"am sorry richard but am scared?"
"scared about what exactly?.he looked into her eyes.but she looked away.
"am scared of you guyz.thats how you start saying sweet words with your sugar coathed mouth.and at the end of the day you dump us."
"thats something i can never do to you.my feelings for you is real and its getting deeper.giive me a chance to prove it.

Kingjames:
"am sorry richard but am scared?"
"scared about what exactly?.he looked into her eyes.but she looked away.
"am scared of you guyz.thats how you start saying sweet words with your sugar coathed mouth.and at the end of the day you dump us."
"thats something i can never do to you.my feelings for you is real and its getting deeper.giive me a chance to prove it.

hello, is everything alright?

Winter4:


I beg to disagree. Marriage actually "Fosters" dreams and ambitions. As long as those dreams and ambitions are there in the first place. It also depends on the person one chooses to marry.A good Marriage does not give a person ambitions or dreams, it encourages/fosters them.
I agree that marriage is not an escape. It can make things worse for an individual without drive sef.

I won't lie to you, it's this simple. If I marry an unintelligent and/or unambitious lady, she's gonna die of loneliness because we will have absolutely nothing to talk about. Infact she will end up being unfaithful as I will also end up finding fulfilment outside

Women do not like marriage, they like wedding ceremonies and the whole fantasy atmosphere it entails. Many, many women wish they weren't married to their current husbands and na fear of God make thwm never kill their husbands. Very many of them are prolific cheats.

For many of those that want to marry, they do so because they would like a man to take care of them financially and materially. Most women never love a broke dude. Remember this when you want to marry and don't be shy of selecting and screening ruthlessly; pick the one that most closely seems like your fantasy woman. No matter how long you've dated, don't feel bad dropping a woman, she would drop you if a better man came into her own life.

If a woman pressures you for marriage or agrees to marry you, it means you're the best she can do at that moment. If she had a better option, you wouldn't be considered. Marry your own best option.

One more thing, pay no mind to these women saying African culture is to blame for African women being obsessed with marriage. I would counter by admonishing you to observe the women in the west and you'll see that they also love the idea of the weddings, but the marriage itself is another story entirely.

IamPlato:
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I Like To Hear Ladies Say This but At The End Of The Day Some Of Them Cant Stand Struggle Anymore, so They Start Lookin For A Man To Marry Who can Save Them From The Hard Times

Hmm. Your point?

Winter4:


I beg to disagree. Marriage actually "Fosters" dreams and ambitions. As long as those dreams and ambitions are there in the first place. It also depends on the person one chooses to marry.A good Marriage does not give a person ambitions or dreams, it encourages/fosters them.
I agree that marriage is not an escape. It can make things worse for an individual without drive sef.

Of course, marriage fosters these things, only when you marry a man who supports them. Marry a dream-killer and see yourself regressing.

Timbuktuo:
Women do not like marriage, they like wedding ceremonies and the whole fantasy atmosphere it entails. Many, many women wish they weren't married to their current husbands and na fear of God make thwm never kill their husbands. Very many of them are prolific cheats.

For many of those that want to marry, they do so because they would like a man to take care of them financially and materially. No woman is ever in love with a broke dude. Remember this when you want to marry and don't be shy of selecting and screening ruthlessly; pick the one that most closely seems like your fantasy woman. No matter how long you've dated, don't feel bad dropping a woman, she would drop you if a better man came into her own life.

If a woman pressures you for marriage or agrees to marry you, it means you're the best she can do at that moment. If she had a better option, you wouldn't be considered. Marry our own best option.

One more thing, pay no mind to these women saying African culture is to blame for African women being obsessed with marriage. I would counter by admonishing you to observe the women in the west and you'll see that they also love the idea of the weddings, but the marriage itself is another story entirely.

Not every woman. Quit the hasty generalization.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Not every woman. Quit the hasty generalization.

True, some women do. Thanks for bringing that up.

