yilleng:

Its not d end of d world so please FORGET HIM make we hear new gist.

yilleng:

Its not d end of d world so please FORGET HIM make we hear new gist.

Pweety4me:

Bleep him jare.

Pweety4me:

Bleep him jare.

Aloy+Emeka:

You wouldn't say that if she is your sister, will you?

papa-gee:

Death
all your new replies have left me rolling on the floor completely nak~~ed
make i go find cloth take cover ny~ash~

mutter:

In "Family" you opeaned a thread about how your husband dumped you and fled abroad. Now your bofriends friend despoiled you.
I think you need help or you have a vivid fantasy

LOVE.4BUG:

But WAIT! what is she doing with the guy to the extent of r*a*pe?

Have been seducing this guy?
what were you wearing on that faithful day?

The way you carry urslf matters

mutter:

In "Family" you opeaned a thread about how your husband dumped you and fled abroad. Now your bofriends friend despoiled you.
I think you need help or you have a vivid fantasy

this is called FINISHING

mutter:

In "Family" you opeaned a thread about how your husband dumped you and fled abroad. Now your bofriends friend despoiled you.
I think you need help or you have a vivid fantasy

this is called FINISHING

nana:

It's either some people needs my glasses or they just too dumb. Read before replying people!

190:

Re: My Boyfriend's Friend Ra*ped Me

WHich style did he use
canine,.
missionary
or na seminary

topup:

The response to this woman's plea is DISGUSTING!! People who think like this have a problem.

R.O, Benin

Any man in your guy's shoes would have reacted same way, so you cannot blame him. To give a partner some support after such a horrendous crime has been committed against them is too much to ask? And to take it out on you when you're already suffering is to be expected?!?!? You have to give him some time to get over this issue before bombarding him with calls because he could get irritated The emphasis is all on the man, the woman is not given the benefit of the doubt, that she could have been the rare gem of the relationship who had this unfortunate and disgusting act committed against her. Where is it that she can just walk away as he did not believe her, he let his pain override hers, she needs him in this time of weakness, he left her, she didn't travel away from him.. But how close were you to his friend to have warranted a r.ape The choice of words here is crucial - to warrant a rap.e - to ask for it?!?! Are you kidding me, do we still believe all rapists choose 'deserving candidates' before they attack? I'm sure all serial killers choose only the worst human beings to slaughter right?? All those children murdered were all "horrible, horrible kids". !!!? Did he ever ask you out? Or did you turn him on with unnecessary comments and invitations YOU MUST UNDERSTAND most women who turn on the man, are usually FAR too ashamed to confess to r.ape, they are disgusted, they feel they deserved it, often with r.ape victims, psychologists have to help the r.ape victim understand that showing cleavage or wear tight clothes does NOT warrant a r.ape. It is their body, you cannot insert a peni.s into a woman's womanliness and say she deserved it. Don't ignore this, don't refuse to acknowledge her pain, her embarrasment - just because you believe 'she deserved it'. - DUMB!!? When and where did he r.ape you? I am sure these are questions your guy would ponder in his heart and not have anything to do with you again. It is so sad that you cannot get him arrested because of the undue publicity this could bring Err!! Yes she CAN!! I'm furious!! If she was put through something SO horrific and humiliating as this (there could have been bruising, bleeding, scratch marks etc.) I am sure the suspect can be tried to pay for their crime. What is with this person replying the topic..

You have to be careful on who you tell this incident because if it spreads too far, you may lose this guy forever This may not be a bad thing, a man who shouts at you when you're down is no man - sorry.. Keep praying that he changes his mind and I want you to conduct yourself well among his friends The same friends who would have intimacy with their friend's girlfriend!! You must be joking!!. You need not visit any of them now or ever. The best bit of advice all paragraph!!

This is the BIGGEST piece of BS I have READ in a VERY LONG TIME!! Seriously, do people still think like this!!! When you hear a ra.pe victim speak, or you see one being re-enacted then you will understand the gravity of such a situation. An educational documentary/drama to watch would be "Human Trafficking" - a six part series to the lives of different women who were tricked and forced into s.ex work - very different from th case here, but still involves a violation of human rights and s.exual abuse.

Sick.