Iam very bitter now. I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job, I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc. He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am, for good 9 months I too cared of him with money, I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+, now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people, this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent, that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me. Look at now am noting before me. Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

What did you do that made him turn cold toward you.

Princessmkpafi:
Iam very bitter now. I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job, I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc. He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am, for good 9 months I too cared of him with money, I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+, now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people, this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent, that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me. Look at now am noting before me. Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

Oh no! Not another one!!

I asked him Money for food.

dingbang:
What did you do that made him turn cold toward you.

just money for food

Take him to court

krattoss:
Take him to court

are you serious?

Just be patient with him but if he insist just forget about him no His conscience will kill him

Princessmkpafi:
Iam very bitter now. I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job, I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc. He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am, for good 9 months I too cared of him with money, I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+, now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people, this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent, that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me. Look at now am noting before me. Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

you are living with a man that is not married to you? That is wrong dear, he is blocking your chances of getting married or meeting the ideal man. Nobody has the right to hurt you in that way not when you went extra mile to make him comfortable. If you are sure, you are not bossy and rude to him, pls move on with your life and watch how he will be paid with his own coin

Sorry for your travails but the truth is that it was always a 50 50 chance, there were no guarantees

krattoss:
Take him to court

what will be her case? I'm curious.

Princessmkpafi:
Iam very bitter now. I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job, I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc. He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am, for good 9 months I too cared of him with money, I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+, now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people, this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent, that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me. Look at now am noting before me. Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

Sorry about this.

johnydon22:
what will be her case? I'm curious.

Breach of promise to marry.

Princessmkpafi:
just money for food

he doesnt understand what love is.
In which state do you resids marry me i will take of you

OP... you are not bound to anyone (even if dem born two of una together), particularly if you are not even yet married. If there is no change in sight, then I humbly suggest you pick up the pieces, look to God (Who never fails), and move forward... as someone better may come along.

Peace and blessings.

"But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace." -
1 Corinthians 7:15

I wish they would say these same things if tables were turned. Rather you hear things like women are bitches, bitches aint loyal, women are dogs, women are scum, use them and dump them, dont ever help a woman, bitches everywhere, they are good to be used for ritual, trust a woman at your own peril etc. I have not read one insult on men from start to end of this page. God will judge all of you

Princessmkpafi:
Please my good friends help me out before I die

Please our good friend, explain:
1/ How this death is going to come about
2/ Is this death going to be by suicide or murder?

Princessmkpafi:
I am very bitter now.
I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job,
I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc.
He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am,
for good 9 months I too cared of him with money,
I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+,
now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people,
this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent,
that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me.
Look at now am noting before me.
Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

You dont have to cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time, energy and money making it.

Now, is the time, to cut your losses, with this fiancé business.
It will be one of best decisions you ever made in your life
as it seems the fiancé business has turned out to be a poor investment.

Concerning the way in which two people are connected, here are words of wisdom and solution.
Look at and study the lives of:

1/ Abraham, the chief steward his household Eliezer, Isaac and Rebekah
2/ Jacob and Rachel
3/ David and Abigail
4/ Ruth and Boaz

God ceased being matchmaker after He got accused of finding and/or giving a wife for Adam
From then on, the onus shifted on to man, to find himself a wife.

#1, above, should make you think a lot about this issue concerning the way in which two people are connected:

Princessmkpafi, your husband will find you,
if not, you'll be directed to who is your husband, in the style or manner of Naomi, Ruth and Boaz

delishpot:
I wish they would say these same things if tables were turned. Rather you hear things like women are bitches, bitches aint loyal, women are dogs, women are scum, use them and dump them, dont ever help a woman, bitches everywhere, they are good to be used for ritual, trust a woman at your own peril etc. I have not read one insult on men from start to end of this page. God will judge all of you

But your mother is also a woman and she is not a bitch nor a dog , if not you would have been sold to the herbalist for ritual.

Some men are evil so also some women. Don't generalize it.

delishpot:
I wish they would say these same things if tables were turned.
Rather you hear things like women are bitches, bitches aint loyal, women are dogs, women are scum, use them and dump them,
dont ever help a woman, bitches everywhere, they are good to be used for ritual, trust a woman at your own peril etc.
I have not read one insult on men from start to end of this page.
God will judge all of you

You must have read the thread/page upside down
Or commented on the wrong thread/page