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Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by ExplicitConect: 11:37am On Aug 29, 2018
Pls keep me anonymous.

Am passing through psychological and emotional pain right now, Am in a relationship with 2 guys and my reason for having 2 relationships was that I was having issues with my boyfriend of 4 years, I couldn't deal with his cheating and I don't care attitude, so I found comfort in the arm of the second guy.
After some time my first boyfriend came back to beg me and my friends advices me to take him back so that I wont waste 4 yrs like that.even though I didn't love him anymore i kept playing along and luckily he wasn't always in town so I had enough time with my new lover. Recently I went on vacation with my first boyfriend and after 2 weeks I found out I was pregnant for him,I talked to him about it and he was so happy and asked we keep the baby. My self on the other hand, am feeling very bad because I'd prefer to spend my life with my new lover, we've been together for 1 year and 8 months now and everything has been going well, he's the best male I've seen on earth, he understands and tolerates me a lot, he does the cooking when he feels I should rest, he cleans and does chores without disturbing me and he has never raised his hands on voice on me for a day,all these made me fall helplessly for him.
My first boyfriend is such a spoil brat he does not even know how to boil ordinary hot water, he cannot do anything at all,i do both wife and mum duty for him yet he screams and shouts at me anytime he feels like and makes me beg even when he's wrong, I've been comparing the both of them and I realized that my 2nd boyfriend is everything and yes I love him more and I admit I bleeped up by still cheating on him. He knows about my first boyfriend but I keep lying to him and covering things up, now am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Nobody: 11:23am On Sep 08, 2018
ExplicitConect:
Pls keep me anonymous.

Am passing through psychological and emotional pain right now, Am in a relationship with 2 guys and my reason for having 2 relationships was that I was having issues with my boyfriend of 4 years, I couldn't deal with his cheating and I don't care attitude, so I found comfort in the arm of the second guy.
After some time my first boyfriend came back to beg me and my friends advices me to take him back so that I wont waste 4 yrs like that.even though I didn't love him anymore i kept playing along and luckily he wasn't always in town so I had enough time with my new lover. Recently I went on vacation with my first boyfriend and after 2 weeks I found out I was pregnant for him,I talked to him about it and he was so happy and asked we keep the baby. My self on the other hand, am feeling very bad because I'd prefer to spend my life with my new lover, we've been together for 1 year and 8 months now and everything has been going well, he's the best male I've seen on earth, he understands and tolerates me a lot, he does the cooking when he feels I should rest, he cleans and does chores without disturbing me and he has never raised his hands on voice on me for a day,all these made me fall helplessly for him.
My first boyfriend is such a spoil brat he does not even know how to boil ordinary hot water, he cannot do anything at all,i do both wife and mum duty for him yet he screams and shouts at me anytime he feels like and makes me beg even when he's wrong, I've been comparing the both of them and I realized that my 2nd boyfriend is everything and yes I love him more and I admit I bleeped up by still cheating on him. He knows about my first boyfriend but I keep lying to him and covering things up, now am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion.

You've got what you deserved. You don't deserve the 2nd,you would truncate his destiny.

Pass it to her

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by futuregovernor: 11:32am On Sep 08, 2018
Nonsense

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by tunize(m): 11:40am On Sep 08, 2018
So cis u don get belle now and after four years u nkw realize he's a lazy brat...from 1-4yrs you didnt realize on time, now the new boyfriend is this best thing that has ever happened to you on earth abi this you phrase na story cos at a time u said same thing to that ur first guy, u are still saying it to the other guy, and trust me you wud still sey it to anoda guy wen things get crazy.....u jst wan eat you cake get am back abi? Its ur cross carry am.........we dey wait for ur guy make him talk e own side of the story.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by TheManofTomorrow(m): 1:48pm On Sep 08, 2018
sammydirectly:


You've got what you deserved. You don't deserve the 2nd,you would truncate his destiny.

Pass it to her
This guy has said it all. You are not good enough for that guy.
Tell him and let him find someone better. We can't always get what we want in this life.
That's why I pity naive nice guys, the guy will still be acting all lovie dovey before the baby bump starts showing. Not knowing he just an assistance boyfriend.
Nice guys yaff suffered o

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Dataspider: 2:45pm On Sep 08, 2018
If your pregnancy is less than a month I can give you a safe way to stop the pregnancy without worrying about abortions. Contact me
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Uglymugg: 2:53pm On Sep 08, 2018
Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by NarnieSnyper(m): 3:04pm On Sep 08, 2018
You met an Angel yet you cheated on him. Yup! The good guys always come last.

Anywys, if you think u don't want to keep it, you can always take abortion pills because I don't think you'd want to have a child for that 'spoilt brat'.
To whom brain is given, sense is expected.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by NarnieSnyper(m): 3:07pm On Sep 08, 2018
Dataspider:
If your pregnancy is less than a month I can give you a safe way to stop the pregnancy without worrying about abortions. Contact me

If she missed her period, that definitely means it's been up to a month, yes?
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by victorian(f): 3:12pm On Sep 08, 2018
Although u made a huge mistake going back to the first guy, even if u had dated for 100years . Going back was a huge mistake on your path.
And u don't deserve the second guy.

Although Explain everything to the second guy, if he wants to keep u, while u give birth to another man's baby, then luck is on your side. But if not? Kiss the second relationship goodbye and stick with the first guy.
With time, u will get to love the first guy once again.

