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I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 6:14am On Aug 24, 2018
I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn how to chat on social media especially on whatsapp.I had this conversation with a close female course mate of mine who will continue to complain that I hardly call her.This girl long for my friendship than I do for her,we meet in school the way she plays with me will make people think that we are brother and sister from the
same family.
OUR CHAT
me-Hi Vera
she-Hi
me-Vera is Sam(thinking she doesn't know whom she is chatting with)
she-I kw
me-so what's up
she-cool
me-Hope we r good
she -no reply and she hav being online

We met in the following day and she ran to me with a hug saying I missed you Sam...For God sake some girls need to be thought on how to chat and is beginning to influence some guys already.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by zinnydan(f): 6:21am On Aug 24, 2018
Maybe she wasn't online... Her data may be on that doesn't mean she's there....as for me I know communication etiquettes

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Alejoc(m): 6:22am On Aug 24, 2018
Some are quite good at it though.... They know your underlying intention right from the start so they let you do all the hard work to know if you can endure or last long grin cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 6:35am On Aug 24, 2018
zinnydan:
Maybe she wasn't online... Her data may be on that doesn't mean she's there....as for me I know communication etiquettes
she went offline and came back online again like trice.
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Olalan(m): 6:40am On Aug 24, 2018
Truth is many girls aren't intelligent enough to keep a chat going.........and most times just a surface view of the person DP is all most girls use to judge if he could be a friend or not.
BTW am sure if your pics was showing a rich balling guy she'll be all over you with senseless chats

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by zinnydan(f): 6:43am On Aug 24, 2018
oofjm:
she went offline and came back online again like trice.
then teach her...it's her mindset,correct it
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 6:44am On Aug 24, 2018
Alejoc:
Some are quite good at it though.... They know your underlying intention right from the start so they let you do all the hard work to know if you can endure or last long grin cheesy grin cheesy
I tell u,some of them are just like that and they dt know it can affect their relationship...some of us just dt like girls who form too much.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by zinnydan(f): 6:45am On Aug 24, 2018
Alejoc:
Some are quite good at it though.... They know your underlying intention right from the start so they let you do all the hard work to know if you can endure or last long grin cheesy grin cheesy
Lol...Bros you're funny
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by chiommy123(f): 6:53am On Aug 24, 2018
So you prefer chatting with her online than telling her your mind real life. She knows this and she prefers you tell her offline.
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 6:53am On Aug 24, 2018
zinnydan:
then teach her...it's her mindset,correct it
yeh I told her already... I believe she will change that mind set soon...
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Alejoc(m): 6:55am On Aug 24, 2018
zinnydan:

Lol...Bros you're funny


grin
Sis my yan is closer to the truth grin
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 6:56am On Aug 24, 2018
Olalan:
Truth is many girls aren't intelligent enough to keep a chat going.........and most times just a surface view of the person DP is all most girls use to judge if he could be a friend or not.
BTW am sure if your pics was showing a rich balling guy she'll be all over you with senseless chats
the funny thing is that,even with their wanted guy again to keep the conversation going is a problem
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by zinnydan(f): 6:57am On Aug 24, 2018
Alejoc:



grin
Sis my yan is closer to the truth grin
I don't know if it's true buh you try
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Nobody: 7:05am On Aug 24, 2018
Money speaks louder.
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by zinnydan(f): 7:08am On Aug 24, 2018
oofjm:
yeh I told her already... I believe she will change that mind set soon...
thumbs up sir
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Greyworld: 7:15am On Aug 24, 2018
oofjm:
she went offline and came back online again like trice.
And you were monitoring her? Well bros you re right, some a pigeon would deliver a msg faster than they would reply and when they do the bird would say "k" the slightly sensible one would give a double "kk" while the brainy would say "okay"

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by akinyemi0103(m): 7:21am On Aug 24, 2018
Trust me, some of them are hyper-boring. undecided

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by oofjm: 7:22am On Aug 24, 2018
Greyworld:

And you were monitoring her? Well bros you re right, some a pigeon would deliver a msg faster than they would reply and when they do the bird would say "k" the slightly sensible one would give a double "kk" while the brainy would say "okay"

lol
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by jejemanito: 7:30am On Aug 24, 2018
1. Most Nigerian boys don't chat, they ask questions.

2. If a girl ain't feeling you, she won't chat.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by SporaD8: 7:49am On Aug 24, 2018
Bro. Abeg the mata tire me o.
Initially I thought its forming thing but No! She was all over you the next morning.
Boring chat? No! That was where l personally discover it had to do with slow comprehension - she won't want to reply offhand and look stupid.
Their worst nemesis is spelling and typing speed.
Our lady, with the exception of a very few, should know that their chatting etiquette is nothing to write home about.
Uncle lala, there is a very horrible snake under the carpet!!!

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by Nobody: 7:49am On Aug 24, 2018
grin grin grin grin


I, personally, abhor most short-forms during conversations, especially "am" and "k" and never use them when chatting with people.

