Yes it may sound like a joke but sincerely it's becoming a big problem to me. I don't knw how to deal with it so I brought it here as I know there are professionals on here.
I was a very diehard lover, but my first girl friend broke my heart after 5years of our relationship. She traveled abroad and I was shattered. Went to hospital for it. Then after the experience, I found out that something in me has changed.
I discovered I no longer have that long lasting feeling for anything including girls. Now I'm very well of age to marry but each girl I meet seems to be not good enough or can I say I just get tired after a few weeks.
My fear here is that if I should follow the advise from a friend and quickly marry without dating for long and make sure the relationship is a no-sex based, what if after marriage I get tired as usual? Won't it be like a prison? Because there is nothing she will do to please me once I'm tired and I become unbearably cranky.
In d past 3 years I've had up-to 47 girl friends and non lasted more than 2 Months.
One of the girls simply told I need to see a counsellor. That I treat women especially her like an item. After the watching me sell my TV, Phone and Car and replaced them all within a year she simply eased herself out of my life and we became just friends. She concluded I change everything like I change electronics including girls.
Pls what do I do? How can I tackle this issue? Pls Good advise is needed as I also knw many others like may benefit from such advices.
NOTE: No matter how beautiful, Rich, Independent, Nice or domesticated she is, two months and I'm very tired of her.
Pls Help!

Nawa o

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You'll marry when you are ready!

Bluezy13:
You'll marry when you are ready!

true talk

You have gamophobia.

just chill, you haven't met your own girl.

Understandable

We have the solution

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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You have gamophobia.

I don't think I'm afraid of marriage per say! I just believe maybe something is wrong somewhere.

It seems you already have a picture of how you want your relationship to look like and since it's not going that way you get tired of it..
You gat accept everyone is not like you, think like you or see things from your perspective.
Cut down your expectations and just go with the flow, cos you really can't have all you want in a relationship...


Jumping from one girl to another won't do the magic, it all begins with you.