When a friend of mine was single, he finds it difficult to find a girlfriend. Now he is in a relationship, Women are throwing themselves at him.
Why is it that women wants what is not available?

LADIES ADMIRE MEN WHO HANG OUT WITH LADIES( its a flirting fact), i guess thats why they flocking at him now.

Does he carry her about on his shoulders that would make them be like, 'there he is! He's got a girlfriend now. Let's get him!' or what exactly are you saying? This just seems like his sunshine period, that's all. Don't even try to understand women.

Is this a problem 4 your friend?

na the guy problem or u dey wish say u dey d guy position, na the guy time jo,

its natural for both males females. if ur friend actually knos what he want from a relationship, he would kno what to do. tanx 4 ur concern anyway!

when a person is 'in love/lust' it comes across, their aura is one of peace and happiness, and people are generally attracted to that, , but like someone said, we generally want what we can't have,

Rocktation:

Does he carry her about on his shoulders that would make them be like, 'there he is! He's got a girlfriend now. Let's get him!' or what exactly are you saying? This just seems like his sunshine period, that's all. Don't even try to understand women.

Lmao at the first bolded part. Maybe he carries a big placard around town proclaiming his new 'status' as Mr. Boyfriend! Big deal. Like you rightly said, its a sunshine period for the mofo; every dog has it's day in the sun. We all have 'wowful' periods when we experience an embarrassment of riches somewhat. Just so happens to be now he's in a 'relationship' that he's getting his.

And again like you said, it's futile to try to understand women (even they do not understand themselves). You can hang around them all you want. . .that never guarantees 'anything'. Good looks help, so do confidence, humour and all that. But they aren't always reliable and are not sufficient to get every girl inbetween your sheets at the snap of a finger. The ONLY universal language that they ALL understand is mon£y (and all that comes with it). Only that would guarantee an all-year sunshine period. Lol.

hmmmmmmmmmm

Women throwing themselves ke!
You wish!!!!!! Abeg be real.
Else he don hama now.

LOLest@ "there he is, he has got a girlfriend" get him tigress

I actually clicked on this topic hoping to see a pix of George Clooney or Will Smith (topic wulda made sense wit doz pixs)  

Obodo999:

When a friend of mine was single, he finds it difficult to find a girlfriend. Now he is in a relationship, Women are throwing themselves at him.
Why is it that women wants what is not available?

. . .pls quote the material u used for this research . .u need to have more than 1 story to make up such conclusions    

I'm sure the guy in question is not complaining. Bad belle, this is his time to shine i.e if they are 'throwing' themselves at him. i doubt.

the guy go don hama jare!

becos they are always jealous when we are not aviable

190:

the guy go don hama jare!

Gba bé.

and when you have a girlfriend or wife, your confidence level increases, why do you think some women prefer to date married men

pro01:

Gba bé.

sorry whats that!!

women some times see single guys as rejects and who wants a reject when there are happening (Courtesy: Boma Erekosima) guys.  Women are just like that.

190:

sorry whats that!!

Gba bé = for real/na so/thats it. Yoruba colloquialism.

agitator:

women some times see single guys as rejects and who wants a reject when there are happening (Courtesy: Boma Erekosima) guys.  Women are just like that.

This argument is inherently flawed. Otherwise, girls would only date guys that are already dating other girls, and how exactly does that work?  Also' I think 'happening guy' does not describe a guy with a girlfriend/wife; merely having a girlfriend or wife does not make one hot property. 'Happening guy' is the handsome and suave sharp-dresser that drives one or two nice cars and maintains a healthy bank account. . .and also knows his way around town. Whether he is single or married is irrelevant; he'll keep chopping, cleaning mouth, and moving on to the next meal. In fact being single will even help his cause - who needs a 'partner' to cramp one's style?

pro01:

This argument is inherently flawed. Otherwise, girls would only date guys that are already dating other girls, and how exactly does that work?  Also' I think 'happening guy' does not describe a guy with a girlfriend/wife; merely having a girlfriend or wife does not make one hot property. 'Happening guy' is the handsome and suave sharp-dresser that drives one or two nice cars and maintains a healthy bank account. . .and also knows his way around town. Whether he is single or married is irrelevant; he'll keep chopping, cleaning mouth, and moving on to the next meal. In fact being single will even help his cause - who needs a 'partner' to cramp one's style?

As much as i will not dispute your opinion, I have come across girls who do it.

Pro01 as much as i'm supposed to be sexist right now, i'll admit you got us completely covered. Everything boils down to the one simple fact - We don't even understand ourselves. Well said.

Rocktation:

Pro01 as much as i'm supposed to be sexist right now, i'll admit you got us completely covered. Everything boils down to the one simple fact - We don't even understand ourselves. Well said.

Oh boy, sorry oh! Didnt even know u were female! Remarkable to finally find a woman that admits the truth, an unfavourable truth; and on NL of all places! Red letter day for me, lol.

@poster
supported!
I think this friend of your is dotting on his girl every other girl is admiring them.

his lucky day but he shld be careful other ladies wants to thirst what his girl is enjoying.

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when a person is 'in love/lust' it comes across, their aura is one of peace and happiness, and people are generally attracted to that, , but like someone said, we generally want what we can't have,

Da Vinci couldnt have said it better.

abi ur friend don hammer??

abeg post this thread @ naijapage.com

@Poster

Your post is quite bland coz it lacks substance.You didn't state any concrete reason why this is happening other than he now has a girlfriend.Congratulations to him but i think it's the following that happened :

(1)He stepped up his game and is more confident with women
(2)It's universal knowledge that women want things they can't have and are attracted to men that other women want
(3)Most important of all, HE GOT PAID! ! !

Wish him the best. . . (did i just say that, lol )

harakiri:

@Poster

Your post is quite bland coz it lacks substance.You didn't state any concrete reason why this is happening other than he now has a girlfriend.Congratulations to him but i think it's the following that happened :

(1)He stepped up his game and is more confident with women
(2)It's universal knowledge that women want things they can't have and are attracted to men that other women want
(3)Most important of all, HE GOT PAID! ! !

Wish him the best. . . (did i just say that, lol )

I quite agree with steps 1 & 2.

It is said that women prefer attached men because, simply being attached, it means another woman has already "screened" that man and deemed him as a suitable companion. Therefore, the ground work has already been done for them. I like that theory. Since being attached, women are definitely more likely to pursue me than in the past, not that i go out much now anyway. Also, I think women just prefer the company of men who aren't pushy or desperate, which unfortunately is how a lot of single men might act around them. Married/attached men don't crave female attention, and wind up getting a lot more of it for that very reason.