My brothers and sisters in the Lord *smiles* A novice in the art of dating is here for advice again oooo!!

I am an introvert, and talking to a lady is so fearful than you can imagine but thanks to you guys over here, i have been trying to overcome it.
There is this lady i am interested in but believe me or not, ever since i knew this girl, she has never walked alone, she is always in the company of her friends, i am now having the motion of calling her away in the midst of her friends.
Is it ideal for me to do so
I hate embarrassement so much and i won't want her to embarrass me!!!
Your opinions are highly needed!!!

I can relate... yeah u can call her aside nd talk to her. But I'd suggest u wait for the perfect time when she's alone.

She must be a LiverFOOL fan u know their slogan... *YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE*

So, be brave like the RED DEVIL & juz talk to her like normal ppol do..

kingxsamz:
I can relate...
yeah u can call her aside nd talk to her.
But I'd suggest u wait for the perfect time when she's alone.

Yeah, its cool but i was only thinkin d time may never come ni!! I mean d time she will walk ALONE

QueenSuccubus:



She must be a LiverFOOL fan u know their slogan... *YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE*

So, be brave like the RED DEVIL & juz talk to her like normal ppol do..

Sis, u think its easy just lyk dat

horlarwereleh:


Yeah, its cool but i was only thinkin d time may never come ni!! I mean d time she will walk ALONE

You usually see this girl in school right?

Don't make that mistake bro

horlarwereleh:
My brothers and sisters in the Lord *smiles* A novice in the art of dating is here for advice again oooo!!

I am an introvert, and talking to a lady is so fearful than you can imagine but thanks to you guys over here, i have been trying to overcome it.
There is this lady i am interested in but believe me or not, ever since i knew this girl, she has never walked alone, she is always in the company of her friends, i am now having the motion of calling her away in the midst of her friends.
Is it ideal for me to do so
I hate embarrassement so much and i won't want her to embarrass me!!!
Your opinions are highly needed!!!

Cc lalasticlala ishilove seun
help a brother out

kingxsamz:


You usually see this girl in school right?

No bro, there is an IJMB centre in my area nd she is doing some sort of coaching there!! But i do see her like twice in three days!!!

horlarwereleh:


Sis, u think its easy just lyk dat

Haba! Talking to a girl no be like CALCULUS ooo

U don't need any formula to solve the problem here.. U got mouth, then use it... Some ppol say , most relationships started from saying Hi-Hello maybe u too, can start from there.

N0favors:
Don't make that mistake bro

Wat advice do you have for a fellow brother, bro

horlarwereleh:
My brothers and sisters in the Lord *smiles* A novice in the art of dating is here for advice again oooo!!

I am an introvert, and talking to a lady is so fearful than you can imagine but thanks to you guys over here, i have been trying to overcome it.
There is this lady i am interested in but believe me or not, ever since i knew this girl, she has never walked alone, she is always in the company of her friends, i am now having the motion of calling her away in the midst of her friends.
Is it ideal for me to do so
I hate embarrassement so much and i won't want her to embarrass me!!!
Your opinions are highly needed!!!

Divide and conquer
If you know her schedule ask some of your kin,friends Male or female.
Engage the group with your wing men/women and ensure you manoeuvre yourself to have a few mins with her without an audience even if it is just asking for her number

QueenSuccubus:



Haba! Talking to a girl no be like CALCULUS ooo

U don't need any formula to solve the problem here.. U got mouth, then use it... Some ppol say , most relationships started from saying Hi-Hello maybe u too, can start from there.

Yeah, its true!! But we both know some girls are so saucy that when they lambast you like this, hmmm, u will always regret why you approached them!! In the midst of her friends Tufiakwa!!!!

MissRaine69:

Divide and conquer
If you know her schedule ask some of your kin,friends Male or female.
Engage the group with your wing men/women and ensure you manoeuvre yourself to have a few mins with her without an audience even if it is just asking for her number

Guess you didnt undstand me sis, *smiles* i am an introvert, where do u expect me to get all those wing men u mentioned

Flee from a lady who is always in circle of friends, A Woman has her lone time

horlarwereleh:


Guess you didnt undstand me sis, *smiles* i am an introvert, where do u expect me to get all those wing men u mentioned

You have relatives ....step outside the comfort zone just this once or someone else will overtake you. It’s a do or die situation

MariaLavina:
Flee from a lady who is always in circles of friends, A Woman has her lone time

Hmmmm, run away u mean!!!!

horlarwereleh:


Yeah, its true!! But we both know some girls are so saucy that when they lambast you like this, hmmm, u will always regret why you approached them!! In the midst of her friends Tufiakwa!!!!

you dey fear girls nil ?



wo lai if any Mumu girl talk pass her self when I try to approach them, I swear I go insult her till shame catch her



....OP girls are not monsters, in fact they ate the nicest people on earth except you have been rolling with agbero girls sha




be a man and be prepared for a positive outcome (always see things from the positive aspect)
last last na no she go talk


....and never you wait for that 'perfect' opportunity cause it will never come, the moment you refuse to approach her that day might be the day she find her lover, and you don't want that to happen don't you ?



beside about 80% of girls are shy and can't confront a guy, that's why they admire guys that do so with ease

First assure yourself that she is only mortal like you.

