Good evening Admin,

I just got back from work and I am exhausted and at my wits end. I got home only to find that my husband who has been at home has done nothing but watch video games all day. He left everything and the children unattended to.It is past 9pm and I am officially loosing my mind.

I work in the bank. I met Vincent seven years ago. He came to the bank to make transactions on his domiciliary account and I was very helpful to him. He flirted with me and I went along. In a matter of weeks,we were dating. I found out he was from a well to do home. Vincent schooled abroad but returned back cos his parents discovered he was using drugs.

Vincent could never keep a job since he returned from the US. He was struggling with staying drug free. Most times he stayed sober for almost eight months,sometimes he failed. I didn’t know he was drug dependent until almost one year of dating. His parents were happy he was dating me . They thought getting married to me would make him become responsible.

I also thought I was in love. He made me feel he needed me. He made promises to stay sober if I helped him. I thought I actually could make a difference in his life.When we got married,Vincent lost his job that his parents got for him in a company due to his laziness. He was always turning up late for work.Sometimes he was absent from work for weeks. His parents got so angry and to teach him a lesson,they stopped giving him any money either. That affected me cos he couldn’t provide for me or my kids after that.

I went to the parents to assist and they put the kids on a monthly allowance to assist me but warned me....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-tired-of-being-my-husbands-mother-for-six-years/

Hmm

it's well.more strength ma'am

why will a matured man be behaving like a baby maybe cos he never suffer well well

shocking my dear

chiommy123:
why will a matured man be behaving like a baby maybe cos he never suffer well well

Samuelgr8:
shocking my dear

its annoying. I wonder how such women cope

Women are special and supernatural gifted and i respect that, though we few are....

chiommy123:
its annoying. I wonder how such women cope

Samuelgr8:
Women are special and supernatural gifted and i respect that, though we few are....

thank God you accepted that women are gifted unlike your friends that call them LovePeddler. but how do such men face their kids

Same thought here till i discovered they are shameless and have no dignity

chiommy123:
thank God you accepted that women are gifted unlike your friends that call them LovePeddler. but how do such men face their kids

Samuelgr8:
Good evening Admin,

I just got back from work and I am exhausted and at my wits end. I got home only to find that my husband who has been at home has done nothing but watch video games all day. He left everything and the children unattended to.It is past 9pm and I am officially loosing my mind.

I work in the bank. I met Vincent seven years ago. He came to the bank to make transactions on his domiciliary account and I was very helpful to him. He flirted with me and I went along. In a matter of weeks,we were dating. I found out he was from a well to do home. Vincent schooled abroad but returned back cos his parents discovered he was using drugs.

Vincent could never keep a job since he returned from the US. He was struggling with staying drug free. Most times he stayed sober for almost eight months,sometimes he failed. I didn’t know he was drug dependent until almost one year of dating. His parents were happy he was dating me . They thought getting married to me would make him become responsible.

I also thought I was in love. He made me feel he needed me. He made promises to stay sober if I helped him. I thought I actually could make a difference in his life.When we got married,Vincent lost his job that his parents got for him in a company due to his laziness. He was always turning up late for work.Sometimes he was absent from work for weeks. His parents got so angry and to teach him a lesson,they stopped giving him any money either. That affected me cos he couldn’t provide for me or my kids after that.

I went to the parents to assist and they put the kids on a monthly allowance to assist me but warned me....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-tired-of-being-my-husbands-mother-for-six-years/

Whats the point of copying a story from a another forum? We can not talk direct with person who wrote it, there are few things that might need clarification directly that speculation from responders like us

your comment on the blog story will be fine

ZIMDRILL:


Whats the point of copying a story from a another forum? We can not talk direct with person who wrote it, there are few things that might need clarification directly that speculation from responders like us

Samuelgr8:
your comment on the blog story will be fine

its useless because the person who is meant to get advice on wont he here,

it seems like you want to promote the blog

that's why you have to comment on the blog story if you truly want to advise, but it not compulsory. however, some stories comes from some NLanders, that's why we share it here to encourage more people to reachout to us with their issues.LS was borne out of a vision to change the narratives...so dont be critical,Life takes us around sometimes my friend and....

ZIMDRILL:


its useless because the person who is meant to get advice on wont he here,

it seems like you want to promote the blog

Beke2020:
that's why you have to comment on the blog story if you truly want to advise, but it not compulsory. however, some stories comes from some NLanders, that's why we share it here to encourage more people to reachout to us with their issues.LS was borne out of a vision to change the narratives...so dont be critical,Life takes us around sometimes my friend and....

you are missing the point

most people dont come here to be re directed somewhere

hmnnnn

ZIMDRILL:


you are missing the point

most people dont come here to re directed somewhere

many thanks dear, i get ur point

ZIMDRILL:


you are missing the point

most people dont come here to re directed somewhere