The name divorce has been a household word for people who need it, or just take it as fashion on self-realization for the never ending illusion for the search of Miss or Mr. Right for a mate in life. Even in the confines of the most settled or established homes the word divorce hovers as a threat to the solemnity of conjugal partnership because of the environmental changes in trends, culture, ignoring some already practiced social conventions.

To be scared of divorce is no longer accounted in such places as United States, Japan, Korea, and Canada, United Kingdom and the commonwealth. As matter of fact, the rise in the U.S. Canada, United Kingdom and the Commonwealth countries is phenomenal that it becomes more of a fashion in todays society. There are still countries, more strongly attached to their traditional roots and values such as the Philippines and some other Asian countries that merely ignore away any proposition in the legislature to adapt divorce.

These countries though they could perceive the real need of divorce are simply not adept toward the impact of some harsh realities experienced by some people within the conjugal partnership. These people are beset by conditions and problems that cant be resolved and the only way out is to find a legal means to free from each other from the bondage of marriages brutalities that connect husband and wife who find no solution to their differences. In the Bible, Jesus speaks of divorce in exceptional unresolved cases in married life. However, though, conditions in what he wanted to apply in the kind of divorce he taught is rampantly tampered, that of not marrying another again. Still sticking to the spiritual rule Let no man put asunder.

Impact of divorce to the defunct family (husband, wife, and children), the effects carried about in that marriage (dividing material things acquired, rights covered by the law, such as custody to children, alimony, etc) is tremendous. Legal fights in courts find it so unwholesome to the growing kids. Other children who are growing up psychologically immature are thrown to traumatic state they suffer for the rest of their lives.

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Nigeria the woman. When she has no money or job/business

The Ancestors

The children

Olalan:
The children

the woman and the children, a divorced man will see wife easily but a divorced woman will find it hard, stigma and the mans family, the children will suffer the most, they wouldnt grow up whole, they will have to mature fast to bear everything

The children always suffer especially when the parents use them as pawns

iamJ:
the woman and the children, a divorced man will see wife easily but a divorced woman will find it hard, stigma and the mans family, the children will suffer the most, they wouldnt grow up whole, they will have to mature fast to bear everything

How many men have custody of their children? As compared to women?
How many women are making it very difficult for the men to see their children? How many use the children as leverage? A very large number compared to women.

MissRaine69:

How many men have custody of their children? As compared to women?
How many women are making it very difficult for the men to see their children? How many use the children as leverage? A very large number compared to women.

if i hear, women use children as leverage and as a pipe to suck the fathers, i dont support men in this issue, thats why i will like child support to be practiced in nigeria, after the death of a marriage the woman suffers the most, that has to change since the woman suffers the burden of the children upbringing

The man usually suffers

The women already has a hole for business anytime any day they can start at any corner

A man will still be looking for work around

iamJ:
if i hear, women use children as leverage and as a pipe to suck the fathers, i dont support men in this issue, thats why i will like child support to be practiced in nigeria, after the death of a marriage the woman suffers the most, that has to change since the woman suffers the burden of the children upbringing

Under section 70(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Act.
Child maintence should be paid for children under 21 years of age the issue is it’s not enforced and few are aware of its existence.

MissRaine69:

Under section 70(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Act.
Child maintence should be paid for children under 21 years of age the issue is it’s not enforced and few are aware of its existence.

hmmmmmm missrain,this is not how it goes oo

MissRaine69:

Under section 70(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Act.
Child maintence should be paid for children under 21 years of age the issue is it’s not enforced and few are aware of its existence.

NASS hasn't created a child support enforcement agency just like USA, UK and other western countries.

Plus only legally married people who got divorced can file for child support.

I'm not talking about all those 5k that magistrates award to custodians who got their traditional marriage or church wedding dissolved.

iamJ:
if i hear, women use children as leverage and as a pipe to suck the fathers, i dont support men in this issue, thats why i will like child support to be practiced in nigeria, after the death of a marriage the woman suffers the most, that has to change since the woman suffers the burden of the children upbringing

How exactly do women suffer? Only those who were lazy and had no financial stability during the course of the marriage suffer. Child support should be awarded to anybody who was given custody whether man or woman.

If you also want child support then be wise enough to do registry marriage.

Hanseel1:


NASS hasn't created a child support enforcement agency just like USA, UK and other western countries.

Plus only legally married people who got divorced can file for child support.

I'm not talking about all those 5k that magistrates award to custodians who got their traditional marriage or church wedding dissolved.

I am sure I stated it’s not enforced ......anyway good day to you

MissRaine69:

I am sure I stated it’s not enforced ......anyway gpod day to you

I know.. You don't have to sound angry.
Some women are the cause of all these problems .
You don't have money to take care of a child but you want to cling to the child.
Most fathers are willing to take custody these days.. Just that the courts hardly grant fathers custody and sometimes the women frustrate them because they want to use the kids as meal ticket.
I stick my with the opinion that the parent who's more financially stable enough to carter for the kids needs should be awarded child custody .
If the woman is more financially stable she should be awarded child custody while if the man is more financially stable he should be awarded child custody.

Me, for having to always read them here on Nairaland. I'm tired of reading such stories.

If the ho.e had any child for the man, then the child suffers most. If the ho.e never had a child for the man, then the man suffers most.

Hanseel1:


I know.. You don't have to sound angry.
Some women are the cause of all these problems .
You don't have money to take care of a child but you want to cling to the child.
Most fathers are willing to take custody these days.. Just that the courts hardly grant fathers custody and sometimes the women frustrate them because they want to use the kids as meal ticket.
I stick my with the opinion that the parent who's more financially stable enough to carter for the kids needs should be awarded child custody .
If the woman is more financially stable she should be awarded child custody while if the man is more financially stable he should be awarded child custody.

I think the perturbed person here is you.
Not sure how you managed to decipher angry from those few words. If we were to compare who exactly is on one it certainly is not me.

The woman.

The man,he is being milked off his money and will continue to take responsibility for the children