ImaIma1:


Are you a man or boy?

Even though the question in itself is belittling, I will answer it




I am a full blown man.

theunnamed:





Even though the question in itself is belittling, I will answer it




I am a full blown man.

Lol...

Then accept responsibility rather than shift blame

ImaIma1:


Lol...

Then accept responsibility rather than shift blame

I'm all about responsibility, that's why I'm saying women should own their stuff too, fine men are bad and yada yada yada, but we're not 100% the problem... Are we?



We're not even 50% sef

MissWrite:



Hey, baby girl! Long time; and how've you been? Ask away; I'll decide whether to answer you publicly, privately, or not at all. Depending on which bag of secrets you want me to spill...

Heyyyy baby
Yep, been a while, I'm good, how you doing?

All right,

MissWrite:



Ha.... ; my own case is strong. I'm not a wife o! You need to keep looking.

All the best in your search, hun; God will see your heart....

Want to know why you said the part in bold? Is that you don't see yourself getting married.? Or just to turn down the guy?

theunnamed:






I'm all about responsibility, that's why I'm saying women should own their stuff too, fine men are bad and yada yada yada, but we're not 100% the problem... Are we?



We're not even 50% sef

More like 70%

I agree that women should own their stuff.

Daeylar:


Heyyyy baby
Yep, been a while, I'm good, how you doing?

All right,


Want to know why you said the part in bold? Is that you don't see yourself getting married.? Or just to turn down the guy?

I'm good, babe.

The answer to your question would be: the former. I'm just not that kind of person; I'm too selfish for relationships and living with people drives me crazy.

MissWrite:



I'm good, babe.

The answer to your question would be: the former. I'm just not that kind of person; I'm too selfish for relationships and living with people drives me crazy.

Good to see

All right then, thanks
Now I have another question but this one is a bit more private

Daeylar:

Good to see

All right then, thanks
Now I have another question but this one is a bit more private

So ask it privately.

I followed you, so you could send me a message directly.

Tohzara:
Well, it is stüpid and retärded to call this "MALE logic".

When:

1) The males who think this way have a distinctive adjective qualifying them, hence distinguishing them from the rest.

2) There are females whose brains carry out similar cognitive processes that produce similar thoughts or actively support the propagation of such.

Well said!

this is a good one. so silly.

donstan18:
Feminist wannabe decided to bring the thread to family section where single mothers, divorcees, unmarried aged women and frustrated old hags will applaud her. You initially created it on romance section but couldn't stand the heat, then you ran to meet your fellow feminist wannabes here

HOW ABOUT THE LOGICS BELOW.

If I slap my boyfriend, he's expected to walk away as a gentle man, but if he lay his hands on me, he's a woman beater.

If he makes advances on me at his place, he lacks self-control. But if he snubs me, he's either a gay, impotent or not man enough.

When a woman makes sexual advances on a man, she's trying to seduce him. But when a man does the same, he's a rapist.

Lady; I want a rich God fearing yahoo guy that is caring, respectful and gentle.
Rich Guy; What will you offer me apart from sex.
Lady; I will wash plate for you, sweep the house and pray for you.
Me; Argh! Wetin are happening? You be maid?

A lady will wake up and decide to start olosho/Ashawo business, and then console her cheap self that she's a prostitute because men are demanding for it, so she's supplying.

Me; Hanty Udonminit! Demand and supply indeed. What stopped you from starting fufu business to show how hardworking you are, abi men node demand that one.

It is unfathomable to me why your nicely written post that was clearly a response to the endless and needless gender warfare in Nairaland was avoided like a plague. Perhaps it was imbued with messages that shattered their comfort zone, and concurrently tasked them to be responsive and responsible. Or is that the degree of veracity it contains make a reply unattractive? My stance or take, however, remains that all genders should be the captain of their soul; the era of buck passing is in the far forgotten past.

Wailers Association of Nairaland (WAN)

donstan18:
Feminist wannabe decided to bring the thread to family section where single mothers, divorcees, unmarried aged women and frustrated old hags will applaud her. You initially created it on romance section but couldn't stand the heat, then you ran to meet your fellow feminist wannabes here

HOW ABOUT THE LOGICS BELOW.

If I slap my boyfriend, he's expected to walk away as a gentle man, but if he lay his hands on me, he's a woman beater.

If he makes advances on me at his place, he lacks self-control. But if he snubs me, he's either a gay, impotent or not man enough.

When a woman makes sexual advances on a man, she's trying to seduce him. But when a man does the same, he's a rapist.

Lady; I want a rich God fearing yahoo guy that is caring, respectful and gentle.
Rich Guy; What will you offer me apart from sex.
Lady; I will wash plate for you, sweep the house and pray for you.
Me; Argh! Wetin are happening? You be maid?

A lady will wake up and decide to start olosho/Ashawo business, and then console her cheap self that she's a prostitute because men are demanding for it, so she's supplying.

Me; Hanty Udonminit! Demand and supply indeed. What stopped you from starting fufu business to show how hardworking you are, abi men node demand that one.

Bravo The poster Daeylar has pretended not to see this one and has changed the conversation to instant messaging

Ladyhippolyta88:



I tell you

That talk is BS if it is a one way thing
It would only make sense of it is mutual

Men say love begets submission. Ask them How come the love of a woman never makes the man submit to her if submission was such a good thing.
Everyone goes silent.