But seriously I wonder how u can sleep with guys at the period. Warming their beds, at the same period of dating each one of them.. Your pussy and body strong o.
Anyways the way u lay your bed, so you lie on it.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by sweerychick(f): 3:25pm On Sep 08, 2018
Dear I understand how you feel! Don't mind those kids up there calling you names. They don't know what it's like being a woman and the pressure we face everyday. Anyway my advice is talk to your second boyfriend. Tell him the truth if you love him that much. Since you don't want an abortion ( which I don't recommend) I'll advice you to end the relationship with him, because he'll be devastated and he may not treat you the way he used to before unless he's willing to stay. And as for the baby daddy i think all you owe him is his child. I don't see u guys being together. If you are comfortable being a single mom for now it's better than being with someone you don't have feelings for.
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by sweerychick(f): 3:30pm On Sep 08, 2018
victorian:
Although u made a huge mistake going back to the first guy, even if u had dated for 100years . Going back was a huge mistake on your path.
And u don't deserve the second guy.

Although Explain everything to the second guy, if he wants to keep u, while u give birth to another man's baby, then luck is on your side. But if not? Kiss the second relationship goodbye and stick with the first guy.
With time, u will get to love the first guy once again.

But seriously I wonder how u can sleep with guys at the period. Warming their beds, at the same period of dating each one of them.. Your pussy and body strong o.
Anyways the way u lay your bed, so you lie on it.
my dear she'll only grow more hatred for the first guy, because she'd still regret losing the second guy for him. The best for her is to forget the two and Keep the child. She'll still find someone else who will take care of her. Unless she's lucky the 2nd guy will still accept her
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Dataspider: 7:25pm On Sep 08, 2018
NarnieSnyper:


If she missed her period, that definitely means it's been up to a month, yes?

Depends on her cycle and when she had intercourse.
If she had sex in the middle of her cycle then a missed period might not indicate that the pregnancy is up to a month old.
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Nobody: 7:29pm On Sep 08, 2018
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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 08, 2018
hahahahah
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by IamPlato(m): 7:47pm On Sep 08, 2018
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I Wonder What You Girls Are Thinking That Will make You Have Two Boyfriends.


Anyway, you Can Have Your Baby Safely or Do Abortion and Die...
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by hahahahahaha(m): 8:39pm On Sep 08, 2018
Uglymugg:
Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in.
Is it al pachino or pachino grin grin
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Lonestar124: 8:42pm On Sep 08, 2018
My stance is you should not abort the baby that ve come to explore the world like you and I.

Marry your first boyfriend for the sake of God and you'll not regret being a happy mother.... Trust me.

Nature have proven not your mistake.. Though I don't like
Ideal of ladies keeping numerous relationship.
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by jawalis(m): 8:42pm On Sep 08, 2018
I am a health practional in service and i've seen a lot of cases of unwanted pregnancies. its sincerely on the increases these days. but let's think about this: what's your mindset when you were mating with someone you can't carry his baby. the victim in this story need not to act sorry in any way, she shouldn't be adviced. did you seek advice before going to the man? did you seek advice before opening your legs? obviously you were expecting something from your first lover or you can't take your eyes off what you usually get from him (coveteousness) and thats the reason for your hacky game. what was your expectations when you opened your legs for him? you are just about to reap what you sowed.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by NarnieSnyper(m): 4:11pm On Sep 09, 2018
Dataspider:


Depends on her cycle and when she had intercourse.
If she had sex in the middle of her cycle then a missed period might not indicate that the pregnancy is up to a month old.

OK, let's say she had intercourse at the middle of her cycle, and she misses her period when due, if she performs a test will it show positive? And if it does, what could be done?
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by ExplicitConect: 11:01pm On Sep 09, 2018
shocked
Dataspider:
If your pregnancy is less than a month I can give you a safe way to stop the pregnancy without worrying about abortions. Contact me
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by BrokenCock: 11:07pm On Sep 09, 2018
IamPlato:
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I Wonder What You Girls Are Thinking That Will make You Have Two Boyfriends.



Anyway, you Can Have Your Baby Safely or Do Abortion and Die...
u no dey piompiompiom too?
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by IamPlato(m): 12:08am On Sep 10, 2018
BrokenCock:
u no dey piompiompiom too?
...

Come! I De Bite People o undecided
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by Biglittlelois(f): 1:05am On Sep 10, 2018
Your present boyfriend is not what is important right now, if you're not ready for a child abort it, nothing will happen to you, that is if you dont go to a quack doctor, dont bring an innocent baby into the world to suffer, we have soo many being thrown around these days.

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by BrokenCock: 7:16am On Sep 10, 2018
IamPlato:
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Come! I De Bite People o undecided
LoL! Na ur type dey carry maraba girls for one taazan five
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by IamPlato(m): 7:44am On Sep 10, 2018
BrokenCock:
LoL! Na ur type dey carry maraba girls for one taazan five
...


Come I Be Native Doctor o. No Make Me Turn You To Imbesile this Morning

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Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by ExplicitConect: 1:21pm On Sep 11, 2018
grin
IamPlato:
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Come I Be Native Doctor o. No Make Me Turn You To Imbesile this Morning
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by romenna: 3:14pm On Sep 11, 2018
buncha cheats!
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by samdocdon: 3:19pm On Sep 11, 2018
Dataspider:
If your pregnancy is less than a month I can give you a safe way to stop the pregnancy without worrying about abortions. Contact me
what kind of satanic advice is this?.... Pls leave the baby.... .
Re: Help! Am pregnant and am scared of having an abortion by ExplicitConect: 10:51am On Sep 12, 2018
grin
samdocdon:
what kind of satanic advice is this?.... Pls leave the baby.... .

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