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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Teobaba(m): 5:36am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Nobody most resign where there is love and trust |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by MissRaine69(f): 5:41am On Jul 16, 2018 |
That will very much depend on the type of woman shehe is. Is she the one that will forever remind him of how much she earns? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by abimbawealth(f): 5:59am On Jul 16, 2018 |
How much is 150k in Lagos |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by sacajawea: 6:00am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Hmmmn Different people different problems, as long as money is Coming in, why is this even a topic and on FP Pride very terrible, Love is not proud how did you get married In the first place if this is requires advice from the Internet |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Geesaintagape: 6:08am On Jul 16, 2018 |
When I saw the heading I thought it was a real life even not knowing it's pastor's assumption abeg pastor carry waka. Mumu assumption |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by FreeConCiencE: 6:10am On Jul 16, 2018 |
ApolitiCal: Too much sense. Women are all wired the same way. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 6:12am On Jul 16, 2018 |
So let's say that the woman is in the abroad and earns $15,000 monthly and bro is in naija earning a steady #500k. After marriage who una go say make im relocate? |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by benjamin007: 6:21am On Jul 16, 2018 |
The man relocating means selling birth right to the woman, do you think because the woman earn 750 she will be giving the money to you?? Just wait till u make her angry and she tells you go back to where you are coming from.. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nedsnow(m): 6:22am On Jul 16, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Mama the mama. I am very sure you are the type that will never allow your husband off your sight for a long time. Short time self
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by zoomman(m): 6:25am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Except there is job where the man is relocating to, if not, the man will die out of frustration....because d wife will automatically bcms breadwinner of the family nd if ds happens, we all knows how it will end..... |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by bezimo(m): 6:28am On Jul 16, 2018 |
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by NickD(m): 6:36am On Jul 16, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:It's not as easy as you think being away from your spouse. Has the ability to crash marriage as well. In this case the man can try to get a job in kaduna before moving over there or she could ask for a transfer down to Lagos if that option is available. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by IkemChris(m): 6:41am On Jul 16, 2018 |
stane007:Abeg the both of us will continue our work no one will resign no one will relocate ooooo. There are things 150K can't do that 750k will do and there are things 750k can do that 150k can't do so we will all work as team |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 16, 2018 |
donstan18: Not assumption, some women are well paid. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by maxtreme: 6:48am On Jul 16, 2018 |
pocohantas:Actually an alpha male who doesn't like this is a fool. The countenance of the wife will determine also, if the woman is responsible and gives without complaints then she surely a good woman and the man should resign and relocate. The security of the job too is important a 750k job is very good men. If the woman provides for a time, it doesn't mean the man is not the head of the house. In the lion kingdom, the females and young males hunt, after the kill the alpha male comes, takes according to ratio and leaves the others to continue feasting. Weak guys will hate this but considerable, loving, sensible and normal guy who relocate. Life is too short to be stupid. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:53am On Jul 16, 2018 |
NO amount of money can make me relocate my family to a place where the SAFETY/WELLBEING of that said family could be in jeopardy. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by gentlegenius(m): 6:56am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Benblaq:Haven't you seen men who are not working at any job yet they have enough money to take care of their family? Why do we always believe that jobs are the only source of income for men? This mentality is what has made most Nigerian men poor and searching for jobs till old age... Haba! There are other things you can do that can still give you good income anywhere you are. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by CChillz: 7:05am On Jul 16, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: I pray your wisdom sky rockets you to places to meet great men/women and do great things. This is the perfect answer 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Btruth: 7:17am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Why not both keep their jobs and visit each others. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by kingvictor7: 7:18am On Jul 16, 2018 |