I have never liked that submission at all.

Brought it here so we don't derail that thread.

Daeylar:
thread

Men say love begets submission. Ask them How come the love of a woman never makes the man submit to her if submission was such a good thing.
Everyone goes silent.

I have never liked that submission at all.

Brought it here so we don't derail that thread.

Do you mind them they are so quick to remember submision from the woman's side hi slow to remember their own.
I don't buy the teachings of religion as regards to marriage.It is a slave and master agreement as far as religion is concerned.Any man looking for an automatic mugu in the name of submissive or virtuous wife should not waste their time with me.
Sorry to the late reply I have been busy since yesterday no time do nairaland I have not been following the thread but would try to catch up on the results announcement on youtube and naira land during the weekend I remain busy for now.
Have a great day

Ladyhippolyta88:


Do you mind them they are so quick to remember submision from the woman's side hi slow to remember their own.

It's just so off to me

I don't buy the teachings of religion as regards to marriage.It is a slave and master agreement as far as religion is concerned.Any man looking for an automatic mugu in the name of submissive or virtuous wife should not waste their time with me.

Lol,
I think if some women want to live like that no problem. But men should stop trying to force everyone to live that way.

Sorry to the late reply I have been busy since yesterday no time do nairaland I have not been following the thread but would try to catch up on the results announcement on youtube and naira land during the weekend I remain busy for now.
Have a great day

No biggie
You too dear.

Daeylar:

It's just so off to me

Lol,
I think if some women want to live like that no problem. But men should stop trying to force everyone to live that way.


No biggie
You too dear.

Have you been held at gun point by men forcing you to swear to live that way before?

You people should just date & marry the kind of man/woman you feel is best for you and stop boring the internet with juvenile fulminations.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Do you mind them they are so quick to remember submision from the woman's side hi slow to remember their own.
I don't buy the teachings of religion as regards to marriage.It is a slave and master agreement as far as religion is concerned.Any man looking for an automatic mugu in the name of submissive or virtuous wife should not waste their time with me.
Sorry to the late reply I have been busy since yesterday no time do nairaland I have not been following the thread but would try to catch up on the results announcement on youtube and naira land during the weekend I remain busy for now.
Have a great day

Respect and submission comes naturally from the woman, if the man knows her temperament and her love language.

Speak her language and watch her behave like a baby. But you as a man have to grow balls like her dad.

You can't force submission from a woman just as you can't force love out of a man.

Life is not so complicated. It's simple if we know what to do.

specter:



Respect and submission comes naturally from the woman, if the man knows her temperament and her love language.

Speak her language and watch her behave like a baby. But you as a man have to grow balls like her dad.

You can't force submission from a woman just as you can't force love out of a man.

Life is not so complicated. It's simple if we know what to do.

I don't believe that only men should love and only women should submit you get?I love inclusiveness so it should be a mutual thing.Neither do I believe that only men deserve respect or submission.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't believe that only men should love and only women should submit you get?I love inclusiveness so it should be a mutual thing.Neither do I believe that only men deserve respect or submission.

Whatever works for you Dear. Life is simple

When you stop thinking about relationships in terms of men vs women, you will have eased 90% of your life’s burdens. There is a reason that we were naturally created different, it is so that we complement each other. The more we fight each other, the more we fight nature…..And nature never loses!

The ubiquitous quarrel about male/female superiority/inferiority is a total waste of time and energy, so find other more profitable ways to convert oxygen. I have never seen a man pop out a baby, and I have never seen a woman self-impregnate. So women are clearly superior!…….just kidding. My point is, it is a dumb argument, and you ought to be ashamed of yourselves, especially since you fancy yourselves ‘smart.’

MissWrite:



I'm good, babe.

The answer to your question would be: the former. I'm just not that kind of person; I'm too selfish for relationships and living with people drives me crazy.

Haa! Finally, someone who is like me- Too selfish to commit to any woman, and certain type of people drive me nuts. Enjoy the single life. #Celibacy

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KillerBeauty:
When you stop thinking about relationships in terms of men vs women, you will have eased 90% of your life’s burdens. There is a reason that we were naturally created different, it is so that we complement each other. The more we fight each other, the more we fight nature…..And nature never loses!

The ubiquitous quarrel about male/female superiority/inferiority is a total waste of time and energy, so find other more profitable ways to convert oxygen. I have never seen a man pop out a baby, and I have never seen a woman self-impregnate. So women are clearly superior!…….just kidding. My point is, it is a dumb argument, and you ought to be ashamed of yourselves, especially since you fancy yourselves ‘smart.’

*applauds her* if most women could think like you.

KillerBeauty:
When you stop thinking about relationships in terms of men vs women, you will have eased 90% of your life’s burdens. There is a reason that we were naturally created different, it is so that we complement each other. The more we fight each other, the more we fight nature…..And nature never loses!

The ubiquitous quarrel about male/female superiority/inferiority is a total waste of time and energy, so find other more profitable ways to convert oxygen. I have never seen a man pop out a baby, and I have never seen a woman self-impregnate. So women are clearly superior!…….just kidding. My point is, it is a dumb argument, and you ought to be ashamed of yourselves, especially since you fancy yourselves ‘smart.’

Lovely post.

Nature NEVER loses