pocohantas:


I saw them, I can tell the difference between gbagauns and typos.

pocohantas:


What if it's not my calling?

pocohantas:


So all women are rude?

OLAJADON:

I guess you are someone like that also you wouldn't mind talking rudely to your father's mate in your place of authority as well.

Finstar:


You're not competing with anyone on grammar usage. Please communicate.

DonPiiko:
Respect is earned not something you acquire as a result of old age.

OLAJADON:
this happened this afternoon at my workplace, an argument occur between an old man(in is late 50s) and a lady(around 22 or 23).
what happened was that there is this particular guy the man said he doesnt want to see in our work environment although the two were joking but this lady doesn't know that so she was trying to see what the man will do and told the boy to come inside that the baba can not do anything.
This actually made the man angry and the decided to chase the boy out for real and still she was stubborn while trying to make a meanless point. this lead to a heated argument that the lady was extremely rude to this man that I had to try to beg the Bros to please overlook the girl's deed. My opinion:-
1) For this young lady to talk to an old man like that definitely that how she talk to her parent at home
2) I asked my self for this lady to behave like this I wonder how she will treat her husband's family especially her husband mother. most of the time you don't have to be right as a lady, but still you must learn to overlook things
3) Either she is right or not does this give her the audacity to insult a man that is up to your father's age if not older than your father just to prove a point.
4) This are the kind of women that go into marriage and run out claiming victim of domestic violence which I don't support in anyway.
5) Although I am posting this as an example I have had countless experiences, majority of the women we have nowadays have no respect for anyone. then how will they respect their husband or his family at large? please if this continue who are the women we will get married to?
I know we have good women but the rate at which women are refusing to be submissive is becoming alarming

Ishilove:
I had a hard time following your narrative because of the lack of proper punctuation marks that pushed your presentation to the edge of incoherence.

A rude lady does not represent the entire feminine gender, and how you managed to link a workplace altercation between two adults to the high rate of divorce in modern Nigerian society baffles me and has left me scratching my head.

your article is a stinky mental fart, fouling up the atmosphere sorrounding logic and commons sense, and leading me to the conclusion that many Nairaland youths are irreedambly puerile and are always quick to write jejune epistles on things they no little about.

Ishilove:

the OP is a load of sexist bullshit. If it were printed on paper, I'd rip it out, spread it on the floor in the bush and _shit on it,

Ishilove:

I will send you a memo the day I give a flying fvck

Ishilove:
Op, first of all your syntax is atrocious. I had a hard time following your narrative because of the lack of proper punctuation marks that pushed your presentation to the edge of incoherence.

Second, you have made the abominable error of generalisation. A rude lady does not represent the entire feminine gender, and how you managed to link a workplace altercation between two adults to the high rate of divorce in modern Nigerian society baffles me and has left me scratching my head.

I thus agree with shaybebaby that your article is a stinky mental fart, fouling up the atmosphere sorrounding logic and commons sense, and leading me to the conclusion that many Nairaland youths are irreedambly puerile and are always quick to write jejune epistles on things they no little about.

pocohantas:


So all women are rude?

zicoraads:

Many Nairaland youths? Isn't that the same generalisation you preached against in your second paragraph?

I didn't even bother to read it. At a time I'm trying to develop myself, I cannot purposely put my brain on reverse by reading any of that.

zicoraads:

Many Nairaland youths? Isn't that the same generalisation you preached against in your second paragraph?

I didn't even bother to read it. At a time I'm trying to develop myself, I cannot purposely put my brain on reverse by reading any of that.

agbonkamen:
so what is the solution

Elder001:


Submissiveness is earned not something you acquire because you've a 'penis'.

One of the numerous problems with African men is they can't reciprocate the submissiveness. Submissiveness is supposed to be reciprocal (that's if you so much desire it) .
Marriage is all about communication and understanding not submissiveness because you're trying to lord over the woman with the submissiveness talk.
Please, don't tell me you paid bride price so you deserve whatever you want. no it doesn't work that way.

You can't turn a woman into your slave because you paid a little amount of money for bride price .


and also you work to earn respect. You're man doesn't automatically give you a right to be respected by the female folks.

MissJoy29:

I don't think "many" is used for generalisation. But "all" is.

pocohantas:
So this is the reason for high divorce?



You know we have good women, yet you are asking us who you will marry? Find one of the good women and marry na.