donstan18:bro u have said it all... Thumbs up for you or do u care for a chilled bottle of Henieken!! |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by skytech101(m): 7:19am On Jul 16, 2018 |
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by krisdzhon: 7:22am On Jul 16, 2018 |
As the head of the Family, never make the mistake of relocating to join your Wife no matter how much she earns, lest you lose your self-esteem! There are basically three types of income: 1) Earned Income (Salaries), 2) Passive Income (Real Estates/Businesses) and 3) Portfolio Income (Shares & other Financial Market Instruments). To be financially free, you must learn how to successfully convert (1) to (2) and/or (3) as efficiently as possible. You can never be rich (financially free) by focusing on (1) only! Blessed is the Man that knows how to design a PROCESS FLOW to achieve the aforesaid, he will never have to think of relocating to join his Wife no matter how much she earns! A man armed with the aforesaid knowledge, will gladly develop a bankable Business/Investment Plan to accommodate the Wife's full relocation, no matter how much she earns! |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Agada47(m): 7:23am On Jul 16, 2018 |
This one na rhetorical question. ..... Abeg make the man resign jaare.... Him no sabi arithmetic for school? 750-150=600 Wow das plenty men.... I guess make the man come Kaduna , then the woman shuld be paying him his basic salary of #150 grand...While she uses d rest.... QED |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:35am On Jul 16, 2018 |
allanphash7: THE WAY I'LL SPEED OFF TO KADUNA.. X-43 JET NO GO BELIEVE AM. 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by sunboy(m): 7:49am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Abi something is wrong with the man ni ? Ego no be everything oo. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by carlos1(m): 7:51am On Jul 16, 2018 |
As a man I ll resign, travel to kaduna and take over my wives job. Sense no go kill me |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by adetes: 8:06am On Jul 16, 2018 |
This seriously serious, if husband resigns he will b abuse by his wife, and and his wife resign sooner house will b on fire wen things r nt going well wife will b blaming husband that he force her to resign, May Almighty c them tru. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Niiade(m): 8:07am On Jul 16, 2018 |
I don relocate sharply sharps |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by divinelove(m): 8:13am On Jul 16, 2018 |
It will be Soo difficult to be earning 750k per month by any lady at marriage age that is below 35yrs. So the man should resign his job and go to kaduna to be serving his wife. What will be his source of income? Anyway I don't see why a man that earns 150k should wanna marry a lady that earns 750k that is Gold digging. He should cut his coat according to his size. Shoe get size, but lazy men are looking for women to feed their broke ass. Marriage is designed such that the woman looks up to the man not the other way round. Depending on your wife income for your existence is a capital offense u can ask tee bills |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by srclark: 8:37am On Jul 16, 2018 |
We don't need a juju priest or a scientist to tell us who should move sharperly |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by revolt(m): 8:38am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Why should any of them reaign? Whats wrong with long dustance marriage. When theyre ready to retire then they can stau together after saving. |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by shaybebaby(f): 8:39am On Jul 16, 2018 |
Lots of Myopic people on here missing what is important completely. Those saying keep respective jobs. Stupid because that means maintaining two homes, duplicating costs hence less disposable income overall. Waste of funds to me. Next we need to ask, why do we even work? Apart from meeting our basic needs, it allows us to plan for the future and secure that future using what we earn. The key is grow whatever we have coming at present so in a marriage, it's about pooling resources and working together to achieve financial freedom quicker. On that basis, the wife relocating and giving up her job is foolhardy as you reduce the collective starting point from 900k to 150k. Means you have set yourselves 6 steps back. Furthermore it would more difficult to grow 150k. My solution. Wife saves as much of her earnings as she can to provide surplus funds that both of them can invest. Husband keeps his job in Lagos for an agreed period of time but investigates job and business opportunities where the wife resides. He should gather enough information to identify viable opportunities but not limit himself to the wife's location only (this only applies to business). If no job, there are funds to set up a business and run it with the advantage that a business gives him the flexibility of keeping the same base as his wife even when his dealings might take him away from time to time. In summary, husband moves to be with wife but with a clear plan on how he can use the 750k earned by the wife into something greater. |
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