follypimpi:

^ OPONNU Ara Galatia - thats the full form of saying it.

tolutara:

People tend to fake when they are in a relationships, so I will usually watch how they treat others while putting into consideration of their acts with me.

Diva 2.0:

I don't understand how FB deactivated your account though. That doesn't make sense.

leboss6:

You cant be more surprised than i was cos i still made use of the account about 4am that day and woke around 7am tried to log in but for where, i lost over 700 friends and more importantly over 400 pictures that i had stored no where else, that's a mistake i will never make again, i sent an e-mail to the FB team and they said i uploaded a picture with unclothed content, but to be honest that picture was not that bad as i have seen worse pictures uploaded on FB,i guess someone reported me and that was it.

Diva 2.0:

Was the unclothed picture of you or a female?

topup:

It depends on the environment the person stays and what words and behavioural patterns they assimilate.

Who knows maybe it's a throw away word to her, the gravity of which you felt because to you it's the highest of highest of insults.

I'm not excusing her behaviour, I think she shows signs of a woman that can get extremely irrational when she is under emotional pressure or is confused, this is not a settling characteristic - to know a person could explode on you.

Ask her, "What if something worse happened, would she harm you?"

"What if we got married, would you divorce me there and then?"

These are the images I get, of her irrational behaviour.


For now, make it clear that those words are lethal and should not be uttered - I am assuming that you don't verbally abuse her either - then watch her, watch her general tolerance for anger and situations, and really try and observe her trust for you.

2 things I thought when I read your post:

- She is fiery but not in the good way - explosive and irrational when angry.
- She does not have an inbuilt trust, which gives you the benefit of the doubt - knowing you wouldn't do such a thing to her, or at least trying her best to believe it.

sabygrace:

Bros please look before you leap that kind of woman can turn you to a wife beater and stir up domestic violence if you eventually marry her, if she cannot give you the benefit of the doubt over such trivial issues I bet she's not your woman,this is because many wives believe their husbands "not because he's saying the truth" but because they trust them no matter what.I'm married and can tell you this is no good sign at all.