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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by bigpicture001: 9:22pm On Jul 27, 2018
victorian:






Thank God, you've left this country for something better.

But even the ones with jobs, suited up with tie and coat is the same story.

Nothing there.. All they have to offer is to Fork with incredible energy as if their lives and survival depends on it! but to maintain, capital zero.

Anyways may God help the jobless ones and the ones with jobs who are still struggling to make ends meet.. Amen.
..vikky,ur mentality in relationship.it mayb from ur unfortunate experience, which mayb cuz ur chasing suppose wealthy guyz.trudt me with 98% of them,u get shit

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 9:33pm On Jul 27, 2018
Sarang:


I like your honesty. May a Nigerian Man in diaspora locate you
Amrn. thanks very much

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 9:55pm On Jul 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
..vikky,ur mentality in relationship.it mayb from ur unfortunate experience, which mayb cuz ur chasing suppose wealthy guyz.trudt me with 98% of them,u get shit









I know most young wealthy guys are filled with shit and arrogance. I can never be with any of such men. Unfortunately in my past experience has always been with struggling guys and average guys. Have been very unfortunate in such kind of guys in the past. Ladies will say they dated struggling guys and average guys and we're lucky.. But mine was different. I just don't know where those devilish men Springed out from, but I thank God I was saved, am more confident, matured in my choices and aware of what I want in life.
My dear, my life even though I was born with a silver spoon, was filled with emotional turmoil and sorrows, caused by struggling or average guys. If not for God, I would have either committed suicide or been locked up in a prison for manslaughter or chained in pyschartric hospital. But Mehn, God saved me and I didn't allow the devil to take hold of my mind..
When I say have seen it all.. Trust me I have. Except prostitution, drugs and armed robbery. Have not done those three things before and I won't delve into them no matter what..

But my eyes don see pepper! I know what marriage entails and I know what it means to be single. Nobody can deceive me otherwise.
So the yarns of rich guys? Forget! There are some rich guys that are more or less angels than the poor or hustling guys. And I made the final choice of accepting a rich guy, years back which I don't regret till date.
Am really unlucky with hustling guys, before I get to love madly and spend so much on them, something will happen and their well played script will burst, boom! Right infront of their eyes. And I will be like what!? shocked jeez! What have I gotten myself into?
There and then, it's over.

Then about making it? I started early in life, cos I graduated early at age 22 and delved into buisness afterwards Everything in my life was accomplished early but I was almost destroyed by poor and hustling guys everytime, cos I love simplicity.

And exes, whom I felt was suppose to be real to me, were not real even to themselves. With anger and frustration I placed curse on all of them but later after so many years I had to free them, so I can be at peace too.

Then thirdly don't even say I was flashing my wealth, cos I wasn't.. I simply look flashy, no matter how I try to tone down my looks. I still look flashy. Even I don't wear earrings, or brazen good chains or revealing clothes.. Am still flashy, almost everyone must stare. then it was so annoying to me, cos my looks was attracting gold diggers.
But today I own my looks, I don't care of my flashy looks anymore. Love me or hate me, I no longer care. I simply live my life and be the best I can and associate with humble well to do females and males.
The only thing I take serious is business, and children, every other thing is placed at the back burner. That's me.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 9:59pm On Jul 27, 2018
chigoziri2403:
hahahah, can you explain your third paragraph





I can't o grin

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by bigpicture001: 10:04pm On Jul 27, 2018
victorian:










I know most young wealthy guys are filled with shit and arrogance. I can never be with any of such men. Unfortunately in my past experience has always been with struggling guys and average guys. Have been very unfortunate in such kind of guys in the past. Ladies will say they dated struggling guys and average guys and we're lucky.. But mine was different. I just don't know where those devilish men Springed out from, but I thank God I was saved, am more confident, matured in my choices and aware of what I want in life.
My dear, my life even though I was born with a silver spoon, was filled with emotional turmoil and sorrows, caused by struggling or average guys. If not for God, I would have either committed suicide or been locked up in a prison for manslaughter or chained in pyschartric hospital. But Mehn, God saved me and I didn't allow the devil to take hold of my mind..
When I say have seen it all.. Trust me I have. Except prostitution, drugs and armed robbery. Have not done those three things before and I won't delve into them no matter what..

But my eyes don see pepper! I know what marriage entails and I know what it means to be single. Nobody can deceive me otherwise.
So the yarns of rich guys? Forget! There are some rich guys that are more or less angels than the poor or hustling guys. And I made the final choice of accepting a rich guy, years back which I don't regret till date.
Am really unlucky with hustling guys, before I get to love madly and spend so much on them, something will happen and their well played script will burst, boom! Right infront of their eyes. And I will be like what!? shocked jeez! What have I gotten myself into?
There and then, it's over.

Then about making it? I started early in life, cos I graduated early at age 22 and delved into buisness afterwards Everything in my life was accomplished early but I was almost destroyed by poor and hustling guys everytime, cos I love simplicity.

And exes, whom I felt was suppose to be real to me, were not real even to themselves. With anger and frustration I placed curse on all of them but later after so many years I had to free them, so I can be at peace too.