Then imagine what her worst reaction will be when you accost her.

Then imagine what you hope will be her reaction.

Then reassure yourself that you are irresistible.

Then walk up to her in the midst of her friends, and ask her if you can talk to her for a minute, ALONE.

If she doesn't excuse her friends or starts asking stupid questions like "why?" Or "what for", just tell her " never mind" and walk away thanking your lucky stars you didn't end up with a m0ron.

horlarwereleh:


Hmmmm, run away u mean!!!!

As an introvert that you are I'd advise you that, such Woman will give you a hard time.

But then you can try,You will gain experience if it fails

horlarwereleh:


Guess you didnt undstand me sis, *smiles* i am an introvert, where do u expect me to get all those wing men u mentioned

oya try befriending the ugliest girl in her clique, that way you can easily get her

ElsonMorali:
First assure yourself that she is only mortal like you.

Then imagine what her worst reaction will be when you accost her.

Then imagine what you hope will be her reaction.

Then reassure yourself that you are irresistible.

Then walk up to her in the midst of her friends, and ask her if you can talk to her for a minute, ALONE.


If she doesn't excuse her friends or starts asking stupid questions like "why?" Or "what for", just tell her " never mind" and walk away thanking your lucky stars you didn't end up with a m0ron.

at bolded

funny enough na broke ugly girls dey like do that nonsense

don't approach her(not because of being disgraced, but because she never walks alone, according to that she can be influenced and this means she's not the INDEPENDENT TYPE, she's the type that do not think on her own,tbh girls like that irritate me)......Ball is in your court, I'm not here to discourage you though, but that's exactly what I see....have a nice day

QueenSuccubus:



She must be a LiverFOOL fan u know their slogan... *YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE*

So, be brave like the RED DEVIL & juz talk to her like normal ppol do..

The girlfriends of a girl are her protectors. It is safe to say that should he approach her in their presence, she'll quickly get carried away by friends.

@ Op

There's a way for that.

1. Approach.

Approach the whole group without making it obvious to your target that you fancy her. Instead, talk more to her friends and make them like you first. Very important!

2. Neg her
........


3. Isolate
.........

4. Close.
........

Hope you're above 18 'cause info like these could be dangerous when used without care.

op you need to enrol into a school of wooing, and go for a 6 months programm.

my sincere input is that you should try and approach any of her friends first, that will not be too intimediating as her, because the p#easure will be less.

MissRaine69:


You have relatives ....step outside the comfort zone just this once or someone else will overtake you. It’s a do or die situation

lol it's funny when u guys say stuffs like this...
If it were that easy he would have stepped out of it long ago.

Wait for her on her way home. Walk up to her, greet her and her friends and ask her for a few minutes of her time. She'll be surprised and curious.
Introduce yourself. Tell her, you've been noticing her for a while and you like her personality. Don't over flatter her, it's creepy and gives off a wrong vibe.
Ask her if she doesn't mind you getting to know her better. If she's not willing to give you her number. Ask for her facebook username. It's a step in the right direction.

Stop being shy. She won't ask you out. Most females won't. So, go and talk to her. She won't bite. And if she's not interested, someone else will come along.

ElsonMorali:
First assure yourself that she is only mortal like you.

Then imagine what her worst reaction will be when you accost her.

Then imagine what you hope will be her reaction.

Then reassure yourself that you are irresistible.

Then walk up to her in the midst of her friends, and ask her if you can talk to her for a minute, ALONE.

If she doesn't excuse her friends or starts asking stupid questions like "why?" Or "what for", just tell her " never mind" and walk away thanking your lucky stars you didn't end up with a m0ron.

On point. If she's unwilling to excuse herself from her friends, don't say anything to her. Just tell her "have a nice day"

Chi59:

On point. If she's unwilling to excuse herself from her friends, don't say anything to her. Just tell her "have a nice day"

Exactly.

kingxsamz:


lol it's funny when u guys say stuffs like this...
If it were that easy he would have stepped out of it long ago.

Sometimes only true grit will get you where you need be even if you are an introvert

Chi59 ElsonMorali DEIFIED MissRaine69 kingxsamz SirMichael1 kodded MariaLavina

Thank you so much guys, i really appreciate your comments!!

horlarwereleh:


Thank you so much guys, i really appreciate your comments!!

You welcome. All the best.