As a man if you want to enjoy your marriage with your wife endeavor to do the following.



1.Lead With Humility

The reason there is such a debate about whether men ought to be leaders in a marriage relationship is because too many men have not led with humility.
Men may be called by God to lead their wives, but our
leadership should be selfless.
Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or
vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than
yourselves” (New International Version).
Put this verse into practice, and it will solve 95 percent of the issues you face.
I have never met a woman who says, “I resist my husband’s
leadership even though he is very humble and Christlike.”
The women I’ve met are craving godly leadership in their marriages.

2. Have Godly Courage

First Corinthians 16:13 gives a clear definition of biblical
masculinity: “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.” Before we can be godly husbands, we must be men of courage.
Wrapped up in that definition of what it means to be a man is
the idea of courage.
And the essence of courage is to have such a great fear of
God that you fear nothing else.

3. Be a Provider

The husband should bear the primary responsibility for the
financial needs of the home.
In fact, 1 Timothy 5:8 says if a man fails to provide for his
household, he is worse than an infidel. That’s not the kind of
reputation I want to have in the community.
Part of the root meaning for the word provider means “to look ahead.”
A provider is one who anticipates and does the strategic
planning for the household. He thinks about the goals. Not just the financial goals, but the spiritual goals and emotional goals.
In a sense, he is chief executive officer of the corporation. It’s his responsibility to set the direction.
And many times his wife is the chief operating officer.
The two of them need to unify their direction for the good of
the family.

4. Love Her Biblically and Extravagantly

To love her biblically, we need to ask, “What is God’s love for
us like?” The essence of His love for us is reflected in His
commitment to us and His sacrifice for us. That’s what our
love for our wife needs to look like too.
For me, it often means placing her needs ahead of my own.
And it means that I will still sacrifice for her even when we
disagree. She must be my priority.
Remember the little line in the marriage vow, “Forsaking all
others, until death do us part”?
That means your relationship with your wife is more important than any other relationship — friends, your boss or even your children.
Put simply, after our love for God, we must love our wives
more than anything on earth. That is the essence of the
marriage relationship.
“If I want to find out whether a man was a Christian, I wouldn’t go to a minister; I’d go and ask his wife.
“If a man doesn’t treat his wife right, I don’t want to hear him
talk about Christianity. What is the use of talking about
salvation for the next life if he has no salvation for this life?”





CC Lalasticlala, Dominique

Just 4 points ??

You are very lazy!

Is it not your mate that made his own 12 points

Pansophist, what are your thoughts?

You no they tire

AngryNigerian22:
lol that guy is a gigolo

ThatIjawBoy:

ThatIjawBoy:
You no they tire

Tired from what? Do I look a regular visitor of this section ? or do you see my posts everywhere?


You're a troll, perhaps.

Hanseel1:


Tired from what? Do I look a regular visitor of this section ? or do you see my posts everywhere?


You're a troll, perhaps.

no offense dude but you have this girlish behaviour.

ThatIjawBoy:
no offense dude but you have this girlish behaviour.

For you to know that I have a girlish behavior you must have been following me around on nairaland.
Whether I behave like a woman, man,transgender or not is inconsequential. My life, my choice.

This is the height of joblessness. Do you have a life outside nairaland? If yes, find something productive to do with your time.

Hanseel1:


For you to know that I have a girlish behavior you must have been following me around on nairaland.
Whether I behave like a woman, man,transgender or not is inconsequential. My life, my choice.

This is the height of joblessness. Do you have a life outside nairaland? If yes, find something productive to do with your time.

on a Sunday morning?

QueenSekxy:
on a Sunday morning?

Your point?

QueenSekxy:
on a Sunday morning?

Your point?

Hanseel1:

Your point?

You are derailing your thread by replying with such comment.

QueenSekxy:
on a Sunday morning?

Kuku kill me na...

MariaLavina:
Kuku kill me na...

lool. good morning?

5) Have a listening ear

6) Be a companion

7) Be a Protector

Build a family altar

9). Give her great sex

10) Correct with love.

QueenSekxy:
You are derailing your thread by replying with such comment.

He wasn't derailing by switching from the topic? Why did you even quote me? Nobody made you my advisor.
Thank you.

QueenSekxy:
lool. good morning?

Good morning. Happy Sunday

Hanseel1:

He wasn't derailing by switching from the topic? Why did you even quote me? Nobody made you my advisor.
Thank you.

shut up. I will quote you if I want to.

Hanseel1:


He wasn't derailing by switching from the topic?
Why did you even quote me? Nobody made you my advisor.

Thank you.

Being unnecessarily aggressive will never hide your insecurity. I see clearly your low self esteem and how desperately you try to boost your deflected ego on here.


Be a man, know your worth, accept who you are and live your life. Whatever people on here think of you shouldn't have a negative impact on you. You are what you are and the world is what it is .

MariaLavina:
Good morning. Happy Sunday

wish you the best sis.

MariaLavina:
Being unnecessarily aggressive will never hide your insecurity. I see clearly your low self esteem and how desperately you try to boost your deflected ego on here.


Be a man, know your worth, accept who you are and live your life. Whatever people on here think of you shouldn't have a negative impact on you. You are what you are and the world is what it is .

my dear,her always aggressive.
if he's like this in real life,then I pity the wife.

QueenSekxy:
wish you the best sis.

Same here
BTW be nice on Hansel. A depressed man has his limits

MariaLavina:
Same here
BTW be nice on Hansel. A depressed man has his limits

Lol. should be telling you that. not only depressed but quite aggressive.

QueenSekxy:

my dear,her always aggressive.
if he's like this in real life,then I pity the wife.

Lol... He was cooler when he was preacbills. His doom began the day he shared his story on here. He thought Nl guys would embrace and hail him for his choices in life. Maybe they did at first.

But little did he know that his story would be used against him in future. No be nairalanders? . Sometimes I just pity the guy .

MariaLavina:
Lol... He was cooler when he was preacbills. His doom began the day he shared his story on here. He thought Nl guys would embrace and hail him for his choices in life. Maybe they did at first.

But little did he know that his story would be used against him in future. No be nairalanders? . Sometimes I just pity the guy .

true, I pity his NL condition though.

QueenSekxy:

Lol.
should be telling you that.
not only depressed but quite aggressive.

It's in stages sis. From Frustration to aggression to depression to..... . Believe me you don't want to know what may happen next.

MariaLavina:
It's in stages sis. From Frustration to aggression to depression to..... . Believe me you don't want to know what may happen next.

lool.
suicide mission.

QueenSekxy:
true, I pity his NL condition though.

More reason we have to free him . Let him dey him lane