LONELY & MEN ONLY: See This and Never Say It Again In Your Life... [PICTURE]

Yes, most of us are lazy to read, but this is a short post for men. You'll learn something new. Something dating gurus will never tell you or explain. You'll be glad you read this.

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I have been in the dating world for years and I can confidently tell you I know everything about relationships. Despite knowing all, I still learn more. Ironic, but it's the truth. I keep learning and I keep sharing, lecturing, and teaching.

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I saw a thread by my lovely sister, NwanyiAwkaetiti — she's based in Abuja. On that thread, she was looking for a (Port Harcourt based) husband for her rich aunt who is in her early forties. I only read the first page.

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On that thread, a man who attacked me on my thread two days ago commented by saying, "

NameRemoved: Well, 40 is too much for me, else I would have been interested. So lonely.

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After reading his comment on that thread, I knew why he attacked me two days again. He is "SO LONELY."

When a man is so lonely, he becomes depressed. When a man is depressed, he becomes frustrated.

When a man is frustrated, he gets angry easily. When a man is fragile and emotionally angry, he may transfer his anger on anyone around — be it online or offline.

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This is what he said on my thread:

NameRemoved: I dont know if its just me but i find you really annoying and boring.
I doubt if you've ever made the millions you so claim by selling these suicidal articles. Whenever i see ilegendd,i feel like killing myself. And please,lose the square brackets you always put in your headings before you make me mental Obnoxious fellow!!!

Frustration and depression can make a person hate on anyone who isn't the cause.

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Another rubbish. Jump and pass.

So, in this case, he transferred his anger on me. Frustrated Nairalanders always transfer their angers on me. I know they're going through a traumatic phase of their life.

This is why I try to be kind to them or educate them. Unfortunately, they become arrogant, angrier, and abusive towards me.

I'm not the cause of their predicament, but I'm willing to take the blame.

Jesus is not the cause of our predicaments, but when we're in pain, we abuse him by saying, "God where are you? You said you'll answer our prayers but you're allowing this to happen to me."

After this statement, we start abusing God, then say he doesn't exist. The next day, we will become atheists. We refused to work on ourselves, but now we're in trouble, we blame it on God.

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This is exactly what frustrated Nairalanders do to me. They attack me as if I'm the cause of their loneliness.

All I'm doing on Nairaland is to help men in relationship. Some of these men I'm trying to help are the ones that usually attack me.

The women I'm not helping hardly attack me. They love exchanging fun chats with me here on NL or on WhatsApp. If 10 people attack me, 9 will be men. They are not real men, but lonely and frustrated men.

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So, let's talk about the keyword "Lonely." A man should NEVER use the word "lonely." Because Akon used it in his song doesn't mean you should use it. Akon is a celebrity. He isn't lonely. He wrote the song to make money, not to express his real feelings.

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I'll explain why the word "lonely" is dangerous. People who use "lonely" are nice guys who are clueless in the dating world. Good-bad guys only use the word "lonely" to tease a woman.

Nice guys use "so lonely" because they want a woman to pity them and consider dating them since they felt lonely = single = faithful = women will love me since I'm lonely.

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Let me open your eyes. Women can NEVER date men who use the world "So Lonely."

If you're a nice guy and you say, "I'm so lonely," to a woman, you're doom. This is what she'll say in her head.

1. Why is he lonely?
2. Why don't women like him?
3. Does he have any sickness that make other women run away from him?
4. Does he have any bad attitude or a stinky secret that make other women run away from him?
5. What is wrong with him? I must find out before I may consider him — if at all has a chance.

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Women ask themselves the above questions because no woman wants to date a man other women have rejected into loneliness.

Women want to date a man other women are dying to date. You don't need to be handsome, but confident and a good-bad guy.

When a man flaunts a pretty girl, other girls become attracted to him — some will even become jealous.


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You make threads to make ur point why....
It distracting reading them



Don't mention

Like you said see one Neva mention again

If you're a man and you openly says you're "so lonely," you'll repulse women even if you're handsome. You're doing yourself.

I know he used the word, "So lonely," to make women consider dating him and take him out of loneliness, but the opposite will happen — they will all RUN away from him.

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Here is what these clueless nice guys don't know: Most women are also lonely and are shy introverts.

Dating a man who is "so lonely," is like dating another boring introvert.

Do you want her to die in boredom? She is already bored and want a man who is lively — a man other women want is seen as lively.

For other women to want you, you are fun to be with. She'll want to be with this fun man instead of you, Mr. Lonely.


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So, if you're a man and you're single, don't EVER let a woman know you're lonely even if you're "SO LONELY."

What you should do is: read our dating books and your eyes will open. To get started, download our free ChatDicted 1.0 intro book via www.wetclef.com/topic330.html and read it. It takes only 30 minutes.


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Let me show you a Nairalander called HÂRDLABOR who told a woman he is lonely and you'll see how the women stylishly rejected him.

This is to say, "Women don't date lonely men, let alone men who are SO lonely." Making a woman jealous will make most women love you, but telling a woman you're lonely will make you look irritating to her.

Nice guys and lonely men will remain nice and lonely until they secretly work on themselves and become alpha males (good-bad guys).

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See screenshots of the HÂRDLABOR'S "lonely" statement. It's been added to our ChatDicted 2.0 book.


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Summary


NEVER you tell a woman you're lonely. If you do, you'll friend zone yourself by yourself. Women don't date lonely men except you're Akon. Have abundance mentality and blessings will follow you.

Chikebranny123:
You make threads to make ur point why....
It distracting reading them



Don't mention

Like you said see one Neva mention again

I don't understand what you wrote, but I understand the part of distracting. If you open any of my threads and it's distracting, kindly request for a link to read the full post.

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