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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by supereagle(m): 11:22pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
donstan18: I admire your way of reasoning. God bless you. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by supereagle(m): 11:24pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
A similar case happened in the UK, but the husband became a baby sitter at home, but only an understanding wife will cope. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by figoperch: 11:26pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
pocohantas: Amaka how far? U still dey Abuja? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:26pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ominiriches2016: To each their own. If someone can't sacrifice their own feelings for a much bigger goal, we'd clash. I'm a bigger picture person & can live without romance if there's a purpose. Nobody said the separation is going to be forever, so what is the fuss all about? We'll meet when we meet. Fullstop. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by wristbangle: 11:27pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
pocohantas: Shut up jor In this case, I won't relocate neither will I encourage her to do the same. Between the intimidation of her salary is too much. Earning 5 times more than the husband is a huge one. I will ensure my salary is twice of her within a year through fervent hustling. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ono: Hmm nice, so a good question for you If only you would truthful. What do you do when you feel Hot? Do you also keep female(s) who sexually satisfy you while your wife is away? I'm yet to find someone who has this type of arrangement who is Clean in terms of Infidelity. I'm not accusing you, I only say this because I have a few uncles who have this exact arrangement & they cheat terribly. We need to call a spade a spade sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by salford1: 11:29pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Not really nice to miss your kid growing up when parents live apart cos of work. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by melodyogonna(m): 11:30pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Point of correction mister! it's Nigerian men not "MEN", as in the generic term. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:34pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
salford1: Then you'll have to explain to the kid why you have to be away & handle your own feelings like a grown up with responsibilities. Life does not have to come at a standstill because you feel. Please. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: When married? I highly doubt this Sister. It's not beans honestly. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by 21savages: 11:35pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Is she the only lady. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
melodyogonna: So you're Croatian right ? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I don't think anyone should resign because he or she earns lesser than the other and then relocate to sit at home. I for instance will not resign and relocate to sit at home because my husband earn billions while I earn thousands even though he is going to be responsible for my upkeep. The only thing that will make me relocate is if I already have the kind of job I was doing before already secured for me where he is. There is dignity and joy in earning your cash no matter how little it is. There's also joy in working especially what you like doing. Also, any man who thinks he will resign from his job and relocate to come stay with me because I earn higher is a big joke to me. Except you are relocating based on the fact that you also secured a job where I am. It is up to us to work on how we will operate our distance relationship because we made the choice. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by thatigboman: 11:36pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:why resign when u can transfer? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by BanevsJoker(m): 11:37pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Anywhere but the North, I would relocate. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by brodalokie: 11:38pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
It can't happen to me. I am her crown. She should look for way to transfer the ogbabje she is using to my favor. In this case sha nobody has to resign or relocate. Distance is even good. The man should tanda like oga then whenever wife off she fit come home. 200k for flight per month is not waste of money I guess |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by ogakizito(m): 11:38pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
whoever earns 150k between them should relocate asap.
money no get male or female |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Originalsly: 11:40pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Such a decision should not be based on salary only.Like Delugajackson said earlier...sooo many factors should be considered. Then is the job guaranteed for life? Is she being offered employment because of her qualifications?...or because the boss wants to get between her legs?...as is so common? What if the man resigns...relocates...then she loses the job?...then what? ...and yes...women are wired different from men... it is natural for a woman to dominate a man when put in a position of power...especially absolute power as she would be if she is the sole breadwinner. He should stay put if he really cares about his marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by brodalokie: 11:42pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
pocohantas: I dey kankpe. Do you know that it is woman who are supposed to do work while man just direct? Also it is men who is supposed to have plenty clothing? It is not for everyone sha o |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by yussuph: 11:44pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
donstan18: ���� |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by zicoraads: 11:46pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
pocohantas:Kaduna is much safer. But I see myself moving anyway. Kaduna too has a lot of opportunities. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:46pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
cruchenutii: Of course. Say we have a mortgage to pay, am I going to risk going into foreclosure because we don't spend enough time together due to work? No! 1st things 1st. Building a life together is not only about the time you spend together. You have to work together for a shared goal & compromise when necessary. It all depends on the two people involved at the end of the day. If you're both focused on the things you wanna achieve for your life together, a little time apart won't be such a big deal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:49pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
thatigboman: It depends on the company you work for. If they don't have another branch, what then? Stay put until something comes up, instead of up & leaving without any prospects. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by pocohantas(f): 11:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
wristbangle: LOL, my dear, no go wound yourself. Marriage is partnership, not a competition. Hustle because it is for the good of you and your family, not just because you are trying to earn more than your wife. I don't like such mentality. Reminds of this guy then, he told me I don't wanna date him because he is broke. It just gave me a better understanding of his person. Which he eventually showed when he got a job, though I watched from afar. Of course money will give you a level of respect, but if it is the only reason you are worth anyone's time...you should check yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by LaudableXX: 12:03am On Jul 16, 2018 |
ono:Guy...where you dey since? I no even dey see yah brake light again. How body? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Kylce042(m): 12:04am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Knowing women very well i won't resign. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 12:04am On Jul 16, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: young, dumb and reckless. trust me it's a path u may regret. it might not look like it now, but time my friend, will tell |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by mikendie(m): 12:06am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Oga, oya, andele, go pack your bags mek we enta kedi sharp sharp. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 12:07am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Why should any of them resign? Aren't they in the same Nigeria? Just pick a location to set up a home, commute and stop with the hand wringing drama. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by thedio(m): 12:15am On Jul 16, 2018 |
[quote author=ybalogs post=69416931]The wife should just agree to be paying the hubby 150k monthly and the deal is sealed. EGO may play a big part in the hubby agreeing though.[/quote Mind u,she can stop ur salary whenever there is misunderstanding |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by blazer2018: 12:20am On Jul 16, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Long distance relationship is a ticking bomb no matter d situation and pple involved in it... more often than not, it ends in disaster. I know for sure that it won't be easy for them to be seeing every weekend or month after d week's work...don't u think d distance between them can open their marriage up to temptation...these days that marriages are crumbling anyhow; those dat live under d same roof o, not to talk of long distance marriages...my success is my wife's and vice versa...if we can't be understanding in such situations then why are we married in d 1st place? But one needs to put this into consideration: donstan18: 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Ndipe(m): 12:22am On Jul 16, 2018 |
The man should relocate. |
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