Abi you think as you guys are swallowing tramadol and all sorts, we are not scared of marrying drug addicts that'll butcher us?

agbonkamen:
so what is the solution

OLAJADON:
this happened this afternoon at my workplace, an argument occur between an old man(in is late 50s) and a lady(around 22 or 23).
what happened was that there is this particular guy the man said he doesnt want to see in our work environment although the two were joking but this lady doesn't know that so she was trying to see what the man will do and told the boy to come inside that the baba can not do anything.
This actually made the man angry and the decided to chase the boy out for real and still she was stubborn while trying to make a meanless point. this lead to a heated argument that the lady was extremely rude to this man that I had to try to beg the Bros to please overlook the girl's deed. My opinion:-
1) For this young lady to talk to an old man like that definitely that how she talk to her parent at home
2) I asked my self for this lady to behave like this I wonder how she will treat her husband's family especially her husband mother. most of the time you don't have to be right as a lady, but still you must learn to overlook things
3) Either she is right or not does this give her the audacity to insult a man that is up to your father's age if not older than your father just to prove a point.
4) This are the kind of women that go into marriage and run out claiming victim of domestic violence which I don't support in anyway.
5) Although I am posting this as an example I have had countless experiences, majority of the women we have nowadays have no respect for anyone. then how will they respect their husband or his family at large? please if this continue who are the women we will get married to?
I know we have good women but the rate at which women are refusing to be submissive is becoming alarming

jieta:
Is disappointing to read such puerile submission from you i would have expect a female to make such comment. but well! what you desire is what you get i won't allow a woman a paid peanut for to oppose me.

louken:
Op may not have presented his point well but there are elements of truth in what he said.

DonPiiko:
I swear down, old age don't trip me, just be civil and act your age.

mimimile93:


Is that lady a naija girl? Because that's how naija girls behaved. They don't have manners. They hate being corrected. Na over sabi dey worry dem

Ishilove:
Op, first of all your syntax is atrocious. I had a hard time following your narrative because of the lack of proper punctuation marks that pushed your presentation to the edge of incoherence.

Second, you have made the abominable error of generalisation. A rude lady does not represent the entire feminine gender, and how you managed to link a workplace altercation between two adults to the high rate of divorce in modern Nigerian society baffles me and has left me scratching my head.

I thus agree with shaybebaby that your article is a stinky mental fart, fouling up the atmosphere sorrounding logic and commons sense, and leading me to the conclusion that many Nairaland youths are irreedambly puerile and are always quick to write jejune epistles on things they no little about.

Ishilove:
Op, first of all your syntax is atrocious. I had a hard time following your narrative because of the lack of proper punctuation marks that pushed your presentation to the edge of incoherence.

Second, you have made the abominable error of generalisation. A rude lady does not represent the entire feminine gender, and how you managed to link a workplace altercation between two adults to the high rate of divorce in modern Nigerian society baffles me and has left me scratching my head.

I thus agree with shaybebaby that your article is a stinky mental fart, fouling up the atmosphere sorrounding logic and commons sense, and leading me to the conclusion that many Nairaland youths are irreedambly puerile and are always quick to write jejune epistles on things they no little about.

zicoraads:

So is 'majority' a sweeping generalisation? The poster said 'majority' of women...Ishilove quoted him and said OP generalized by using 'majority.' Then concluded by saying 'many' youths here are puerile and whatnot.

No one said "many" is used for sweeping generalizations. Many is used to refer to a certain majority as well. Which doesn't make any difference to what the OP posted.

You cannot castigate someone for using majority, then use "many", which also refers to majority as well.

But I'm the one she is embarrassed for

I chose to ignore every other quote that came after I posted. I cannot start teaching people that many and majority are one and the same.

These days, I really don't have time for inanities.

Ishilove:
Op, first of all your syntax is atrocious. I had a hard time following your narrative because of the lack of proper punctuation marks that pushed your presentation to the edge of incoherence.

Second, you have made the abominable error of generalisation. A rude lady does not represent the entire feminine gender, and how you managed to link a workplace altercation between two adults to the high rate of divorce in modern Nigerian society baffles me and has left me scratching my head.

I thus agree with shaybebaby that your article is a stinky mental fart, fouling up the atmosphere sorrounding logic and commons sense, and leading me to the conclusion that many Nairaland youths are irreedambly puerile and are always quick to write jejune epistles on things they no little about.

Humanistme:


olodo learn the difference between many, few, some & all.