@ spoilt, are you a teacher? Just asking.

@davidylan
cos im fighting their battle? no im not.
im sure if i say that i am, you'll be like "no wonder".

Thats the best thing about women - we are good at multitasking.
We are able to balance our worklife, home and kids and probably still be doing a course as well.

It takes a lot of sacrifice. But you just have to find something that works for you cause loads of women have been doing it for years and are stll doing it.

I have always wanted to teach (I still hope to do it someday). I'd hate to think that my becoming a teacher would lead some people _{ahem davidylan} to assume that my capacity to make intelligent conversation was below that of the average person. We know you are a PhD but abeg, get over yourself already, afterall, there are teachers with PhD too. 

;DWell I taught for a while after completing Secondary School, and I am very proud of my then vocation. My teaching did not in anyway prevented me from holding "intelligent" conversation. Matter of fact, I did much better than my then doctor-in-training significant other.

Well Teachers mold a nation, we can't all be doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, murderers, thieves, there must be balance, then again to each its own.

just as cute-ass have said, it's decision to be arrived btw the couples, well b4 entering into the final step of their life, however, Things changes and we should be ready to adjust accordingly. It's not fair 4 the man to bear the financial burden alone as it's not fair 4 the woman to do all the housework as well.

It's a very complicated lifestyle, but with time, it becomes a way of life and we have 2 look 4 that creative ways to enjoy life to the fullest either married-widowed-divorced-single and whatever trade we find ourselves,

There is nothing greater than everlasting happiness which includes financial and family components.

we can't all be doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, murderers, thieves,

@ neelsel
did you include murderers and thieves in the list of occupations?
quit playing girl!

@Spoilt, girl am a Realist, .
Sad as it may sound, it is the blatant truth. Bad eggs must mingle with the Good ones so as to ensure equilibrum

It's every parent dream that their children become something worthwhile, however, the reality is, (as we say in the islands) belly mek pickney, eh nah mek mind,

belly mek pickney, eh nah mek mind,

@neelsel
couldnt for the life of me make out what that meant. doesnt sound anything like our own nigerian pidgeon english.
which island are you from?

@Spoilt, why did I just know you were going to ask me that

Well girl there are some nosey gutter rats on Nairaland who have been having "labour pain" since I refused to reveal my nationality.

Anyway knock on my YIM, I may reveal

Oh! It simply means, Belly(womb) makes children, however, it cannot determine the child's mind,

it makes sense now after your interpretation! will talk to you later on yim. you had better reveal!