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Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by hbrednic: 2:47am On Jun 04, 2010
Aloy+Emeka:

Read the response from Becomerich on this matter and ask yourself why the oba should be penitent when there are so many alayes supporting him.
unfortunately the corpse will not be laid in his fathers compound.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by AloyEmeka5: 2:51am On Jun 04, 2010
[size=14pt]Deji of Akure’s estranged wife’s health worsens [/size]
From Tunde Raheem, Akure

Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Barely 48 hours after the estranged wife of the Deji of Akure, Oba Oluwadare Adesina was bathed with a strange substance by the monarch; her state of health has deteriorated. The wife, Bolanle Adesina who was groaning in pains on Monday, Daily Sun gathered, had been moved from the state Specialist Hospital, Akure to the Federal Medical Centre Owo.




http://odili.net/news/source/2010/jun/2/500.html

The decision to move Olori Bolanle to the Federal Medical Centre was taken by her family members who were unhappy with her state of health.

Daily Sun gathered that the body of Olori Bolanle, a mother of two has continued to peel, which forced her family members to request for her transfer. The estranged wife of the Akure king had earlier told our correspondent that she would challenge the monarch’s unruly behaviour at the law court.

Olori Bolanle who spoke in a telephone interview, said: “I am not going to treat the matter with levity because he infringed on my human rights. He ordered me out of his house eight months ago and he came to assault me in my private residence.

“If not for the police that rescued me from him, what would we have been saying, maybe I would be dead by now. My family and I have resolved to take the matter to court.”

Meanwhile, prominent indigenes of Akure have continued to react to the King’s unruly behaviour in the public.

The former leader of the Ondo State House of Assembly, Kunle Agunbiade described the behaviour of Oba Adesina as repulsive and uncalled for.

Mr. Agunbiade said, “the Action of Oba Adesina is not only an embarrassment to himself but the entire Akure people who are noted for hospitality and good conduct.”
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by UcheUwadi(m): 3:03am On Jun 04, 2010
This was definitely a travesty.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Outstrip(f): 4:08am On Jun 04, 2010
Obviously he poured some sort of acid on her. Is there not a way to stop the reaction or it just has to burn itself out? I hope she comes out of this okay.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Remii(m): 7:16am On Jun 04, 2010
^^^^^ they said he poured hot ashes on the woman a symbol of inflicting someone with leprosy in Akure tradition. That in itself is a criminal act, like acid attack. The king should be arrested and prosecuted as required. Kings have have demoted, banished, arrested even jailed in Nigeria this should not be exception.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by clem2love(m): 10:05am On Jun 04, 2010
The oba is nothin but an animal. He should be made to pass throug the law.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by KnowAll(m): 10:38am On Jun 04, 2010
[size=14pt]Hopefully this scallywag would be the first Royal father to be locked-up, those lags behind bars would be opportune to give him a proper coronation and baptism of fire on his arrival at Kirikiri.

His bungling tatics in discipline an unruly Olori would be his crime and his own undoing, other sedent Royals would go about such enforcement by using well known hooligans in their communities without any trace OR recourse to the Royal Fathers.

But this uninitiated thug thought he was street-wise enough to know the rough and tumble of rascality, only to belittle himself and his Crown by falling into a gutter, what a sight that would be.[/size]
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by AloyEmeka5: 11:32am On Jun 04, 2010
Outstrip:

Obviously he poured some sort of acid on her. Is there not a way to stop the reaction or it just has to burn itself out? I hope she comes out of this okay.

I doubt Nigerian hospitals have the technology to cease the chain reaction of acid. Oba should at least pay for her medical trip to UK or US.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by obidia(f): 11:34am On Jun 04, 2010
Afenifere leader will say that cos its probably the kind of thing he can do or he doesn't want to castigate the monarch knowing fully well that the saying goes that Oba ba lori owun gbogbo meaning king reigns over everything,and nothing will come out of the report of his dis picable act.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by oluagness(m): 11:42am On Jun 04, 2010
Wretler!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by firebrand: 12:29pm On Jun 04, 2010
The kingmakers may come out with another abracadabra, because this is Africa where everything is tradition, and the kingmakers have to consult the oracle for the way forward.

My expectation from the oracle; THE KING MUST DANCE NAKED. That would pacify the gods of the land.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Dede1(m): 12:41pm On Jun 04, 2010
tpia.:

^^on the virtually non-existent occasions when you see eye to eye with yorubas, let it not be in the area of wife beating plz.

the olori is yoruba though i'm also surprised she didnt agree to be polygamous along with the oba.

Its a well known fact that yoruba obas are polygamous. Most times they dont have any choice in the matter, from what i hear.


My dear, I am perplexed you arduously referred the issue that involved a first class Oba in Yoruba culture and tradition as “virtually non-existent occasion”. Well, you once wrote that Yoruba land did not go through me while I domiciled in the land of richly culture and tradition. This is another pointer to a well known self–indictment. I shall remain oppose to people who tempted to portray the history of Protectorate and Nigeria through the lights of ethnic prism.

