Below is a touching story of a 43-year-old woman and a mother of three. Kindly read through and advise her on what to do.

When I was in JSS2, I was in my room that night when daddy came in, sat very close to me. And we were talking. Unexpectedly, he began to touch me in a sexual way. And before I could think about what was happening, he had carnal knowledge of me, taking my dignity as a girl.

I grew up with my father. And I was named Rita. My Mom left us when I was barely four years old. She left with my elder sister, leaving me with my Dad. I was very close to my Dad. And many people referred to me as his wife. But there was more to what people knew about my Dad and me.


I was told that when my mother left my dad, his family and even his friends advised him to marry another wife so that the new wife can take care of me but he refused and instead of marrying another wife, he employed a housemaid who took proper care of me. In fact, it was hard for me to believe she was not my mother. My father stood by his word as he chose not to remarry.

My Dad took care of me till I got married at age twenty-six. And I was married to a caring husband and blessed with three lovely children.

However, my father and I continued this shameful act and I started loving him the more. I chose not to voice out because I was enjoying it and he never allowed me to suffer anything.

In my university days, Dad will come to my campus to take me out on weekends. After visiting a lot of places, we will end it in a hotel room. As a result of this act, I lost interest in the opposite sex, especially when it came to a relationship.

How I finally agreed to marry is still what I can’t explain even now!

I got married to my husband, an Engineer, seventeen years ago and we were blessed with three children, a boy and two girls, ages fifteen, thirteen and ten. And my husband is a loving and caring man.

Ola, my husband, was the elder brother of my roommate on campus and that was how we met. He always came around to see his sister and soonest he picked up interest in me, a year after my NYSC he proposed and we got married.

I remember when my husband and I were still courting I told Ola everything about my family especially about my parents’ separation. I never told him the secret relationship between my dad and I.

Even after our marriage, I still visited my Dad often and Ola never complained. My Dad stopped using protection anytime we met after I got married. When I asked him he said I was no longer a kid.

Once, my dad came to our house and our children were in school. My husband nearly caught us in the act but we were lucky. My husband came back home after he had left for work in the morning. He came to pick a file he left at home in the morning.

Sadly, the sexual relationship with my Dad has produced three children.

But things began to fall apart last December when I attended a program at a friend’s church. After listening to the preacher’s message, I felt guilty and wish to repent of my dirty past.

Right now I don’t know what to do. Should I open up to my husband and what will be his reaction when he discovers that none of the children belongs to him?

I am 43-year-old now and I am confused, please help me!

Dear readers to advise Rita on this issue, kindly drop your comments in the comment box below.


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Is it ur tell, just tell him.

Holy shiit! what did I just read

izzou:

Are you the father?

oh my...this will definitely break any mans heart already feeling for him now

Are we surprised?

Ola is a common name amongst the inbred swine lineage of the head slamming god of Ife.

ritylove:
oh my...this will definitely brake any mans heart already feeling for him now

All he need do is to clutch his heart...

She has had incest with her father for at least 25 years? Kai! Some women are really wicked.

She has not only destroyed her husband but also her children. Imagine how these kids would feel when they find out that their grandfather is also their father.

Please, husbands, get dna tests done on your kids. The promiscuity of Nigerian ladies is out of control; they can forfeit heaven for prick - even if it's their father's.

What the heck is going on!!

izzou:


If I were in her shoes, I'll just commit suicide.

There's no need telling anybody anything. Just die abeg



You mean like the father of my daughter's kids?

Pukes

Honestly I don't know what to type. The shame, shock, stigma that will hunt that family will be an eternal one.



Lol. you frowned like someone exposed your secret

LuciferKristi:



All he need do is to clutch his heart...

go get a life outside nairaland you aint getting any younger

izzou:

Why do you keep doing this?
I've told you countless times. I'm a virgin.

I'm a virgin please

My granddad died a virgin

...


You Bloggers are Liars...


YOUR FATHER is Not The Father Of Your Children because I Know Your Father Is A Virgin....

This story is a sad story. Although it wasn't your intention to go astray but since the deed has already been done, I'll advice you confide to your Pastor. let your Pastor be the middle man between you and your husband.

thanks

ritylove:
oh my...this will definitely break any mans heart already feeling for him now

can i lick your butt hole rita

I don't want to believe this

My advise!!!! Shutt up

chiommy123:
I don't want to believe this

Exactly my thought. The blogger want to use this story to draw traffick to her blog. Come to even think of it, how can she wanna open up about this dirty story to her husband and expect to be forgiven. The story is not adding up.