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How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 12:36am On Aug 27, 2018
So since my last relationship, it's been very very hard coming out of my shell to love again. Every time I get worried if I'd ever love someone like my last. *This should have been in my diary but just wanna share here*

Let me give a little history about the last. It's been over a year since we separated and saw last. It ended in a very bitter quarrel in December when he asked we see but I didn't even know he wanted us to reconcile and move on with what we had. Tot he wanted to just sleep with me, and I didn't want that. I love him too much so I was scared of giving in.
He tried again sometime in April, I don't know what happened in that one, all I can remember was him calling me 'ceeC' lol.

But I loved him, I never gave my heart to anyone like I did to him. Even when I went to his place while dating it was fun, and he had my interest at heart, enrolled me into a French school during service, carried me along in what was happening.
I then I lost it, partly due to my stubbornness, I now see things from his angle and I have really worked on myself, made myself better. I wish things could go back to normal, or I love again, coz it's so hard for me to love again. All I think of is getting a job, which God has helped me with and grow, but I get scared of love.
Re: How do you love again? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:32am On Aug 27, 2018
A fukcing MEN!!!!!
Re: How do you love again? by Nobody: 3:15am On Aug 27, 2018
Word!
Re: How do you love again? by Raydans: 6:27am On Aug 27, 2018
He is not going to be the man you want him to be because you are still not the woman he wants you to be.

*Check yourself

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Re: How do you love again? by lilmax(m): 6:55am On Aug 27, 2018
people don't change
Re: How do you love again? by Bluezy13(m): 7:44am On Aug 27, 2018
A man doesn't change...


Situations change.
Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 9:42am On Sep 01, 2018
lilmax:
people don't change


They do.. When it's convenient for them
Re: How do you love again? by chiommy123(f): 12:10pm On Sep 01, 2018
You need to know that everyone is not the same and you need to free your mind to relate with people BTW you sound like you're still interested in your ex why not reconcile and build your relationship

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Re: How do you love again? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:51pm On Sep 01, 2018
Hmmmmm
Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 12:12am On Sep 02, 2018
chiommy123:
You need to know that everyone is not the same and you need to free your mind to relate with people BTW you sound like you're still interested in your ex why not reconcile and build your relationship

Honestly relating is what I've been doing. About reconciliation I don't know how to go about it, to avoid rejection.. So I stay my lane and think about what's not
Re: How do you love again? by alexistaiwo: 6:27am On Sep 02, 2018
nanauju:


Honestly relating is what I've been doing. About reconciliation I don't know how to go about it, to avoid rejection.. So I stay my lane and think about what's not

I have been there.
It is better you give the reconciliation your best shot and get rejected than have to live the rest of your life thinking "Had I known".



Pick up the phone, call him just to check up on him for at least three days (preferably early in the morning) this week.
Next Sunday, send him this exact message.

"Sweetheart, I know that I may not always be the easy girlfriend to manage but for you I have decided to make amends because I love you and I will do anything for you. If there is any chance of us making whatever we used to have work again. I miss you"


If he is still interested, he will surely fall for that.
Don't think that you are selling yourself short or worry about looking desperate.
When you guys reconcile, do your normal woman hard to get shakara for two weeks.
Everything will be back to normal grin .

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Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 9:17am On Sep 02, 2018
alexistaiwo:


I have been there.
It is better you give the reconciliation your best shot and get rejected than have to live the rest of your life thinking "Had I known".



Pick up the phone, call him just to check up on him for at least three days (preferably early in the morning) this week.
Next Sunday, send him this exact message.

"Sweetheart, I know that I may not always be the easy girlfriend to manage but for you I have decided to make amends because I love you and I will do anything for you. If there is any chance of us making whatever we used to have work again. I miss you"


If he is still interested, he will surely fall for that.
Don't think that you are selling yourself short or worry about looking desperate.
When you guys reconcile, do your normal woman hard to get shakara for two weeks.
Everything will be back to normal grin .