Timbuktuo:
Women do not like marriage, they like wedding ceremonies and the whole fantasy atmosphere it entails. Many, many women wish they weren't married to their current husbands and na fear of God make thwm never kill their husbands. Very many of them are prolific cheats.

For many of those that want to marry, they do so because they would like a man to take care of them financially and materially. No woman is ever in love with a broke dude. Remember this when you want to marry and don't be shy of selecting and screening ruthlessly; pick the one that most closely seems like your fantasy woman. No matter how long you've dated, don't feel bad dropping a woman, she would drop you if a better man came into her own life.

If a woman pressures you for marriage or agrees to marry you, it means you're the best she can do at that moment. If she had a better option, you wouldn't be considered. Marry our own best option.

One more thing, pay no mind to these women saying African culture is to blame for African women being obsessed with marriage. I would counter by admonishing you to observe the women in the west and you'll see that they also love the idea of the weddings, but the marriage itself is another story entirely.

Spot on. I'd do same. When it comes to whom you want to spend the rest of your life with, you've gotta be selfish. I will not accept the second best. I never settle for less. Be ruthlessly selective and selfish.

You made sense sire..

Timbuktuo:


True, some women do. Thanks for bringing that up.

My utmost pleasure.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Spot on. I'd do same. When it comes to whom you want to spend the rest of your life with, you've gotta be selfish. I will not accept the second best. I never settle for less. Be ruthlessly selective and selfish.

You made sense sire..

Merci, madmoiselle.

Timbuktuo:
Women do not like marriage, they like wedding ceremonies and the whole fantasy atmosphere it entails. Many, many women wish they weren't married to their current husbands and na fear of God make thwm never kill their husbands. Very many of them are prolific cheats.

For many of those that want to marry, they do so because they would like a man to take care of them financially and materially. Most women never love a broke dude. Remember this when you want to marry and don't be shy of selecting and screening ruthlessly; pick the one that most closely seems like your fantasy woman. No matter how long you've dated, don't feel bad dropping a woman, she would drop you if a better man came into her own life.

If a woman pressures you for marriage or agrees to marry you, it means you're the best she can do at that moment. If she had a better option, you wouldn't be considered. Marry your own best option.

One more thing, pay no mind to these women saying African culture is to blame for African women being obsessed with marriage. I would counter by admonishing you to observe the women in the west and you'll see that they also love the idea of the weddings, but the marriage itself is another story entirely.

hmmmm. Standing ovasion for you bro. Everything is so on point. I doff my heart for you fa.

IntrovertedK:
hello, is everything alright?

IntrovertedK:
hello, is everything alright?

IntrovertedK:
hmmmm. Standing ovasion for you bro. Everything is so on point. I doff my heart for you fa.

IntrovertedK:
hmmmm. Standing ovasion for you bro. Everything is so on point. I doff my heart for you fa.

Because without it all ur children will be illicit

Kingjames:

werey re ooo oluwa. Quoting me twice in every quote.

IntrovertedK:
werey re ooo oluwa. Quoting me twice in every quote.

IntrovertedK:
werey re ooo oluwa. Quoting me twice in every quote.

masterchi:
some girls matter and marriage weak me. This girl has been on my neck for close to two years now. She don dream where I give her flower, my father carry her enter our family houz and recently where I gave her key, whatever giving key means to her. Annoying part be after all those useless dreams she go come dey ask me meaning, I no know if she see me as Joseph! Meanwhile she no get any plan for her life apart from make man come marry her and She wants the unfortunate man to be me, God forbid! This girl story na just one out of many others. God help some naija girls.

I respect ladies who despite the unfortunate economy we have put time, resource and effort into making their life better and I go find one like that marry!

Lmao.U wont kill me with laughter

UyaiIncomparabl:

Hmm. Your point?

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you This Girl

Alzirida:
Because without it all ur children will be illicit

hello