Then thirdly don't even say I was flashing my wealth, cos I wasn't.. I simply look flashy, no matter how I try to tone down my looks. I still look flashy. Even I don't wear earrings, or brazen good chains or revealing clothes.. Am still flashy, almost everyone must stare. then it was so annoying to me, cos my looks was attracting gold diggers.
But today I own my looks, I don't care of my flashy looks anymore. Love me or hate me, I no longer care. I simply live my life and be the best I can and associate with humble well to do females and males.
The only thing I take serious is business, and children, every other thing is placed at the back burner. That's me.
...va in marage,u still don't luv ur man..?u said all u care abt is biz nd children....sorry u went tru all that..actually there are mny frogs than prince's but that doesn't mean fía are no princes......on behave of guyz generally,if u truly pass tru those emotional pains...I APOLOGISE!

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 10:19pm On Jul 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
...va in marage,u still don't luv ur man..?u said all u care abt is biz nd children....sorry u went tru all that..actually there are mny frogs than prince's but that doesn't mean fía are no princes......on behave of guyz generally,if u truly pass tru those emotional pains...I APOLOGISE!









Smiles on the apology but have moved on. It's in my past.

I like, care and respect my man. And am very caring in real life, and he appreciates me for that. He deserves it though, but I don't believe love exist. Humans are just too selfish and conceited to love. I don't even know how to love the opposite sex anymore, that side of me is dead way back cheesy
Cause for me, love can make one kolo.. cheesy. I mean raving mad, if wisdom is not applied.
I was almost strapped in Yaba left cos of this so called love, way back then cheesy

God abeg o! Love kwa? I don't think so.. Nah not for me.

Love is non existent anymore in Nigeria.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by bigpicture001: 10:28pm On Jul 27, 2018
[quote author=victorian post=69764397]









Smiles on the apology but have moved on. It's in my past.

I like, care and respect my man. And am very caring in real life, and he appreciates me for that. He deserves it though, but I don't believe love exist. Humans are just too selfish and conceited to love. I don't even know how to love the opposite sex anymore, that side of me is dead way back cheesy
Cause for me, love can make one kolo.. cheesy. I mean raving mad, if wisdom is not applied.
I was almost strapped in Yaba left cos of this so called love, way back then cheesy

God abeg o! Love kwa? I don't think so.. Nah not for me.

Love is non existent anymore in Nigeria. [/q.........uote].....i passed tru exactly same tin too..bit case, I was d struggling guy..i was never loved,evdn wen am filled with love. I once dated with whole heart, I dated and fell I'm love with a very not too good luking gal... I was so so into her,spend as much as I have, dou not much den..but suddenly, sh pulled d carpet from under my feed. I couldn't take it. I became so so I'll. sh told her frnd sh doesn't want to b stick with me,dats just one of them...I faced series of neglect from.multiple gals...I ended up focusing on just ma sef.. went tru he'll going to skl,not dated for abt 7years now...I graduated, started lecturing, started by biz nd doing quite fairly ok.. but d p is now...I find it hard to believe gals are down with u....cuz I saw he'll in their hands...wished our paths ever crossed earlier... well,dts life
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 10:41pm On Jul 27, 2018
[quote author=bigpicture001 post=69764617][/quote]








Life can be unfair to us in different ways but only makes us stronger.
How to curb this issue of love and all. Just zero your mind off love. Focus on becoming friends with ladies of like minds and goals as yours, then choose the one whom u feel at least u are sexually attracted to and whom u feel is respectful , both of you can laugh over any issues, a sensible lady and well cultured too. Such ladies exist.

Choose your best friend out of these ladies coming around u. Talk about everything, including family life and see her point of view on roles of husband and wife. If it's similar to yours? Then uv won a jackpot. Then romance starts.

Also If she wants to settle down with you after a while of dating and romance ? Ask her , if she says yes? Both of you map out a plan on how to get things started.. Be open to each other about your salaries and maintenance of the family and home.. Talk about it, so no one is deceived into any scam of marriage.

You will be fine, just free your mind from love. All it brings is heartaches and sorrows.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by bigpicture001: 10:52pm On Jul 27, 2018
victorian:









Life can be unfair to us in different ways but only makes us stronger.
How to curb this issue of love and all. Just zero your mind off love. Focus on becoming friends with ladies of like minds and goals as yours, then choose the one whom u feel at least u are sexually attracted to and whom u feel is respectful , both of you can laugh over any issues, a sensible lady and well cultured too. Such ladies exist.

Choose your best friend out of these ladies coming around u. Talk about everything, including family life and see her point of view on roles of husband and wife. If it's similar to yours? Then uv won a jackpot. Then romance starts.

Also If she wants to settle down with you after a while of dating and romance ? Ask her , if she says yes? Both of you map out a plan on how to get things started.. Be open to each other about your salaries and maintenance of the family and home.. Talk about it, so no one is deceived into any scam of marriage.

