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Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by gbenyi(m): 11:10am On Jul 08, 2018
I once asked a pretty girl out on a date and her response was;

"If you truly love me as much as you say, be ready to join the queue"

I'm sure many if not all guys have either heard this phrase before or have experienced a relationship that felt very much like it. Dating a girl you love so much but not having the full-fledged feeling that you are in a relationship. You so strongly feel the urge to connect more deeply with her but then she shuts you out completely from the deepest part of her emotional life. One moment she is so affectionate and the next moment she is withdrawn, too busy or having a headache.

You may have your suspicions that there is the main guy somewhere. But you love her so much that you never want to give up on her just yet. So you keep hoping that a time will come when all that will change.

If you are such a man, then it means you had a choice and you willingly chose to be the backup boyfriend.

However, some women are so good at pretending. They may not be so into you but will deliberately manipulate and use you to gain other benefits.

She may just pretend to be in love with you just to have access to your wealth, fame or some other things she needs that you can provide. In this case, you may be unaware that you are only being used as a backup boyfriend.

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SIGNS YOU MAY ONLY BE A BACKUP BOYFRIEND
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nackzy: 11:16am On Jul 08, 2018
Virtually all the poor guys in Nigeria are backup boyfriends including me

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jul 08, 2018
Nackzy:
Virtually all the poor guys in Nigeria are backup boyfriends including me
Eyya such a pity.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 12:15pm On Jul 08, 2018
Every guy is a backup including husbands.. Ho.es ain't loyal..

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2018
Nackzy:
Virtually all the poor guys in Nigeria are backup boyfriends including me
We're going to find loyal GF's one day bro. Don't give up.

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by KingTugreat: 1:17pm On Jul 08, 2018
Nackzy:
Virtually all the poor guys in Nigeria are backup boyfriends including me
Colourich:
Eyya such a pity.
Such a pity men too mumu you dey kill yourself for wetin people dey sell for 5 5 naira.Carry ashawo and free yourself from stress heartbreak dem no go hear
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 08, 2018
KingTugreat:


Such a pity men too mumu you dey kill yourself for wetin people dey sell for 5 5 naira.Carry ashawo and free yourself from stress heartbreak dem no go hear
If only you know the spiritual implication of sleeping with prostitutes and how it contaminates you spiritually, you won't near one.

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:
Every guy is a backup including husbands.. Ho.es ain't loyal..
And what could have led to such hasty generalization?
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 1:30pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
And what could have led to hasty generalization?
Research!
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:
Research!
What you are saying is that you found out through extensive research that women are not loyal; funny enough when you meet a loyal woman, you will prolly take her for granted. There are women out there that are loyal to a fault, its left for you to fish them out, that's if you are loyal too, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 1:35pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
If only you know the spiritual implication of sleeping with prostitutes and how it contaminates you spiritually, you won't near one.

As far as it doesn't stop my shine I will prefer the prostitues.

Heartbreak is expensive.

Oh! , Naija girls are all prostitues.

But I will still prefer the ones at the brothel than the ones disguised as girlfriends and wivies.

The brothel ones come with no sorrow..

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by KingTugreat: 1:37pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
If only you know the spiritual implication of sleeping with prostitutes and how it contaminates you spiritually, you won't near one.
Spiritual nonsence i know many niggers that are fucking prostitutes but are living the life of many peoples dream.Sister i cannot lose my integrity,pride,to start begging for a mere commodity i can buy,girls too do shakara and me i be fine boy i no get time for shakara;cheat,and woman wey go come dey spend my money.When i see guys running over girls and running mad for them it makes me laugh because those same girls and the ones in LovePeddler houses are all the same, all prostitutes,but different way of operation.I call them repackaged prostitutes.

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:


As far as it doesn't stop my shine I will prefer the prostitues.

Heartbreak is expensive.

Oh! , Naija girls are all prostitues.

But I will still prefer the ones at the brothel than the ones disguised as girlfriends and wivies.

The brothel ones come with no sorrow..
Not all naija women are prostitutes, I am a naija woman and I am not a prostitute.

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 1:41pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
What you are saying is that you found out through extensive research that women are not loyal; funny enough when you meet a loyal woman, you will prolly take her for granted. There are women out there that are loyal to a fault, its left for you to fish them out, that's if you are loyal too, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

according to research,

10 out of 10 naija girls cheat on their partners.

8 out of 10 naija girls have STD.

7 out of 10 naija girls do abortions every week.

3 out of 5 children born by a naija mom do not belong to her husband.

Source: WHO

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 08, 2018
KingTugreat:

Spiritual nonsence i know many niggers that are fucking prostitutes but are living the life of many peoples dream.Sister i cannot lose my integrity,pride,to start begging for a mere commodity i can buy,girls too do shakara and me i be fine boy i no get time for shakara;cheat,and woman wey go come dey spend my money.When i see guys running over girls and running mad for them it makes me laugh because those same girls and the ones in LovePeddler houses are all the same, all prostitutes,but different way of operation.I call them repackaged prostitutes.
If only you know what goes on in the spiritual world, you won't be thinking like a canal man that you are, you need to look with a spiritual eyes and not with an ordinary eyes, if you keep this belief up, it will be your undoing.

Don't do something because others are doing it, Mr A might do it and go Scots free and when you do it, inter alia you get choked in the process.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:


according to research,

10 out of 10 naija girls cheat on their partners.

8 out of 10 naija girls have STD.

7 out of 10 naija girls do abortions every week.

3 out of 5 children born by a naija mom do not belong to her husband.

