Lalas247:
The list is small seff
Another A4 sheet will do .... some guys don’t know the value of a good woman ... he should buy it all and then some ....

My own list na book
Please don’t quote me o ... it’s friday

Shaftcraft:


My broda, don’t quote me , cuz i lived most of my life in the West over 34 yrs . No matter how much you satisfy a West woman 30 percent are honest and the rest na waste, she still get side man.. the same goes to their men, you can only satisfy them financially.... every woman is blessed but from the way things are.. Men pray God gives you your own wife.. if both women are tested for trusts I’m sure the west will Bleep up first. My broda i don’t mean to insult .. I’m only trying to open your eyes. I won’t say more than this.

YurFatHer:
Are they doing ritual with all this?

Joe4real701:
2 crate of smell stout ...hope am not the only one seeing this...

Lalas247:
The list is small seff
Another A4 sheet will do .... some guys don’t know the value of a good woman ... he should buy it all and then some ....

My own list na book
Please don’t quote me o ... it’s friday

WHOcarex:
What is premarital discovery? Hmm

abike12:


you're a rapist and I reported this post

Iykenuwa:


How "useless" is your Mum on a scale of 1-10?

7Alexander:

It is not the bride's father that produces the list, at least in my town. The list is produced by the KIndred association and is the same for everybody. The content isn't negotiable, but what you have there is mostly drinks and two goats

Shaftcraft:


My broda, don’t quote me , cuz i lived most of my life in the West over 34 yrs . No matter how much you satisfy a West woman 30 percent are honest and the rest na waste, she still get side man.. the same goes to their men, you can only satisfy them financially.... every woman is blessed but from the way things are.. Men pray God gives you your own wife.. if both women are tested for trusts I’m sure the west will Bleep up first. My broda i don’t mean to insult .. I’m only trying to open your eyes. I won’t say more than this... pls check very well yourself.. by the way why are you lamenting over the list?pls calculate how much it takes to raise a baby from birth till his/her one year old before coming here to lament. Asking for all those list doesn’t mean the family is poor.. it’s just the culture of the land. If you go to Akwa Ibom to pay this marital rites.. you’ll pay x2. Relate with the family if you really love your wife to be.. the family will be fair with you, somethings can be cut down..

ebenezerolaiwola:
. Sharap there, i also have live in the east too, that promiscuous it's everywhere, anyway the girl na Queen Elizabeth pikin, even Queen of England won't demand such from her Inlaw

donbachi:
Guys make una no die cry...only d f*ck wey she go f*ck u.don cover d entire lists.

OkaNaUbe:


Ngwa and and Nkpa (Bende LGA)

Akpan107:
That list is very reasonable to compare mine...

300,000 father money
200,000 mother
300,000 entertainment
200,000 Dowry
Those are the major

Other small items worth another 700,000 thousand, but at the end of the day, less than 500 thousands will settle everything.

OkaNaUbe:
Marrying from Akwa Ibom/Calabar, Mbano/Mbaise/Owerri/Etiti(IMO State), Ikwerre/Opobo/Calabari(Rivers State), Ngwo(Enugu) and one part of Abia State, is expensive. Pls get it straight, NOT ALL PARTS OF IMO STATE is expensive to marry from. Ask me the areas and I will tell you for free.

BTW, this list will be more expensive since the lady seems to be a Princess.

omakay:
Nice one!!!!

After paying for all these and most probably footing the bill of the church wedding and reception, the "wife" will one day wake up and shout "gender equality"....... And you expect the man not not resort to domestic violence!!!!!

As far as am concerned, the man is buying an item....

African marriages are majorly about buying women from their families..... There is no love involved in this one...... Let's not deceive ourselves...

After marrying the woman, sorry, "purchasing the woman" from her family, you want to stop him from not having extra-marital affairs or from practicing domestic violence when he feels it necessary ........ E no go work naaaa.....

Lalas247:

Some guys are buying car for mare gf ... wahlahi the list small

rapheal5:
abeg which area for Imo state no dey expensive Cuz my brother is getting married soon to a lady from Imo state

Shaftcraft:
The list is only letting you know you have responsibilities to take care of after marriage, that’s how prepared you are, and that your capable of being a man, that you can handle such without fricking out, if you’re wise and very close to the family, you won’t pay up to that, nobody wants to sell their child to slavery therefore making both couples hungry after married,they’re testing you to know how capable you are, it’s a strategy the bride family uses, if you flaunt as a big man you have every reason to pay what’s on the list, the most important part is demonstrating how true you love their daughter ... will you let you daughter go into marriage without knowing how prepared the man is?kukuma collect bride price from mere man that begs to eat. So after spending millions on your kids... you just want one man with no source of income or family ties to marry away your daughter then a year later you come on Nairaland and Narate how their marriage crash? it is stated clearly that both families should let the new couples enjoy the marriage, no one will call you for anything after marriage ask other sources and Do your finding right. I’m speaking from experience. My father in law even gifted my wife a Jeep on that night. does dis mean the family is hungry? Unik3030 is just being stupid.

Bluezy13:
The bride's family hates the dude.
(Just kidding)

A loving/understanding father in-law will slash the list to an appreciable minimum.

Gerrard59:


Exactly. Bride price should be outlawed, it makes no sense to me. As someone who has immersed himself into the culture in Akwa Ibom, I'm quite surprised with the list considering the people that I know that have married recently. I wonder how they coped.

I vow not pay bride price. If the family disagrees, I walk away.

Reelmii:
u vetter market well so that the dude can come buy one from u since it is part of the items listed

Sotland:


Father in-law will slash to what amount? I just wonder, could this list be real? I don't think one million will cover everything as seen on the list