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If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by MajesticV: 12:32am On Jul 28, 2018
You can upgrade your status if you know how.

With most guys out there, girls that they have sex with fall into one of two categories . Either a girl is a hookup, or she's a relationship girl. Most guys already can tell whether you're just a hookup or a relationship girl after the first couple of times they see you.

That being said, it's not a total snap decision on the guy's part. There are ways you can make it clear that you're a relationship only kind of girl. Here are things you should do if you want to be more than just a casual sex hookup .
1. Don't tell him you're OK with a hookup if you're not.

Guys react very well to established boundaries because they will walk all over you if you have none. By putting your foot down early, they get the picture that you're not someone who will put up with their bad behavior.

2. Don't get clingy and desperate.

If you get too clingy, guys will back away from thinking of you as a relationship type of girl. No one wants to deal with a super-clingy girl.

3. Don't confess messed up stuff you did to an ex.

Tenor

Guys really don't want to deal with girls who have done messed up things to other men. For example, if your last relationship ended because you cheated on your man with three people , telling him that will make him want to avoid dating you.

4. Don't f*ck his friends or flirt with them.

Technically, this falls under "acting super-sleazy," but it's still worth noting. A lot of men won't date someone who has slept with their friends as a fling. It's against Bro Code and would just spark too much drama.

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Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by Cholls(m): 5:41am On Jul 28, 2018
my brother educate them...day break everywhere burst

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Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by MajesticV: 9:43am On Aug 02, 2018
Cholls:
my brother educate them...day break everywhere burst

that what am trying to do
Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by MajesticV: 3:25pm On Aug 03, 2018
Cholls:
my brother educate them...day break everywhere burst

Still educating them oo
Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by Nobody: 3:30pm On Aug 03, 2018
For your mind you have taught us something

Ai Ai captain obvious! I was going to Bleep his brother and tell him that I boiled my ex boyfriend's dog while I call him every half an hour on the hour..... phew, I'm glad I came across your thread, smiley

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Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by DivinegraceA: 1:35am On Aug 04, 2018
Deadlywoman:
For your mind you have taught us something

Ai Ai captain obvious! I was going to Bleep his brother and tell him that I boiled my ex boyfriend's dog while I call him every half an hour on the hour..... phew, I'm glad I came across your thread, smiley

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Re: If You Want It To Be MORE Than A Hookup, Don't Do These Things by Royalluv2018: 2:11pm On Aug 04, 2018
MajesticV:
You can upgrade your status if you know how.

With most guys out there, girls that they have sex with fall into one of two categories . Either a girl is a hookup, or she's a relationship girl. Most guys already can tell whether you're just a hookup or a relationship girl after the first couple of times they see you.

That being said, it's not a total snap decision on the guy's part. There are ways you can make it clear that you're a relationship only kind of girl. Here are things you should do if you want to be more than just a casual sex hookup .
1. Don't tell him you're OK with a hookup if you're not.

Guys react very well to established boundaries because they will walk all over you if you have none. By putting your foot down early, they get the picture that you're not someone who will put up with their bad behavior.

2. Don't get clingy and desperate.

If you get too clingy, guys will back away from thinking of you as a relationship type of girl. No one wants to deal with a super-clingy girl.

3. Don't confess messed up stuff you did to an ex.

Tenor

Guys really don't want to deal with girls who have done messed up things to other men. For example, if your last relationship ended because you cheated on your man with three people , telling him that will make him want to avoid dating you.

4. Don't f*ck his friends or flirt with them.

Technically, this falls under "acting super-sleazy," but it's still worth noting. A lot of men won't date someone who has slept with their friends as a fling. It's against Bro Code and would just spark too much drama.

The teaching make sense cha

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