It is very much ok as long as you are single; but when you have a relationship stay away from flirt cuz u'll stay away from trouble oo!

Don't start what u can't finish.
Yes, flirting may be sweet and fun , and your intentions might not be serious, but how about the lady or guy on the receiving end , do they know you are just joking and not really serious. What if they start to stalk you, what if they think they are heartbroken because you suddenly stopped flirting with them.
The lesson here, you might be matured and know where to draw the lines, but how about miss believing or mr excited who might mistake the flirting for real intentions. So please maintain your honourable integrity and leave flirting for the minds who need it to get going by the day ( its not drugs!!!! so am sure you can do without flirting from now on )

@breeolan

im feelin a lil ahead of ma game, wana flirt a lil?

flirting is ok i think , anyway we all flirt to an extent.

If played within d right concept, it can be an ego booster.

It also result in positive thinking for different scenario.

@ de

its no crime. infact its good for the soul

Flirtin is Totally, Absolutely Vital, its  fun, fun,fun ! for me anyways, wotever tickles your pickle i say 

healthy it is. once it ain't leading to the normal evil intentions men normally hav when they see a hot girl

Well if your flirting means sleeping around, that's not ok,stick to one person and treat her like an angel.

cyprianjr:

Well if your flirting means sleeping around, that's not ok,stick to one person and treat her like an angel.

flirting en baba na good thing ooooo. we all do it init but is all about emotion and dont let your emtion go over your head so that you won't get yourself into mess
FLIRTYING HEALTHY BAAJEEE

dnt fnk tis. it diminishes ur self esteem.hey, u're worth alot more dn dt!

splurge:

dnt fnk tis. it diminishes your self esteem.hey, u're worth alot more dn dt!

Do we go back to English class? Do I explain what selfesteem means

"Flirting diminishes your selfesteem"? Where did you get this from?

I think what he/she meant is if the person at the receiving end doesnt respond or feels like
'who the hell is this one flirtting with ', it could be a degraded self esteem for the former.

brownbaby:

I think what he/she meant is if the person at the receiving end doesnt respond or feels like
'who the hell is this one flirtting with ', it could be a degraded self esteem for the former.

'nuff said!

Yea, like Breolan said, its like all these drugs that come with the warnin on the bottle- "keep out of reach of children." For the real emotional fellows, don't mess wit it but if u got the heart to take it, why not, step up your game.

no harm in it, except wen its ur girlfriend/boyfriend doin it!!

i guess its only meant for mature minds. its an adventure u guys. really. you dont have to get down. it depends on the individual nways.

brownbaby:

I think what he/she meant is if the person at the receiving end doesnt respond or feels like
'who the hell is this one flirtting with ', it could be a degraded self esteem for the former.

I disagree. Flirting is just fun. How does that affect your selfesteem?

If the second party doesn't respond, to hell and move on. It's just for fun. Shouldn't take it too seriously.

thanks jare radiant. u see the picture

@ otoidea,

you're feeling a lil ahead of ur game? good for u, so ur style of flirting is informing ur prey of wat ur abt to do, well sori, doesnt work for me dat way, and more over, i choose who i wanna flirt with, you dont choose me,

right now, am too busy for flirting, got work to do, sori nxt time

brownbaby:

I think what he/she meant is if the person at the receiving end doesnt respond or feels like
'who the hell is this one flirtting with ', it could be a degraded self esteem for the former.

hey brown baby,
u are getting it all mixed up, it doest do anythg to ur self esteem and if it does in any way, its got to be positive, basically jst see flirting as a game, relax ur mind n be free. make sure ur partner is smeone dat is already feeling u, like if hez tripping or smethg, its so much fun attimes or more of d times, so it has noin to do wif self esteem at all

Flirting is mad fun, especially when the other person knows how to keep u going and what u like,

heck, i'm a natural born flirt! (cant help it, i just got to feel like i am still appreciate-able, does it boost my EGO, Yes Oh!!, and it is healthy, because then u dont bcome overly-reliant on ur guy like he is last guy on earth and u have to be putting up with utter rubbish from him), and ur guy knows u love him and respect him, but he's got to be on top of his game at all times.

But the 'flirtor' and the 'firtee' (im not sure these words exist) have to have similar rules / expectations for both sides to enjoy it, otherwise it might feel like one side is coming on too strong (usually teh guy) and then it becomes 'stalking/ petering'

If ur a flirt and ur in a relationship, u gotta know ur limits, i know mine oh,  i will flirt with u, but just dont think i will jump into bed with u, lol, the fact that ur cute or a smooth talker doesn't make u relationship material

i think FLIRTING OPENLY INFRONT OF YOUR PARTNER, OR WITHIN THE SAME NETWORK OF FRIENDS IS A DEFINITE NO-NO AND VERY DISRESPECTFUL-plz do not do it, esp if ur partner is the jealous type

The more you flirt thinking its nothing serious the more you get entangled some day. Just as the two meaning implies but the danger is that we can get confused some times. There fore flirtiing to an extent should be curtailed before some body gets hurt.

Think its good, keeps you mentally active!

yes healthy for those who play well and safe

ST3V3:

Think its good, keeps you mentally active!

olrotimi:

yes healthy for those who play well and safe

luxoire:

Flirting is mad fun, especially when the other person knows how to keep u going and what u like,

heck, i'm a natural born flirt! (can't help it, i just got to feel like i am still appreciate-able, does it boost my EGO, Yes Oh!!, and it is healthy, because then u don't bcome overly-reliant on your guy like he is last guy on earth and u have to be putting up with utter rubbish from him), and your guy knows u love him and respect him, but he's got to be on top of his game at all times.

But the 'flirtor' and the 'firtee' (im not sure these words exist) have to have similar rules / expectations for both sides to enjoy it, otherwise it might feel like one side is coming on too strong (usually the guy) and then it becomes 'stalking/ petering'

If your a flirt and your in a relationship, u gotta know your limits, i know mine oh, i will flirt with u, but just don't think i will jump into bed with u, lol, the fact that your cute or a smooth talker doesn't make u relationship material

i think FLIRTING OPENLY INFRONT OF YOUR PARTNER, OR WITHIN THE SAME NETWORK OF FRIENDS IS A DEFINITE NO-NO AND VERY DISRESPECTFUL-plz do not do it, esp if your partner is the jealous type

May joy and more blessings be yours always!

Will drink to the best sport in life! FLIRTING!---Who wants to end up in bed for heaven's sake? Like we have not had enough of that?

if you flirt with me, i'll take you from your man

so i guess the consensus is,

fun wen its clean

use to think it was a crime
but after getting attitude from guys i decided to join d club and enjoy what dey're enjoying.
fun init

Every youth flirts at 1 point or the other, knowingly or unknowingly n