jennifermahan:
The topic on rape and consent has been going on for a while and the debate has always been “Her No means NO” whether or not, she led you on to the point that you want to get down with her, or that you’re already getting down and then she refuses to go any further.

Scenarios that could be possibly lead to rape have discussed a lot and a Twitter user has brought another angle and asks if it’s a must that sex must happen because of that scene.

According to @hrp_endowed on Twitter, the fact that a lady sleeps naked next to a guy shouldn’t prompt sex – she says that Self Control is what most men need in this age and time.

Read her:
So because I sleep naked next to a guy, sex must happen I beg to differ please.

Self control is just what most of you need, pathetic lot!

source : https://www.made4naija.com/2018/06/so-because-i-sleep-unclad-next-to-a-guy-sex-must-happen-twitter-user-asks/

dukeprince50:
the poster above me made sense sha.

You can't just show the promise land and expect the children of Israel not to enter na

MODIFIED :
if she is ur girlfriend then it's understandable, the temperature in the room is high and she wants to sleep unclad but if she is just a visitor and she sleeps nake.d and says no sex, bro rape her, it's a long night, no one should put chicken in ur plate and expect u not to eat.

But then Daniel entered the lions den and lion no chop am o, so I deh confused.

omoelerin1:
E ma binu ma.

jennifermahan:
The topic on rape and consent has been going on for a while and the debate has always been “Her No means NO” whether or not, she led you on to the point that you want to get down with her, or that you’re already getting down and then she refuses to go any further.

Scenarios that could be possibly lead to rape have discussed a lot and a Twitter user has brought another angle and asks if it’s a must that sex must happen because of that scene.

According to @hrp_endowed on Twitter, the fact that a lady sleeps naked next to a guy shouldn’t prompt sex – she says that Self Control is what most men need in this age and time.

Read her:
So because I sleep naked next to a guy, sex must happen I beg to differ please.

Self control is just what most of you need, pathetic lot!

source : https://www.made4naija.com/2018/06/so-because-i-sleep-unclad-next-to-a-guy-sex-must-happen-twitter-user-asks/

dangotesmummy:
apology accepted

jennifermahan:
The topic on rape and consent has been going on for a while and the debate has always been “Her No means NO” whether or not, she led you on to the point that you want to get down with her, or that you’re already getting down and then she refuses to go any further.

Scenarios that could be possibly lead to rape have discussed a lot and a Twitter user has brought another angle and asks if it’s a must that sex must happen because of that scene.

According to @hrp_endowed on Twitter, the fact that a lady sleeps naked next to a guy shouldn’t prompt sex – she says that Self Control is what most men need in this age and time.

Read her:
So because I sleep naked next to a guy, sex must happen I beg to differ please.

Self control is just what most of you need, pathetic lot!

source : https://www.made4naija.com/2018/06/so-because-i-sleep-unclad-next-to-a-guy-sex-must-happen-twitter-user-asks/

Ashley86400:

So are you saying all men want to do is rape women? If your keeping meat beside a dog theory stands. . .

Jiang:


Then stop encourage people to rape a woman just because she's unclad in front of you.

I for one always do things in consideration for my future generations, I will not do anything to a woman that I will not be happy if same is done to my daughter

Tozara:
Rubbish! Beats me how you think this to be appropriate. If your girlfriend, fiancee or wife undresses before another man, what would be your reaction? What meaning would it have to you?

You, that lady friend of yours, the both of you are not okay upstairs.

Like WTF! I'm even irritated right now. Like my girlfriend would be undressing before another nigga, and the idiot would still have the confidence to say it without remorse. The motherfucker is even defending such shitty behaviour.

Mosesm:


You no be a complete man then. And she? She no get home training.

cruchenutii:


I have a good feeling you are under 16 years old. If not, I would be very dissapointed.

okerekeikpo:
u are a suspect , infact u are a rapist

khalids:


Something is wrong with the two of you......Devil just they use una play guitar, you don know....

dukeprince50:
the poster above me made sense sha.

You can't just show the promise land and expect the children of Israel not to enter na

MODIFIED :
if she is ur girlfriend then it's understandable, the temperature in the room is high and she wants to sleep unclad but if she is just a visitor and she sleeps nake.d and says no sex, bro rape her, it's a long night, no one should put chicken in ur plate and expect u not to eat.

But then Daniel entered the lions den and lion no chop am o, so I deh confused.

Gbemishile1:

then teach your daughter in the right path of the lord so as to avoid stories that touch
oga ade,leave trash for lawma
if a girl sleeps unclad on your bed,you will do it.
Stop proving saint where there is none.
The best bet for you is to caution her to sleep with her clothes on
or else,oga you will do the do jooooor

BarleyBarn:


Errmm...did u just say she's engaged?? And she's that loose with her fiance's privacy?? Thats not trust, that's irresponsibility! I wonder what people even consider "relationship" these days.

