Please, I need advice.
I am a young Igbo man of early thirties.
I am deeply in love with a young Igbo undergraduate Optometrist of 400L and I asked her to marry me on two private separate scenario firstly she said she is dating someone before I met her then secondly she said she will think about it and reply later.
But I love her so much and I don't know how to cope if she say no to my request.
Please, what should I do to ensure a positive response.

Don't do anything. It's not by force!

Hotzone:
Please, I need advice.
I am a young Igbo man of early thirties.
I am deeply in love with a young Igbo undergraduate Optometrist of 400L and I asked her to marry me on two private separate scenario firstly she said she is dating someone before I met her then secondly she said she will think about it and reply later.
But I love her so much and I don't know how to cope if she say no to my request.
Please, what should I do to ensure a positive response.

Do Nothing and take a walk, take her First Response as the answer,-- Later-- in most cases, is a polite way of saying not interested. She was very frank to tell you the truth, else trying to woo her might just earn you an executive friend zone on her waiting list.

Thou shalt not steal! OP the girl is taken. Girl Snatcher! That's how they will still snatch her from you.

Find substitute down. Make u no go commit suicide when she say no

kimbraa:
Don't do anything. It's not by force!

Hehehe...

I can imagine your facial expression as you said this, if this setting permitted vocalizations.

when u beg or cajole her to accept ur proposal, be ready to keep begging to sustain it all the way. as others have adviced, leave her to make her decision herself or take a walk and find urslf a better woman. u guys keep forcing love on a woman who doesn't love u. when u get burnt u run bk here crying like babies without mothers

Send Amadioha to woo her for you bro.

Remember this phrase *HOW YOU GET HER IS HOW YOU LOSE HER*

Juz stop telling urself that u love her...She is already taken sha but unless ofcurz u wanna her side mitch. Then that will be ur position forever with her..

Bluezy13:

Hehehe...

I can imagine your facial expression as you said this, if this setting permitted vocalizations.

It's funny seeing a guy ask such an absurd question. Some of them just can't take 'No' for an answer.

kimbraa:
Don't do anything. It's not by force!

I don't think am forcing her rather am just asking though, there also some signs that she's interested in me.
She calls, always visiting amidst of her studies.
I like her Christian inclination, seems like I can have a little patience just like she advised

mrstanley1:


Do Nothing and take a walk, take her First Response as the answer,-- Later-- in most cases, is a polite way of saying not interested. She was very frank to tell you the truth, else trying to woo her might just earn you an executive friend zone on her waiting list.

I can do something by having more patience since she encouraged the friendship
I think am the best for her, just have to always prove it!!!!

Hotzone:
I can do something by having more patience since she encouraged the friendship I think am the best for her, just have to always prove it!!!!

Good Luck!

If she reply you fine, if she didn't reply you don't force yourself on her simple.