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Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by tayooluwole: 9:57am On Sep 10, 2018
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by tstx(m): 10:04am On Sep 10, 2018
Break her heart too. tell her bf she has aborted for you not once, not twice, but three times. Atleast na wetim me go do

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by kushercain: 10:06am On Sep 10, 2018
She aborted for you 3 times?

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Kamelot77(m): 10:11am On Sep 10, 2018
Hat trick

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Heartbender: 10:13am On Sep 10, 2018
Abort 3 times? That babe still get womb so?

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by GrammarNazi1(m): 10:16am On Sep 10, 2018
Kamelot77:
Hat trick
cheesy

Magnificent.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by dkronicle(m): 10:30am On Sep 10, 2018
Lols abeg u fit gimme this ur girk phone number. Believe me, she is just a person that loves phucking. Go get yourself a better girl and give the homies this one for the road.
I want to suck her bress

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by SheIsElle(f): 10:31am On Sep 10, 2018
Booked
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by bujebudanu1(m): 10:35am On Sep 10, 2018
Her ex is married .
Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again


The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace.
Love is scam.
Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.

When u re ready .I play along.
When u start attitude too.i start mine.
Who haff time for rubbish love

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nasri100(m): 10:37am On Sep 10, 2018
She loves him. Something about him she cant describe. Her heart, hormones and v agina want him more. Maybe she was with you for the sex and benefits. Sorry mate you just gotta take it the hard way and move on. Everyone is going to be fine. She is fine. Now you need to make sure you are fine.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by mumureloaded(m): 11:04am On Sep 10, 2018
tryna lit up the kpoly¿ you know what, I don't know if what my perspective of life is weird or whatever but I just understand that stupidity issa sin. trusting woman is a sin but you should thrust in grin.
ain't give no fūck about woman, I only see body, bone, flesh, blood in you, nothing more, nothing less.
the last time I told my friend no one, I mean, no one my commitment/emotion is for especially woman. he was like your last shīt is from ekiti, but I'm serious.
I don't want a this drama, that's why I either m*******e or shut the fūck up. and thanks to jah I'm even c****** now

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by MetroBaba1(m): 11:30am On Sep 10, 2018
Op, She's Gone. Go Hustle For More Funds.

But Promise Me, If She Comes Back 2 Beg (yes, she will Beg for forgiveness), Accept Her. Fake Some Love, Invite Her For 3 Days Matching Fixing, Book With Odd Of O/3.5, Bleep Like Madt (I mean real Bleeping with viagra) and When You're Done, Tell Her These Words; SORRY BABY, I DON'T LOVE YOU. WE'RE DONE!

Thank Me Later.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by dhebo(m): 11:46am On Sep 10, 2018
Abortion 3 times, then for d ex(present boyfriend) she must have done like 5times..making something around 8..na the future husband I pity grin cheesy

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 11:50am On Sep 10, 2018
iLegendd op needs ur help biko

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 11:50am On Sep 10, 2018
Hustle more money.... It is the only way
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by deewhydoski(m): 11:54am On Sep 10, 2018
MetroBaba1:
Op, She's Gone. Go Hustle For More Funds.

But Promise Me, If She Comes Back 2 Beg (yes, she will Beg for forgiveness), Accept Her. Fake Some Love, Invite Her For 3 Days Matching Fixing, Book With Odd Of O/3.5, Bleep Like Madt (I mean real Bleeping with viagra) and When You're Done, Tell Her These Words; SORRY BABY, I DON'T LOVE YOU. WE'RE DONE!

Thank Me Later.
Op...this is d best advice..stick to it

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by AlexCk: 11:54am On Sep 10, 2018
Nawa oo.

Things are really happening.

Don't know why people like to complicate things.

#Self-discipline
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by ChiefOloye(m): 1:31pm On Sep 10, 2018
@OP, My friend, please stop feeling sorry for yourself, with this level of self-pity, you're capable of pouring acid on the lady or setting fire on her like that jilted South African boy..... please to do it, because I know you can.
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 1:34pm On Sep 10, 2018
lefulefu:
iLegendd op needs ur help biko
That post up there is quite funny. Nice guys will FOREVER suffer in the hands of women unless they learn how women work. Our books have all the solutions they need. It's not about being handsome, rich, or intelligent, but about knowing how women work. Nice guys are in the dark.


He should read my screenshot below and see what that guy is doing. People who buy those books are wise. They learn how to handle all women with ease.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by maxlev1: 1:35pm On Sep 10, 2018
Op how can u date a girl for 2yrs and fail to discover that she doesn't love u. I guess the babe has been with u solely for the benefits. Its very easy to spot out the difference btw a girl that loves u and the one that is there for the benefits no matter how she pretends. She was and is still in love with her ex that's why she doesn't mind if he is married or not. That's how crazy women are when they love a particular man. A lady who loves do not mind taking numerous kind of risk and sacrifice for a guy so u need to be very observant in ur next relationship. goodluck...

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by QuietHammer(m): 1:42pm On Sep 10, 2018
tayooluwole:
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..
Did you give her money for the abortions? Did you see any proof that she was indeed pregnant? If no then you have been scammed.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Squirrel01: 2:02pm On Sep 10, 2018
What people failed to understand is majority of these stories about how a girl used and dumped men is quite hilarious, each time I read these stories I flip to next topic,we only read how women used and dumped men from men's view point,have we asked ourselves what if this person that wrote this story is wrong?what if he is the cause of the failed relationship?
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 2:08pm On Sep 10, 2018
Tayooluwole, have you ever read this post? https://www.nairaland.com/4484673/sex-bedroom-hierarchy-how-it

If you haven't, go and read it right now and thank me later. That post will open your eyes.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by FrostyButter: 2:34pm On Sep 10, 2018
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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by devlishGINGER(m): 2:45pm On Sep 10, 2018
kushercain:
She aborted for you 3 times?
She probably did those abortions becuz the pregnancy doesn't belong to OP but my guy innocently thinks it's his.

Squirrel01:
have we asked ourselves what if this person that wrote this story is wrong? what if he is the cause of the failed relationship?
you need to understand the meaning of failed in the context of OP's narrative. There is no big deal if she is bold enough to tell the boy say she no dey do again. Instead she was avoiding the guy and went back to Ex-boyfriend who is now married.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by tayooluwole: 2:54pm On Sep 10, 2018
QuietHammer:

Did you give her money for the abortions? Did you see any proof that she was indeed pregnant? If no then you have been scammed.

Yes bro I have a proof...I was the one that drove her to the hospital where we had the first pregnancy test...it was positive...the result is with me till today... but we did test for the 2nd and the 3rd pregnancy using stripe...we did this our selves...

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