Source: WHO
Lies, lies and more lies. I don't cheat on my partner, I don't have std neither do I have any history of std, I have not had any abortion before, albeit, I am not yet married, but when I am married, all my kids will be from my husband. I'm also sure there are other ladies like me out there, you don't go about making such falsified claims, its disheartening!!!
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 1:50pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
Not all naija women are prostitutes, I am a naija woman and I am not a prostitute.

have u ever collected money from ur man?

Has ur man ever had s€x with u?

Last time I checked, a prostitue is a person who collects money from another person and offer s€x in return.


Dear u don't have to be in a brothel to become a wh.ore.


As far as u have collected money from a man and offer him s€x u are a prostitue.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by KingTugreat: 1:56pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
If only you know what goes on in the spiritual world, you won't be thinking like a canal man that you are, you need to look with a spiritual eyes and not with an ordinary eyes, if you keep this belief up, it will be your undoing.

Don't do something because others are doing it, Mr A might do it and go Scots free and when you do it, inter alia you get choked in the process.
i have been doing it for a longtime have i ever been choked?My integrity,my self worth,i will not allow any woman jeaopardise#TeamProstitutes.I rather die than beg for a piece of pussy
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:


have u ever collected money from ur man?

Has ur man ever had s€x with u?

Last time I checked, a prostitue is a person who collects money from another person and offer s€x in return.


Dear u don't have to be in a brothel to become a wh.ore.


As far as u have collected money from a man and offer him s€x u are a prostitue.
What's the relationship between sex and money? You are linking the both of them in a relationship.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 1:57pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
Lies, lies and more lies. I don't cheat on my partner, I don't have std neither do I have any history of std, I have not had any abortion before, albeit, I am not yet married, but when I am married, all my kids will be from my husband. I'm also sure there are other ladies like me out there, you don't go about making such falsified claims, its disheartening!!!

what is the spiritual difference between a guy havin seex with a girl at the brothel and a guy havin seex with his girlfriend?

Are they not facing the same consequences?


U adviced a guy against bleepin with a lady at a brothel yet u are sleepin wit a man dat is not ur husband.

Stop contraditin urself..
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 2:03pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
What's the relationship between sex and money? You are linking the both of them in a relationship.

but y'all women go into a relationship because of money..

Have u ever collected money from ur man?

Has he ever had seex eith u?

If ur answer to the above qustns is YES.

My sister, u are a prostitue.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 08, 2018
KingTugreat:

i have been doing it for a longtime have i ever been choked?My integrity,my self worth,i will not allow any woman jeaopardise#TeamProstitutes.I rather die than beg for a piece of pussy
Don't let a woman be your downfall.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by mrphysics(m): 2:09pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
If only you know what goes on in the spiritual world, you won't be thinking like a canal man that you are, you need to look with a spiritual eyes and not with an ordinary eyes, if you keep this belief up, it will be your undoing.

Don't do something because others are doing it, Mr A might do it and go Scots free and when you do it, inter alia you get choked in the process.
Lol, you have been very funny with this your spiritual world Shaaaa.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:


but y'all women go into a relationship because of money..

Have u ever collected money from ur man?

Has he ever had seex eith u?

If ur answer to the above qustns is YES.

My sister, u are a prostitue.
And who said we go into relationship because of money? how much can a man give me that my father cannot? Its laughable when men make these statement, mind you, some girls are from very a comfortable family and won't be needing your so called money.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:12pm On Jul 08, 2018
mrphysics:

Lol, you have been very funny with this your spiritual world Shaaaa.

I know what am saying, its no joke.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by KingTugreat: 2:16pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
Don't let a woman be your downfall.
hahahaahhaa as long as i dont worship or marry any one of them then they cant be my down fall.Neither am i ever getting married or plan to ever have kids.Only God can be my downfall,no woman that was brought to the world through a mans seed can harm me
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by milemimi93(m): 2:18pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
And who said we go into relationship because of money? how much can a man give me that my father cannot? Its laughable when men make these statement, mind you, some girls are from very a comfortable family and won't be needing your so called money.

during my time in Maritime Academy of Nigerian, one of my course mate har dad was a very rich man, own houses and 3 filling stations.

This girl was still needy..

She asked her boyfrind for almost everytin even with the fact dat her dad never allows her to lack.

That was a point I knew dat women are leeches by nature..

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Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jul 08, 2018
KingTugreat:

hahahaahhaa as long as i dont worship or marry any one of them then they cant be my down fall.Neither am i ever getting married or plan to ever have kids.Only God can be my downfall,no woman that was brought to the world through a mans seed can harm me
Hahahahahahahaha.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jul 08, 2018
milemimi93:


during my time in Maritime Academy of Nigerian, one of my course mate har dad was a very rich man, own houses and 3 filling stations.

This girl was still needy..

She asked her boyfrind for almost everytin even with the fact dat her dad never allows her to lack.

That was a point I knew dat women are leeches by nature..
I also know women from rich families that don't ask men for money and even give the men they are dating money. Yes, I know a lady that live with her boyfriend and trained her boyfriend in school, now who is the prostitute going by your assertion?
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by mrphysics(m): 2:27pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
I know what am saying, its no joke.
What of people (guys and ladies) who have multiple partners?

I got my freedom when I stopped believing someone has the authority to my destiny which she wasn't there during creation. Only you and your maker has the right to decide your destiny.

If I like, let me sleep with Mami water or witch, such person has no right to my destiny
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by mrphysics(m): 2:29pm On Jul 08, 2018
Colourich:
I also know women from rich families that don't ask men for money and even give the men they are dating money. Yes, I know a lady that live with her boyfriend and trained her boyfriend in school, now who is the prostitute going by your assertion?
How often do you find such situations? I bet it's 1/1000000000.
Re: Top Signs You Are Only A Backup Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 08, 2018
mrphysics:
How often do you find such situations? I bet it's 1/1000000000.
So are you saying that there are many poor girls in Nigeria?

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