You will be fine, just free your mind fro...................m love. All it brings is heartaches and sorrows.
[url][/url]...Jesús christ!!!!!!!!!!.... y didn't i.meet u ontym...my GOD is ur name Samuel..? u are exactly wired to think like me...
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 11:08pm On Jul 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
[url][/url]...Jesús christ!!!!!!!!!!.... y didn't i.meet u ontym...my GOD is ur name Samuel..? u are exactly wired to think like me...










Heheheheheheheheh grin

My name is not Samuel o!

Am just Vicky!

It happens like that.. Smiles

You are nice person too. I can sense it from here.

Can u text your email here, so I can send you a message. My pm can't access mails.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 11:11pm On Jul 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
...va in marage,u still don't luv ur man..?u said all u care abt is biz nd children....sorry u went tru all that..actually there are mny frogs than prince's but that doesn't mean fía are no princes......on behave of guyz generally,if u truly pass tru those emotional pains...I APOLOGISE!
Very mture
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by bigpicture001: 11:16pm On Jul 27, 2018
victorian:











Heheheheheheheheh grin

My name is not Samuel o!

Am just Vicky!

It happens like that.. Smiles

You are nice person too. I can sense it from here.

Can u text your email here, so I can send you a message. My pm can't access mails.
...it's lastsam001@gmail.com

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 11:24pm On Jul 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
...it's lastsam001@gmail.com




Have sent you a message. Check

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by chigoziri2403(m): 11:28pm On Jul 27, 2018
victorian:





I can't o grin
it's not energy, its frustration, no joy in Nigeria

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by victorian(f): 11:30pm On Jul 27, 2018
chigoziri2403:
it's not energy, its frustration, no joy in Nigeria









Heheheheheheheh cheesy

You got it! Real frustration! cheesy

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by tshaba28(m): 12:11am On Jul 28, 2018
E-mail Me...tshaba28@gmail.com...Bored,But now Am Ready...

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 10:59am On Jul 28, 2018
tshaba28:
E-mail Me...tshaba28@gmail.com...Bored,But now Am Ready...
What's your twitter Handel?
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by tshaba28(m): 3:12pm On Jul 28, 2018
gracechellar:
What's your twitter Handel?
Adesunmade2

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by felix000000(m): 3:23pm On Jul 28, 2018
Location first or you are not ready to marry coz Chana and Togo is diaspora too.
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 4:46pm On Jul 28, 2018
felix000000:
Location first or you are not ready to marry coz Chana and Togo is diaspora too.
Thanks for your advise, I didn't excemot anywhere and I've co municsted with him already. ggrateful.
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 4:47pm On Jul 28, 2018
felix000000:
Location first or you are not ready to marry coz Chana and Togo is diaspora too.
Thanks for your advise, I didn't excempt anywhere and I've communicated with him already. grateful.
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by Viking007(m): 12:17pm On Jul 31, 2018
victorian:








Lol, you still dey ask?

Men at home, that cant feed themselves and their babes. Go to family section and read how a newly wedded man is complaining about feeding his wife and entertaining visitors who came to wish them well on their marriage. Cause of food, he wants to run away from home. grin

And mind you, he's the one who relocated to the wife's base o, which means she is the one paying their house rent but ordinary to feed his wife, is a serious issue for him.

A lady wanted to fry four eggs, her fiance gave her a hot slap. Just because of 200naira eggs.

A neighbour of mine died of malaria, and typhoid cos her boyfriend hid in one corner saying he's in another state, instead of him to send 2k for her drugs. She's an orphan but work as a cleaner.

With all these scenarios, trust me marrying a Nigerian man is not appealing.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by Viking007(m): 12:24pm On Jul 31, 2018
lefulefu:
there's one overseas based nairalander here i want u to meet. Handsome and very romantic....and half british half nigerian. He's based in uk and lives in peckham,London. His name is Mr cork. You will love himwink. He's lukin for a homebased babe to marry. But u must be lightskinned sha. Ur yellow complexion must be shininh ayanyanya for him to be interestedcheesy.
LMAO!!! cheesy

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by McMayowa(m): 11:23am On Nov 10, 2018
tshaba28:
E-mail Me...tshaba28@gmail.com...Bored,But now Am Ready...

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 8:47pm On Dec 30, 2018
McMayowa:

You can mail me here theobenson6@gmail.com
My email is there..
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 8:48pm On Dec 30, 2018
Thanks everyone. I've seen him now. We are doing great. Cheers and have a Good 2019.
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by Oai007(m): 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2018
is Togo a diaspora. anyways ask lie Muhamed and buhari
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by gracechellar(f): 7:45pm On May 05, 2019
Oai007:
is Togo a diaspora. anyways ask lie Muhamed and buhari
No. Thanka
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by hartson(m): 1:42pm On Sep 17, 2019
gracechellar:

No. Thanka
Hi,
My email isn't working at the moment.
How may I assist you?
Hartson.

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Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by marvelous000: 3:51pm On Sep 17, 2019
Viking007:
LMAO!!! cheesy
Mrcork, is that you?
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by Viking007(m): 3:56pm On Sep 17, 2019
marvelous000:

Mrcork, is that you?
cheesy Nope.
Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by marvelous000: 3:58pm On Sep 17, 2019
Viking007:
cheesy Nope.
talk true jare. I really miss am.

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