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Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 07, 2012
To me, i don't think it is grin grin what's your opinion?
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by ghettodreamz(m): 8:39pm On Oct 07, 2012
bennyraz: To me, i don't think it is grin grin what's your opinion?

Check your dictionary for the meaning of the two words, that should give you an idea..
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by 190: 8:42pm On Oct 07, 2012
Hell NO!!

Flirting isnt cheating,

I flirt everyday not dat im cheatin on my 7gurlfriends instead im training my skills and keeping up the MODERN GAME cool cool

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Oct 07, 2012
ghettodreamz:

Check your dictionary for the meaning of the two words, that should give you an idea..
i see.. ur opinion though
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 07, 2012
190: Hell NO!!

Flirting isnt cheating,

I flirt everyday not dat im cheatin on my 7gurlfriends instead im training my skills
hi-5 grin grin u're game bro, flirting aint cheating grin
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Oct 07, 2012
It depends on your partner. To some, it can be disrespectful and hurtful and that almost means cheating.

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by 190: 9:27pm On Oct 07, 2012
ItsModella: It depends on your partner. To some, it can be disrespectful and hurtful and that almost means cheating.


YAWNS!! undecided undecided
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 07, 2012
@op. It depends on diff people..naturally flirting is not cheating. But flirting is an ingredient for cheating. If u see ur babe or guy flirting..u had better fasten ur belt! It may or it may not lead to cheating.
But its not definitely not cheating.
190: Hell NO!!

Flirting isnt cheating,

I flirt everyday not dat im cheatin on my 7gurlfriends instead im training my skills and keeping up the MODERN GAME cool cool
u dis guy i've been watching you for a while..u too like to dey form player and d thing no fit you. angry angry

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 07, 2012
booqee: @op. It depends on diff people..naturally flirting is not cheating. But flirting is an ingredient for cheating. If u see ur babe or guy flirting..u had better fasten ur belt! It may or it may not lead to cheating.
But its not definitely not cheating.
food for thought @ bolded.. off topic. my dear, u dey nairaland so i no dey see ur break light o smiley
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 07, 2012
Flirting in a relationship may not necessarily mean cheating. But in marriage, I see it as cheating. Why should a married man or woman flirt with his secetary or her boss? Vice versa in any case

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by JallowBah(f): 10:24pm On Oct 07, 2012
bennyraz: To me, i don't think it is grin grin what's your opinion?

Dont do anything behind your partners back that you would not do in front of your partner.

Easy as that.

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by JallowBah(f): 10:25pm On Oct 07, 2012
candygosh: Flirting in a relationship may not necessarily mean cheating. But in marriage, I see it as cheating. Why should a married man or woman flirt with his secetary or her boss? Vice versa in any case

And why is it ok in a relationship, but not in a marriage? The paper makes a different between respecting your spouse or not..?
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by prettyify(f): 10:39pm On Oct 07, 2012
Hell yea!!! All u guys will be fyn if ur girlfriend is doing it ryt? grin

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by searchcorp(m): 10:42pm On Oct 07, 2012
You don't want to go about flirting with everybody. M3hn, Intergrity matters a lot!

Yes, on that note, Yes... Its same thing. Same ni.
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Oct 07, 2012
Flirting is cheating only in a marriage. It is not encouraged when you are in a serious relationship, contemplating to marry someone or contemplating getting serious with someone, but when it happens, it cannot be classified as cheating. . .

You cannot cheat on who is not yours. You do not own them yet!

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Oct 07, 2012
190:


YAWNS!! undecided undecided
undecided undecided undecided
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 07, 2012
prettyify: Hell yea!!! All u guys will be fyn if ur girlfriend is doing it ryt? grin
Flirting does more harm than good. The question is, why would you wanna harm yourself? Why would you flirt? I won't be happy seeing her flirt, but there is nothing i can do about it.

If it bothers me that much, I'll take a walk! No need getting egotistical and all worked up over someone i am not married to. . . Its not worth it!
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 07, 2012
190: Hell NO!!

Flirting isnt cheating,

I flirt everyday not dat im cheatin on my 7gurlfriends instead im training my skills and keeping up the MODERN GAME cool cool
this one you dey brag with ya 7 girlfriends,na wa for you o! I hope you have the strength to satisfy them sha.
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Jglad(f): 10:49pm On Oct 07, 2012
No flirtin is nt cheatin...bt its one tin dat leads to d oda and most tyms, flirtin doesnt end on a gud note because more Nigerians misquote tinz alot...
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Booty4me: 10:49pm On Oct 07, 2012
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Am coming Back with an Anwser cool Mr Thread Starter
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Goldieluks: 10:49pm On Oct 07, 2012
Flirting with an intention to date or get laid by a person, is cheating.
But flirting without intention, and no strings attached to it, cannot be classified as cheating.


Take NL for example, most people flirt with each other, without any intention.

Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by ITbomb(m): 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2012
When flirting turn to romance, it is called cheating
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2012
berem: this one you dey brag with ya 7 girlfriends,na wa for you o! I hope you have the strength to satisfy them sha.
u dey mind am? he gat nada...na for nairaland him pack all these imaginary girlfriends.

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Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by DukeNija(m): 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2012
berem: this one you dey brag with ya 7 girlfriends,na wa for you o! I hope you have the strength to satisfy them sha.

Is it a Crime to dream?
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 07, 2012
To All those saying "Hell Yeah, it ain't cheating", don't get crossed when your Significant other flows in the same vein. undecided
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Goldieluks: 10:51pm On Oct 07, 2012
ItsModella:
u dey mind am? he gat nada...na for nairaland him pack all these imaginary girlfriends.




Duke_Nija:

Is it a Crime to dream?



grin grin grin
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Riskyman(m): 10:52pm On Oct 07, 2012
Flirting either in a marriage or relationship is a sign of disrespect and disregard. Infact, its a way of telling your BF/GF to get ready you might be leaving him/her soon.
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Kslib(m): 10:57pm On Oct 07, 2012
in the first place,you need to ask yourself "why am i flirting"? It all boils down to the reason behind the act...
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 07, 2012
JallowBah:

And why is it ok in a relationship, but not in a marriage? The paper makes a different between respecting your spouse or not..?
good! In a relationship, u can't be so sure if you guys would end up together. Myself as a gurl, I flirt! Doesn't mean I don't love my guy. Smiling or throwing of my eyelash at a guy I consider charming is not totally wrong. But being engaged to a guy and flirting is cheating; cos who knows I may be flirting with anoda guy am not engaged to who maybe seeing more to the flirts could cause great problems and who knows pose a threat to the ties I have with the guy am engaged to.
Btw I never said flirting is ok in a relationship.
Re: Can Flirting Be Considered As Cheating? by digitalgeorgy(m): 11:09pm On Oct 07, 2012
Premit me to say this... Flirtng (to me) even in marriage is nt considered as cheatng. Eg abraham, sarah n hagar story, dats flirtng nt cheatng. Sinc abraham had no intentn of dumpng aunty sarah to marry sis hagar, den its flirtng. I petty married man wit prgnt wife, NOTYN 4 u whn she's heavy n also whn she newly gvs birth. If u mis-do at dis point, hoping to go bck to her wit no string attched, 4 ME, i term dat flirtng to survive nt cheatng.

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