She got a federal job for her fiance of 8years! And he promised to marry her, he went to see her parents, she introduced him to a man and the man gave him the job in the name of marriage.the guy stayed in the village with his parents for over five years without a job, feeding him with things, money etc now the guy is calling her all types of names like Prostitute so many , that she is empty that he wants to get another girl and pay her off. Now the girl is confused. She wants to go and see the man that gave him the job so that he can withdraw the appointment letter. Or he should pay her off. She crying now. Please advise. Thanks

Princessmkpafi:
She got a federal job for her fiance of 8years! And he promised to marry her, he went to see her parents, she introduced him to a man and the man gave him the job in the name of marriage.the guy stayed in the village with his parents for over five years without a job, feeding him with things, money etc now the guy is calling her all types of names like Prostitute so many , that she is empty that he wants to get another girl and pay her off. Now the girl is confused. She wants to go and see the man that gave him the job so that he can withdraw the appointment letter. Or he should pay her off. She crying now. Please advise. Thanks

she shouldn't bother herself, karma neither sleeps nor slumbers, infact karma now uses private jets..

ladies should learn from other victims, don't do anything for a man an expect marriage as a pay back price..

even if he marries the lady they can never live in peace..

if the woman does/says anything, the man may think that it's because of the job.. and he can as well quit the job and the marriage at once..

Thnks

.No need to report the useless thing, GOD WILL NOT SLEEP.He sure will reap what he sow.There's SEED / HARVEST time.GOD cannot be MOCKED

Thanks! There was no help from his people, friends, none, the girl helped him used to sen him Money ,bought things for just for him to be happy now his calling the girl Prostitute, she is empty, no certificate, that his going for another girl, that the girl can't get the job from him. That he will pay the girl off.

Princessmkpafi:
Thanks! There was no help from his people, friends, none, the girl helped him used to sen him Money ,bought things for just for him to be happy now his calling the girl Prostitute, she is empty, no certificate, that his going for another girl, that the girl can't get the job from him. That he will pay the girl off.

Well, I feel you are the girl.

Anyway, your story is half complete. A man cannot just wake up and start calling his woman a prostitute without reason. Also, for him to even consider paying you off while you're considering withdrawing his appointment shows you've been using the job gotten for him as a blackmail tool.

Oh, and BTW, a Federal appointment is not the same as a private appointment. This means the man who helped him get the job cannot withdraw his appointment.

Mille:


Well, I feel you are the girl.

Anyway, your story is half complete. A man cannot just wake up and start calling his woman a prostitute without reason. Also, for him to even consider paying you off while you're considering withdrawing his appointment shows you've been using the job gotten for him as a blackmail tool.

Oh, and BTW, a Federal appointment is not the same as a private appointment. This means the man who helped him get the job cannot withdraw his appointment.

@Mille Sense will not kill you. U're a Wise man.

You guys had a "job for marriage" contract. If the contract is not working then withdraw your agreement. It is that simple, he should respect the terms of agreement.

If you're waiting for Karma to deal with him, then you're simply going to wait forever. Same Karma is yet to deal with those looting your resources in Aso rock.

Acidosis:


You guys had a "job for marriage" contract. If the contract is not working then withdraw your agreement. It is that simple, he should respect the terms of agreement.

If you're waiting for Karma to deal with him, then you're simply going to wait forever. Same Karma is yet to deal with those looting your resources in Aso rock.

@ bold:

Tragically funny.

Or karma is very selective.

@ withdrawing the job well, she should just move on.

If she coherses, the guy to marry her, she will live in eternal regret.

Better he showed his true intentions now.

Mille:


Well, I feel you are the girl.

Anyway, your story is half complete. A man cannot just wake up and start calling his woman a prostitute without reason. Also, for him to even consider paying you off while you're considering withdrawing his appointment shows you've been using the job gotten for him as a blackmail tool.

Oh, and BTW, a Federal appointment is not the same as a private appointment. This means the man who helped him get the job cannot withdraw his appointment.

Just how men who were jilted after training a lady in school has done something wrong.

Shebi the man conveniently waited the lady got him a job before knowing that her character is unbearable and a prostitute.

Sense will not kee you.

Princessmkpafi:
She got a federal job for her fiance of 8years! And he promised to marry her, he went to see her parents, she introduced him to a man and the man gave him the job in the name of marriage.the guy stayed in the village with his parents for over five years without a job, feeding him with things, money etc now the guy is calling her all types of names like Prostitute so many , that she is empty that he wants to get another girl and pay her off. Now the girl is confused. She wants to go and see the man that gave him the job so that he can withdraw the appointment letter. Or he should pay her off. She crying now. Please advise. Thanks

The bold shows that man never enjoyed that one day probably because of your attitude...

Acidosis:


You guys had a "job for marriage" contract. If the contract is not working then withdraw your agreement. It is that simple, he should respect the terms of agreement.[/b]


If you're waiting for Karma to deal with him, then you're simply going to wait forever. Same Karma is yet to deal with those looting your resources in Aso rock.

I agree with all of this.