate these mine last born his alway folo me drag wive boobs shai am suffer for the hand off the child

Since am born him, mine mouth his not torch mine wive boobi


Mine wive use too dance and shake his big boobty when we are still bf and gf, now, am not remembered the last time she's danced



All all, am still love mine wive






Mine wive has turned mine 6 parks too one round park

cliqtips:
This here is why some marriages fail... It's better not to have a BF or GF at all. because, the relationship most times mar marriages.

donogaga:




Do you really think that a woman that genuinely loves you and believes in you will insult you because you are skint/don't have money for a while? I doubt that.

Man must continue to hustle. the bills doesn't end. Responsibilities keeps coming. You must double your hustle.

smart6:
Please i am interested in the finance aspect, especially the one that said the man's money is the family's and the woman's hers. Kindly share how you pull this through after marriage.

mtngloetiartel:
son, u are drunk.

lilyheaven:
Everything changed.
He begged me to resign because of workload in the office, I accepted.
Now all he does is work, work , work.
Yes we have more money, additional cars, land properties, many relations to care for.
But I don't see my husband again.
Work has stolen him.
I just want him back, to spend time together, laugh and smile at each other the way it used to be.
Money is good but I don't find joy in them,
Dear husband I wish you can sacrifice 30 minutes of your time with me.

RALPHOW:
You will see his and her true colour no more pretend
If she is the type that insult, she will insult you like no man business especially if there is no money.
If he is the type that can not control himself he will beat her up mercilessly.
If she is the type that have home training she will respect you more if you have money
If he is the type that is gentle he will leave house for her instead of fight.
Bottom line guys make sure you get a good job before marraige. Forget all the pretend I will manage with you. Without money she will insult you.

okwabayi:

I'm not married but I believe a way to ameliorate this is for her to have a job. Working women have less demands and she can also help out either in children's fees or helping her family to an extent. If one marries a full time housewife it's your salary and food money she'll share between herself and family members.

akeentech:
Limited access to her b0obs. Me nd kid now sharing d boobs.

NaijaMutant:
I would have loved to share my experience but....

poshestmina:
No more 'follow follow'.
No more surprise gifts
No more keeping me in charge of his money ,ATM cards etc

unilagfreshest:
The experience has been fantastically sweet sour but the truth is am not yet married.

okwabayi:

You should get a nanny for the kids [if any] and find a less time consuming job for yourself.
I'm not married but if there's one thing I'm very sure of it's the disrespect which comes when you start asking him to provide money for everything. It may not start now, tomorrow or the next four years but trust me it'll happen eventually.