bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?


I wonder too.
Where do u want her to start from?

Elder001:
I guess this is why men are scared to file for divorce or reluctant to file for divorce because from the way it seems now the law assumes you've wasted the woman's life.

Like only women can file for divorce because if you do you'll lose much.. smh


I won't advice any man(not even my enemy) to do registry marriage .
If a lady insists on registry marriage please she can't be trusted, kindly cancel the wedding.

tete7000:
People go into marriage thinking it won't last. Marriage built on foundation of sand of distrust and mutual suspicion. Na by force to marry if you already from inception thinking it is not going to work? Devil has indeed taken over the hearts of people and enslaved them with his reign of fear.

Jethrolite:
Are there no prenuptial agreements in Nigeria? I see the church wedding as a waste of time and will only do registry and traditional marriages.

Waffarianman:




Bro no b off light mata, na realm mata. Abeg no do Court marriage wit any waffy babe o abeg.

Mak I crash as you talk. Lol

pocohantas:


I will rather shoot myself in the head than do this
Not with all I read these days, not with threads like this . I owe myself and my kids a good life. I will work for that life.

igbodefender:
Dem hold you make e no off light?

OMEGA009:
Who goes into a marriage with an option of divorce on their mind? Ever heard of the words “For Better or Worse”?

These NL children wee not kee me. If you don’t have the balls to go the whole 9 yards, go to Shoprite and buy a carton of Vaseline.

We’ve not gotten over our loss to Croatia and one broke nigguh is shouting “avoid court registry if you want to keep ya property”. Mtcheeew.

P.S: pls remember....

Chi59:
All the more reasons to do a registry marriage.

jaksmillioniar:
God bless u dear most wish to theif our property cos of marrage some born a child not for u but claim is urs. d best marrage is traditional cos if she cheat she bring pains and shame to her family and in some place is abomination she die

Owamudia:


But if it's based on infidelity, nothing for the woman. I hope you know that.

haslaw:


This shows you got married to him for the money.

freshkpomo:
marriage has turned to and investment bah?lord save us from parasites!!

Masterppower:
Court marriage is indeed a terrible disaster in the waiting....


While the original intent was good, bad and evil women/girls have exploited it for their personal aggrandizement.....


Guys, I second the ops opinion...

Elder001:



Marry a lady that has her own properties so she won't say you wasted her life.
You've your own properties ,I've mine.

we're both rich so there's no need requesting for any property.

If you can't do that I'll advice you not to attempt registry marriage.

ajiboye68:
I have been following this topic with keen interest, and I would like to ask some questions based on my present condition.. I am about to get married/nikkah next month, and I intend going for my masters overseas which means I will need a marriage certificate for my family cuz I see myself jetting out to another country for PhD also and would like to take my family along.. We both agreed with my wife - to-be to have a marriage certificate which will be produced by a court.. My questions are as follows

Does the certificate exempt me from marrying a second wife even in twenty years time, please I never said I am definitely taking a new wife, I just need to be sure of what I am about to do..

Does the certificate from the court also means in case of divorce although I never see it coming, we will have to share the property.

Is that marriage certificate the same as that of registry.

Thanks in anticipation of your answers

Ellabae:
Sincerely Court marriage is not my thing. Since I know I'm going nowhere. I have to trust my man enough. And I don't need to be so interested in my husband's properties. I jst need to make myself financially stable.

Elder001:


You're asking me that?

do registry marriage with a lady who knows the constitution very well and you'll know who's going to enforce it.

If you like go and do registry marriage.. suicide will end it last last

LordIsaac:

We can't put the cart before the horse ! Nay, it's the mentality of paying bride price that should first stop. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. That's common sense. We shouldn't embrace one part of culture and ignore its consequences !

milemimi93:
Check out the lives of US celebrities before and after divorce..

ImaIma1:


Not everyone understands what marriage is.

Many churches will not wed you without involving the court. Except the couple wants to do only traditional marriage.

Me i did trad, court, church. I didn't exactly insist on it. We both agreed to do all.

And he buys everything in my name. Every single thing. He said his dad did the same. So that no family will come and displace me in future.

Don't mind some guys here. It is just mouth.

YemiHadid:


Unfortunately, madam, ladies of nowadays are no longer ready to do the little things you listed up there... cook, clean, wash ke!? they say any man ready to marry them must be able to do those himself... abi is it not on this same Nairaland we read such 'ish'? Awon 'feminist gang'... u cant eat ur cake and still have it... As for children, i'll personally elect to take custody. I speak for no one!

Elder001:
I guess this is why men are scared to file for divorce or reluctant to file for divorce because from the way it seems now the law assumes you've wasted the woman's life.

Like only women can file for divorce because if you do you'll lose much.. smh


I won't advice any man(not even my enemy) to do registry marriage .
If a lady insists on registry marriage please she can't be trusted, kindly cancel the wedding.

mistyebby:





Girls, women all the time. Guys are the real golddiggers now. I know about 3guys who hurriedly sealed court wedding with women for their own is selfish interest.

As we speak, these men are yet to bring a cup of palmwine to their in-laws, talk of church wedding. Of course they have had children.

Just yesterday, my friend's boyfriend who has been milking her just suggested same court wedding. Who is the golddigger here??

A woman has "EVERYTHING" to lose from a relationship built on lies and falsehood regardless of who lied or was deceitful.. everything!!! While a man has " NOTHING " to lose.

May God always keep us away from deceitful and deceptive human beings through our life sojourn.. Amen.

onehouse:
First, I consider this as a myopic way of thinking about life and marriage.

As humans, we tend to want to have everything we can grab while alive but the truth is that no one gets out with a pin. Even in the grave, all these are being consume by ants and what have you.

On the other hand, I recall a story I read on motherhoodInStyle, the wife of this man has always pleaded to have registry wedding even after two kids. In the man in question refuses to give in cause he felt the mother of his two kids was after his properties.

Well, as God would have it, she go a job transfer to the US and she needed to relocate there permanently as well with her family - all expense paid. Friends, come and see how this man is begging to go do the registry wedding he once stood against for many years. Of course, it was obvious that the change in attitude was because of his needs to relocate to the US with his family and due to the poor state of his business.


In all, the lady in question has refuse to go to the registry with him and even the lady's father stood by her daughter on this. This simply explains the need to live life as easy as it comes without complicating life with the affection or need to acquire properties thus damaging precious gift of life such as good relationship with those in our lives.

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?