Woow.. Thanks much. It has always been him trying to come back and reconcile, and honestly I got used to that, with my plenty shakara. But he isn't anymore, he just says hi once once and says he's checking up. I will definitely give this a trial. Thanks alot

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Re: How do you love again? by funmisticqueen(f): 10:16am On Sep 02, 2018
nanauju:


Woow.. Thanks much. It has always been him trying to come back and reconcile, and honestly I got used to that, with my plenty shakara. But he isn't anymore, he just says hi once once and says he's checking up. I will definitely give this a trial. Thanks alot
if he has a new babe, scatter their relationship
Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 10:29am On Sep 02, 2018
funmisticqueen:
if he has a new babe, scatter their relationship

Hahaha if he has someone already I'd be a little heartbroken
Re: How do you love again? by Nobody: 11:23am On Sep 02, 2018
Close your brain and open your heart, that is how you love again.
Re: How do you love again? by Nobody: 11:23am On Sep 02, 2018
funmisticqueen:
if he has a new babe, scatter their relationship
Best revenge ever, there is this feeling of fulfilment that comes with it.
Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 3:12pm On Sep 02, 2018
Colourich:
Close your brain and open your heart, that is how you love again.

I'm scared to do that.. Again
Re: How do you love again? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Sep 02, 2018
nanauju:

I'm scared to do that.. Again
Well you asked.
Re: How do you love again? by dairykidd(m): 5:53am On Sep 21, 2018
Colourich:
Best revenge ever, there is this feeling of fulfilment that comes with it.
What kind of evil is this
Re: How do you love again? by sheDD(m): 7:01am On Sep 21, 2018
nanauju:


Honestly relating is what I've been doing. About reconciliation I don't know how to go about it, to avoid rejection.. So I stay my lane and think about what's not
haunty u know how to get him bbk just that u think rejection is the wholesome entitlement of men
U are afraid u will be declined
Abeg! Swallow everything left of ur pride and do d needful
Don't be a "Cee c"
Re: How do you love again? by Wilfredpat22(f): 9:50am On Sep 21, 2018
He enrolled you in a French school grin

You are after his money and what you can get finally from him because he is comfortable. Look for your own man.


Don’t be a Gold - Digger

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Re: How do you love again? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 01, 2018
sheDD:
haunty u know how to get him bbk just that u think rejection is the wholesome entitlement of men
U are afraid u will be declined
Abeg! Swallow everything left of ur pride and do d needful
Don't be a "Cee c"

She might not be seeing it from the rejection part though. maybe she's just too used to the guy coming. BTW what's the needful
Re: How do you love again? by HOLAM23(m): 9:57pm On Oct 01, 2018
Let me just say the stubbornness is still in you grin
Re: How do you love again? by nanauju(f): 1:30am On Oct 09, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
He enrolled you in a French school grin

You are after his money and what you can get finally from him because he is comfortable. Look for your own man.


Don’t be a Gold - Digger

Lol such myopic thinking.
If he spends on me from his own will, How does that equates to gold digging.
Mtchew don't just let me enter u dis night

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Re: How do you love again? by TheStarsAlign: 1:00pm On Jan 18
alexistaiwo:


I have been there.
It is better you give the reconciliation your best shot and get rejected than have to live the rest of your life thinking "Had I known".



Pick up the phone, call him just to check up on him for at least three days (preferably early in the morning) this week.
Next Sunday, send him this exact message.

"Sweetheart, I know that I may not always be the easy girlfriend to manage but for you I have decided to make amends because I love you and I will do anything for you. If there is any chance of us making whatever we used to have work again. I miss you"


If he is still interested, he will surely fall for that.
Don't think that you are selling yourself short or worry about looking desperate.
When you guys reconcile, do your normal woman hard to get shakara for two weeks.
Everything will be back to normal grin .

Baddo! I salute.

OP its about three months now. Were you able to as alexistaiwo said? Whats the situation, hope you two are back together?

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