Anyway, Bro u sound decent enough to look away as u say, but I would expect that u caution that behavior for the sake of the mystery fiance. I mean, would u be okay with ur own fiance doing that with one of her "cronies"??
PLEASE LETS BE RESPONSIBLE!

topcatking:


Fine. but heres the deal.

1- You said she is engaged - That's the problem. She is legally promised to another man, but forms a deep friendship with you - A guy, with blood flowing in his veins. That's not an advisable thing ''Examine MOTIVE''.

2- She undresses in your presence and dresses half unclad. in your presence. What is an engaged lady undressing in front of a guy for? Like..Engaged for crying out loud. Check motives, both hers and yours --and it wasn't wrong to you? looking away doesn't count.

3-- she trusts you? I dont know why this makes me laugh.

Nothing is meant to be overlooked bruv- Lets be honest ''You have screwed her ...in your mind...several times over. And she probably wanted you to.


If her husband or fiance came in on you both when she was undressing in front of you, will you tell him that: [/b]some things are better overlooked?[b]

pocohantas:


Tell her she is not okay. If another lady undresses in her man's front, she'll come open menasum thread on NL.

ALAYORMII:



Its totally wrong of ur female friend to be nakeddd in ur presence

To even think she's engaged

Can she tell her fiancée that she does that In ur presence??

austyn0:
Do not view it that way,,It depends on the kinda relationship with the girl...

I have this female friend that is engaged while living at the northern part of the country,, more like a crony...She undresses in my presence and dresses half unclad while we chat,, I only look at something else while she pulls off her dress,, she trusts me to that extent...

Some things are just meant to be overlooked.

austyn0:








Wow.......Typical blacks,,, running into conclusion bereft of the real deal..

austyn0:
Do not view it that way,,It depends on the kinda relationship with the girl...

I have this female friend that is engaged while living at the northern part of the country,, more like a crony...She undresses in my presence and dresses half unclad while we chat,, I only look at something else while she pulls off her dress,, she trusts me to that extent...

Some things are just meant to be overlooked.

dangotesmummy:
exactly. Yorubas say the thing you don't want to eat, you don't put it near your nose. If you don't want his penis inside your vagina, why are you sleeping naked on his bed? Is he impotent that he won't have erekshion? And when he has erekshion you think something will not happen? And if something eventually happens and you scream rape the first question the lawyer will ask you is did he force you to his house or his bed?



I a a woman and it's irritating when women will look for trouble and when they find the Trouble they were looking for will begin to play victim.

austyn0:





Laughs....I can't imagine how big of a deal y'll made this....

Here is a brief story....

The lady in question is living with the fiance's family,, she came down all the way from another state..It took us abou six months to start our friendship through my intervention in a fallout with their neighbor[Never knew she was actually searching for a friend]..

Fast-forward two years,,I was the only real male friend she had,, we got so close that my friends thought we were dating,, she was like a sister and I was like a brother,, the family of her fiance understood how close we are and how deep our friendship is...

She cannot tell me to excuse her when she wants to UnCloth,, she knows I either will walk away,, look away or watch her UnCloth but she knows I know my limits..

To other dudes she forms a lot,, but I got to win her heart,, why?? Its all on trust,, something most of us have issues with...

YelloweWest:

What exactly is the right path of the Lord?

I slept almost nakèd with a guy, he made advances but I said no. He didn't rape me! At the time he was a stranger. It was only our 2nd time meeting.

MissJoy29:

It IS a big deal!

Quick question though. Answer sincerely. Will you be comfortable if your girl is that close to another man? Can you honestly be ok with a mental picture of your girl undressing in front of another man who sometimes doesn't even look away because "he knows his limits" ?

MissJoy29:
cos she can NEVER EVER EVER be the same way with him as she is with you.

YelloweWest:

What exactly is the right path of the Lord?

I slept almost nakèd with a guy, he made advances but I said no. He didn't rape me! At the time he was a stranger. It was only our 2nd time meeting.

YelloweWest:

What exactly is the right path of the Lord?

I slept almost nakèd with a guy, he made advances but I said no. He didn't rape me! At the time he was a stranger. It was only our 2nd time meeting.

austyn0:





Laughs....I can't imagine how big of a deal y'll made this....

Here is a brief story....

The lady in question is living with the fiance's family,, she came down all the way from another state..It took us abou six months to start our friendship through my intervention in a fallout with their neighbor[Never knew she was actually searching for a friend]..

Fast-forward two years,,I was the only real male friend she had,, we got so close that my friends thought we were dating,, she was like a sister and I was like a brother,, the family of her fiance understood how close we are and how deep our friendship is...

She cannot tell me to excuse her when she wants to UnCloth,, she knows I either will walk away,, look away or watch her UnCloth but she knows I know my limits..

To other dudes she forms a lot,, but I got to win her heart,, why?? Its all on trust,, something most of us have issues with...

austyn0:


Chuckles....Relax dear,, she is a mother of two today...

omoelerin1:
But I did not offend you in the first instance.