When it comes to responding, most of the time I tend to write epistles, depending on what's being talked about.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by CAPTIVATOR: 8:07am On Aug 24, 2018

I think we should also ask: How many Nigerian guys know how to chat ?

Some guys just ask question upon question

How was your day ? She will say " Fyn " , what do you eat ? " Rice and on and on , just asking questions . so at the end she will get bored and tired.


True some ladies are boring, but if you as a man also step up your conversation skills , at times even a boring girl can be very active typing epistles .

What about intro to chats ?

All this " Hi " " Hello " ' Hi Babe" are turnoff for many girls, beside even me as a guy don't find it interesting.

Instead of Hi or hello. Why not start by something unusual, sometimes you can just give a comment on something she posted on status, And take it from there. And if you want to chat her directly. Be unpredictable.

" anyone here " ?

" Can i come in ?"

Example:

- Why is your door locked ... Are u online ?

Lol, am here

- Ohhh, watching TV?

Not really

- I thought u were busy watching movie ni

Lol, no

- I don't really like movies though, you ?

I do

- really ? But I don't find them interesting, execially Nigerian Movie

Lol, some of them are fine

- give example?

She mentioned one

- hmmm, what's it all about

Many will Starr writing epistle ( area of interest)

Etc

Combine fun with your intro, makes some feel free with you.

I once have a girl who is always Lol, Lol

So one day I changed approach towards her, and come and see how she was typing epistles,, no more one word replies .

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by ItzBIM(m): 8:26am On Aug 24, 2018
A lot are just boring with no sense of humour, however there are still lively ones out there when you find one keep her.
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by wittyt98(m): 8:40am On Aug 24, 2018
A lot of naija girls don't chat,They just reply texts grin

one time i met one London babe through my bro and we got talking on whatsapp. this babe literally is da bomb, she's never out of things to ask me or gist me about. it was at that point i started wondering if that's how all London babes are or its just her and also how come so many naija girls are so different,like they rarely ask questions or talk about experiences just to keep a chat going. they just let a guy do the whole thing lol

These days what i do to lame texters is just ignore for life. And when u do,they call to ask why u ain't texting. Like why the fûck should i try to force a dead convo? grin cant be wasting time on a lame ass when i could be having so much fun else where. so many naija girls really need to step up their game

But trust me there re so many lively naija girls with great sense of humour out there,the only problem is they are so rare.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by samysmoothfresh: 8:47am On Aug 24, 2018
Quiescere:
grin grin grin grin


I, personally, abhor most short-forms during conversations, especially "am" and "k" and never use them when chatting with people.

When it comes to responding, most of the time I tend to write epistles, depending on what's being talked about.

Hi, i'm samy smiley


*patiently waiting for your epistle*

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by encryptjay(m): 8:47am On Aug 24, 2018
That's because some of them cannot chat. Some have British accents but bring them online to chat and watch them fumble. It's like their brain relapses during that period. Some even run offline.
The only time you get to see long epistles is when they're praising God or when their relationship has crashed, and you see them talking about being strong and independent. grin

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by pocohantas(f): 8:51am On Aug 24, 2018
Are Nigerian guys any better?

The same ones who type bullshit on social media? I can see one up there, who made the usual "am" blunder, yet he is talking about intelligence.

The ones always asking, "have you eaten and what are you wearing?" grin grin

Please, Nigerian youths are dumb cheesy.

The only difference is, the guys can easily talk about sports/politics and sound smart. The girls on their part, na makeup and fashion dey their head. Majority of una, na the same. Male and female!!

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by milemimi93(m): 8:51am On Aug 24, 2018
It's everywhere my brother. Not only Nigerian girls.
Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by symbian123(m): 9:20am On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:
Are Nigerian guys any better?

The same ones who type bullshit on social media? I can see one up there, who made the usual "am" blunder, yet he is talking about intelligence.

The ones always asking, "have you eaten and what are you wearing?" grin grin

Please, Nigerian youths are dumb cheesy.


The only difference is, the guys can easily talk about sports/politics and sound smart. The girls on their part, na makeup and fashion dey their head. Majority of una, na the same. Male and female!!

Always disgracing guys. But today, u went a lil further by shamming some ladies as well. I'm impressed. Lol. But seriously, y'all need to up ur chatting. Save for u of course and some few others on here. The "k" females need to be extracted and placed on an isolated island with no cellphones.

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Re: I think is time Nigeria girls begin to learn on how to chat by symbian123(m): 9:23am On Aug 24, 2018
Quiescere:
grin grin grin grin


I, personally, abhor most short-forms during conversations, especially "am" and "k" and never use them when chatting with people.

When it comes to responding, most of the time I tend to write epistles, depending on what's being talked about.

Now that's what I'm talking about.. Lol. Check ur Pm. I know some nairalanders would bash me and rip me apart for this. Na their way. Lol. I love intelligent ladies who can keep conversations flowing. Can we connect elsewhere?

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