There are cultures and traditions that have witnessed worse than wife-beating by a royalty.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by otukpo(f): 12:55pm On Jun 04, 2010
culture indeed!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by favouredjb(f): 1:04pm On Jun 04, 2010
Dede1:

I pray Ifa to knock out a front tooth from the mouth of any punk that had spoken ill about Deji of Akure on the issue of beating his wife? Anybody who does not appreciate the culture and tradition of Africa is free to pack his/her dirty baggage and dash to Europe or North America.


you are just being sarcastic rite? undecided
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Kayflexy1(f): 1:59pm On Jun 04, 2010
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

I AM 2 SHOCKED AT THE OBA'S BEHAVIOUR AND TO THINK DAT I AM FROM ONDO STATE,WE ARE NOT KNOWN FOR PHYSICAL ABUSE INSTEAD A TYPICAL ONDO DUDE WOULD PROVE STUBBORN @ EVERY ATTEMPT GET HIM 2 DO SMTHING 4 U, HE IS OBVIOUSLY A BLACK SHEEP AND OTHER HE GOATS LIKE HIM WOULD STILL NOT LEARN.

I KNOW THAT CHIEF REUBEN WHO OPENED HIS god 4SAKEN MOTH 2 SAY THAT TRASH & I KEPT WONDERIN IF THAT IS D TYPE OF EFFECT DAT OLD AGE HAS BEEN HAVIN ON HIM LATELY

SO,THE SECOND HAND PRODUCT OF A NEW WIFE IS NOW SATISFIED, huh?
GOD PUNNISH ALL OF THEM WHO CARRIED OUT THAT ACTION AS WELL AS THOSE WHO SUPPORTED IT,
Msheeeew, nonsense of d highest order.Let him do street cleaning 4 @ least 2 years so dat he can come back 2 his senses, 2 MUCH OF BUSH MEAT wink
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Dede1(m): 3:43pm On Jun 04, 2010
Wife-beating and husband-beating are very common among commoners in Nigeria. I guess it is rare among royalties due to certain cultural and traditional protocols that guide them. Some folks are reacting in a manner similar to weird, hypocritical, counter-cultural, trivial, idiotic, immoral and anti-African behavior of present-day Europeans and Americans of USA.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by OAM4J: 4:03pm On Jun 04, 2010

[size=14pt]Why I fought my wife in public –Deji of Akure •As Ondo council of obas suspends him •His days are numbered –Lisa[/size]

THE embattled Deji of Akure, Oba Oluwadare Adesina, on Thursday, broke his silence on his involvement in a street fight with one of his wives, Bolanle, accusing her of infidelity and being a psychiatric patient.

Adesina also accused his estranged wife of being unreliable and a pathological liar who always fought with other occupants of the palace, adding that she had been impersonating him to dupe governors of huge sums of money.

The monarch, in a statement personally signed by him, alleged that the event of Sunday was meant to be a traditional rite to formally remove her as an Olori and to stop her from dressing as one.

According to him, the development angered her, because she did not want to be stripped of her status and resorted to vandalising his vehicle.

“Miss Bolanle Fadeyi was an Olori until about nine months ago. During the relationship, she proved to be unreliable, unfaithful and a pathological liar. She is wild, very promiscuous and engages in physical fights with every resident in the palace. She is a terror and became an embarrassment to the royal house of the Deji of Akure.

“The final straw was the termination of six months pregnancy as she was not sure of its paternity and that of her two other children for that matter. Consequently, she left, claiming that she wanted to live outside the palace as the rules and regulations were too stringent for her,” the statement read.

Adesina added that his estranged wife had continued to parade herself as an olori to the extent of defrauding people, including state governors, of money, claiming that he (Adesina) sent her.

The monarch said the accounts of the incident, as presented by Bolanle, were not correct as she was mentally ill.

Meanwhile, the Ondo State Council of Obas, on Thursday, suspended Oba Adesina from the council, following the alleged shameful street fight that he was involved in on Sunday.


http://www.tribune.com.ng/index.php/news/6374-why-i-fought-my-wife-in-public-deji-of-akure-as-ondo-council-of-obas-suspends-him-his-days-are-numbered-lisa

What an excuse!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by eros(m): 8:08pm On Jun 04, 2010
The leader of Afenifere is a disgrace to the people he leads. How can he say the Oba can do whatever he likes to his wife, like she was his play thing and not a human being. ANIMAL angry angry angry angry
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by AloyEmeka5: 7:50am On Jun 05, 2010
OAM4J:

What an excuse!

