Awon ti 50 shades of grey ni.

Well this is my 50 kobo OP, he didn't do it before when Buhari was yet to be president but does it now. Truth is there's much strife, pain and hunger now and u know a hungry man is An Angry Animal So u have your Diagnosis; Buhari and his cohorts are the cause of all these So take a Placard to Aso rock and protest against Buhari the Terrorist.

Heheheheheh diz story kind of funi what should i call it now "painful pleasure" be doing you dont know how to confront him until u're killed this na typical example of waitn dey sweet dey kill". MAke God nor let us read headline seh boh strangles girlfriend during sex...sister tell him is supposed to be enjoyed not endured.

912:
Two things involved:

1) he learnt it from watching porn or discussing with his buddies

2) he learnt it from a side chic or Olosho

if it is number one then you are fine no need bringing it up because since he saw it on your face that he almost killed you then he is most likely not going to do it again. That might be why he hasn't brought it up and if you bring it up he will be embarrassed since it will show he is a learner that can't even choke his lover right.

if it is number 2 then two things involved


1) Olosho has been doing something to him

2) A side chic that is more adventurous has been blowing his mind while you guys were apart (or she is still by the side even now that you guys are close)

If it is number one then you are fine as long as he used protection with the oloshos then there is nothing to worry about.


if it is number two then 2 things involved......But that is a story for another day because I need to go back to bed.

very dramatic answer for a dramatic story. Good riddance

He's obviously on some Christian grey shit...
Play safe

Never did before...means it's something new he learned from somewhere. ..most likely....porn or friends. You have to let him know point blank...you're not down with that. Silence is consent....you keep silent...he'll think you're ok with it...liked it ...and guess what the next time? ...and the next time?...and if you are still alive...the next time?

MrRichmond:


Op I think your bf is just an adventurous guy.
He's just experimenting with things he has seen somewhere...
Although he is clearly an inexperienced choker. You should bring it up and let him know u ain't feeling that shii...
Sometimes I wonder why people in a relationship who have probably seen each others unclothedness and use the same toothbrush get scared talking to each other about certain things..

it baffles me..

Sometimes it’s more difficult to discuss issues as these. Thanks

912:
Two things involved:

1) he learnt it from watching porn or discussing with his buddies

2) he learnt it from a side chic or Olosho

if it is number one then you are fine no need bringing it up because since he saw it on your face that he almost killed you then he is most likely not going to do it again. That might be why he hasn't brought it up and if you bring it up he will be embarrassed since it will show he is a learner that can't even choke his lover right.

if it is number 2 then two things involved


1) Olosho has been doing something to him

2) A side chic that is more adventurous has been blowing his mind while you guys were apart (or she is still by the side even now that you guys are close)

If it is number one then you are fine as long as he used protection with the oloshos then there is nothing to worry about.


if it is number two then 2 things involved......But that is a story for another day because I need to go back to bed.

Hmm very in depth. Much appreciated

Thank you all so much for all your advise. I’ve read everything. Apologies I won’t be able to respond to each and everyone of you but I appreciate you all a little update for those who may care, I have discussed this issue with him amongst other issues we have had and we had an ‘amiable’ breakup. Moving on now I guess...

next time let him do it with a pillow

Better for you jare. I'm sure there's another woman in the picture, Lol!!!

Queenrabella:
Thank you all so much for all your advise. I’ve read everything. Apologies I won’t be able to respond to each and everyone of you but I appreciate you all a little update for those who may care, I have discussed this issue with him amongst other issues we have had and we had an ‘amiable’ breakup. Moving on now I guess...

Queenrabella:
Thank you all so much for all your advise. I’ve read everything. Apologies I won’t be able to respond to each and everyone of you but I appreciate you all a little update for those who may care, I have discussed this issue with him amongst other issues we have had and we had an ‘amiable’ breakup. Moving on now I guess...

That's one of the two things involved if there is a side chic. Be happy because that's the easy solution. The second option had two things involved but there is no need talking about that since you have taken the right and easy option

912:


That's one of the two things involved if there is a side chic. Be happy because that's the easy solution. The second option had two things involved but there is no need talking about that since you have taken the right and easy option

Thanks dear. Just curious what the second option is.

you have forgotten when u were shouting; "harder harder, "

Queenrabella:


Thanks dear. Just curious what the second option is.

the second option is that you would have struggled in the relationship trying to cope with dwindling attention(because he will be giving more and more attention to the other chic), feeling depressed (because there will be constant friction in the relationship and most times you will blame yourself for even things you know were not your fault) and feeling more and more insecure. The desperation will finally make you come here again with another story asking for advice on what to do with a 10years relationship that isn't going anywhere. So it is better you save yourself all the trouble.

[quote author=Queenrabella post=70316375]Hi, Rabella here again or Bella for short. Seeing as this is an anonymous forum; I decided to put this out here to get opinions of others as I am unable to summon the courage to discuss this with my friends or anyone for that matter. Ok straight to it.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, he is the first person I ever had a proper sexual relationship with so I am not very experienced at all. We hadn’t had sex in a while due to distance but fate had it we were able to break that as he now lives in the same city as myself.

So after a few months of no sex, he comes over to mines and things get steamy very quickly next thing, he was on top of me when half way through he held the top of my neck and pressed on it or more like strangled it, I was literally gasping for air then he noticed and stopped. We finished and that was that. No mention of the whole ‘event’ where I was almost suffocated.) BUT U ENJOY AM ABI

Perhaps you just lay like a log on bed

Op which kind play be that ,abeg warn him not to do it again ,If u had died hope u know say na straight to hell o,cos u guys aren't married. That action of strangulation is sick,don't encourage it.

discuss with him and make him understand you dont like that idea. simple
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Do you know that there's a certain height of pleasure that is derived from seizing blood flow in a fluctuating manner to the brain during sex? I saw that in a book by the way.

I don't really think he wants you dead. He is still an amateur in it.

The technique is pretty simple. Seize her breath for some seconds just sufficient enough to make her gasp for air calmly but not sufficient to make her struggle physically for it.

So when she gasps for air, give her little time to breath and then continue the cycle.

Please note: It gets riskier when she about to cum or cumming.

I'm still that virgin boy

1stNumeroUno:
Babe, so you go keep quiet till somebody kill you?
Sincerely, I find it hard to believe some enjoy such painful sexual exercise.
I think sex should be done easy - easy like Sunday morning...you know what I mean.

Queenrabella:
Hi, Rabella here again or Bella for short. Seeing as this is an anonymous forum; I decided to put this out here to get opinions of others as I am unable to summon the courage to discuss this with my friends or anyone for that matter. Ok straight to it.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, he is the first person I ever had a proper sexual relationship with so I am not very experienced at all. We hadn’t had sex in a while due to distance but fate had it we were able to break that as he now lives in the same city as myself.

So after a few months of no sex, he comes over to mines and things get steamy very quickly next thing, he was on top of me when half way through he held the top of my neck and pressed on it or more like strangled it, I was literally gasping for air then he noticed and stopped. We finished and that was that. No mention of the whole ‘event’ where I was almost suffocated.

I’m really bothered because in all our three years of been together, this has never happened. A lot of things have been going through my mind including if he’s cheating but my problem is he has not ever brought it up in conversation and I don’t know how to confront him about it either

Im really confused as to what this is, am I supposed to have enjoyed it? What’s wrong with just having sex, why did he have to make me feel like I can’t breath

Sorry for the epistle.
I look forward to your solutions
Peace and love
xxxxx

Whoo! Enervating pleasure
for some.

this is called dominance he must have read ilegendd 's book davidos Bleep guide