I knew it will boil down to calling her ashewo.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Ranoscky(m): 9:42am On Jun 05, 2010
daz naija 4 u. get rich or be opressed by the rich. . . useless set of rich animals.

how animals dey take get money at d first place? . . . i taught they'r animals? undecided
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by damilola15: 11:12am On Jun 05, 2010
you often here celebrities/well known people giving apologies for wrong doing in the west: that is after they have faced the law. but down here in Nigeria, face the law koo, apology nii.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by emiemi(f): 11:35am On Jun 05, 2010
[quote Scrap traditional rulers or watever disguise they may manifest. It is stupidity that allows governors, local govt chairman/woman,  judges, lawyers, police, and then this lazy and egostic people to have the same jobs; It creates accountability problems. Traditional chiefs in nigeria are way way too much. Some are real and many are not. In order to settle this, the whole traditional kini should be scrapped entirely and a day in a year should be decleared national traditional day eventhough every village has an important affair once a year atleast.
  Equality should be the driving force in scrapping this craps which can stop craps like this from occuring. [quote][/quote]

This is my take on the issue too. We have too many repeated institutions all doing nothing. We have no need of
Obas in this age and tyme. They have become OBSOLETTE
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 05, 2010
EhEn! dem don start. wetin concern Uni. of Maryland with Afenifere?

As for the kingmakers cabal, they are just washing their eyes now after the soap has taken its course. Where were they wen the man was appointed ruler? Probably eating amala and gbegiri. lol!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Dede1(m): 3:20pm On Jun 05, 2010
Aloy+Emeka:

I knew it will boil down to calling her ashewo.


You have been on reckless pursuit of mirage based on one side of the story. If you are really matured human being, you will fathom that this piece of accusation is very common and real in such a saga that involves Deji of Akure and Olori Balanle.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Ranoscky(m): 3:27pm On Jun 05, 2010
dirty oba and their dirty afenifere. God punish oba, i hate anything oba, na who dem dey oba sef? oba no fit oba mi oo!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by skfa1: 5:28pm On Jun 05, 2010
Ranoscky:

dirty oba and their dirty afenifere. God punish oba, i hate anything oba, na who dem dey oba sef? oba no fit oba mi oo!


Buahahahahah Ranoscky Brantashi, LOL grin grin grin

Beni ti e ri, i trust u, o ma fariga ni mennnn grin grin

King my azz cool
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jun 05, 2010
skfa1:


Buahahahahah Ranoscky Brantashi, LOL  grin  grin  grin

Beni ti e ri, i trust u, o ma fariga ni mennnn  grin  grin

King my azz  cool
grin
Dede1:

Wife-beating and husband-beating are very common among commoners in Nigeria. I guess it is rare among royalties due to certain cultural and traditional protocols that guide them. Some folks are reacting in a manner similar to weird, hypocritical, counter-cultural, trivial, idiotic, immoral and anti-African behavior of present-day Europeans and Americans of USA.
So what if they're common? Does it mean we have to continue to allow it?

You've stopped making sense. . . .  just hush, plz.

Dede1:


You have been on reckless pursuit of mirage based on one side of the story. If you are really matured human being, you will fathom that this piece of accusation is very common and real in such a saga that involves Deji of Akure and Olori Balanle. 

Whatever side of the coin you're dying to see, nothing can justify physical abuse.

And if you really did read the article, you'd have known the reason why she did not wish to see the king, the Ediot caught a temper and beat her to shred.
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by bolu1(f): 11:36pm On Jun 05, 2010
the king can do what he likes?
is that so, then she should slice is dick off, then she too will be doing what she likes
these stupid barbaric behaviors needs to be addressed
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Ranoscky(m): 6:34am On Jun 06, 2010
@skfa1

u dey laff? na tru na. . .d name oba sef is disgustin, make dem cancel dat oba of a tin make all man dey oba 'em sef

jare. Oba ko, abo ni. . .to hell with murder fukkin so called oba, RUBBISH! angry
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by member479760: 6:43am On Jun 06, 2010
“Removing an Alaafin of Oyo
Chief among the responsibilities of the Bashorun was the all important festival of Orun. This religious divination, held every year, was to determine if the members of the Mesi still held favor with the Alafin. If the council decided on the disapproval of the Alafin, the Bashorun presented the Alafin with an empty calabash, or parrot's egg as a sign that he must commit suicide. This was the only way to remove the Alafin because he could not be legally desposed. Once given the parrot's egg, the Bashorun would proclaim, "the gods reject you, the people reject you, the earth rejects you." The Alafin, his eldest son, and the Samu, his personal counselor and a member of the Oyo Mesi all had to commit suicide in order to renew the government all together. The process and suicide ceremony took place during the Orun festival.”

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oyo_Empire
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by Ranoscky(m): 9:16am On Jun 06, 2010
All dis rubbish na wetin so called oba dey cause! . . . oba the a$$ of my unborn baby!
Re: Wife-Beating Oba Vs Kingmakers, Human Rights Groups by favouredjb(f): 10:08am On Jun 07, 2010
Ranosky,lol grin

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