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Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by MattChidi(m): 6:58pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Tough one .. please quit the job, for the sake of peace. also tell him you're truly sorry for not telling home initially and it will be unfair for him to rub it on your face besides there's nothing too hard for God to do. It is well 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by ndindiatu: 7:13pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Where people dey see all this local men to marry. No one person dey with her husband and no kid. Go and quit ur job make he use strategy kill u. After three kids Biko nu. What is he still looking for. Na.now.u go find work wey dey pay well oh. Cos.he.wants.to release.plans. Instead of him to thank God that no more menses and.dey nack dey go 4 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by ndindiatu: 7:17pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
[quote author=ehis05 post=71187517]they took there bulshit no doubt buh trust me most dint do it for the rest of there lives..a lot can change in a twinkle of an eye...first tin u shud learn to do as a married woman is to shot that door of leaving..and face whatever u wud with prayer..there is this woman i knw of that cries to my haus then wen i was younger either the man abused her or the mans child who is her step child insulted her...ah tyms it even got physical....dat case is rare sha...she was always praying most of d time even though she spoke abt neva goin bck her children made her went bck..buh today dey ar living as happy as ever....its neva easy buh it mayb worth it at last[/quotpe] Dumbest advice. U haven't seen people die from violence. ABI. Reserve ur advice for ur kids |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by ademijuwonlo(f): 7:35pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:Before you Judge her, I suggest you read the story again cos your vision has skipped the part where the OP said she was not sexually active then. Btw not everybody who didn't date early was sleeping with married men.....I know I didn't and I didn't date early by choice. People sometimes have reason for making life choices which are informed by a lot of factors. Please, don't judge people when you have never being in their shoes!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Goldmaxx(f): 7:50pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
flyca:but you've been giving it to other guys deceiving the poor boy.. chaii!! 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by babyfaceafrica: 8:49pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
ObservantFellow:and how do you know he is not honest 100%..not everybody is dishonest abeg |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by babyfaceafrica: 8:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
msylva2147:you that you are not a kid..are you done? |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by LadySarah: 10:03pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Woman,you will become the greatest fool on earth the day you quit you r job because of one flimsy man's ego. Does he want a football team?you have both sexes so what else does he want you to do?Some of them come into marriage with azospermia and you see their wives ttcing and suffering not knowing its from the man. Let him pay your salary for 1 Yr upfront so you can start up a biz if he insists.If he can't then he should swerve. 2 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by ehis05(m): 10:12pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
[quote author=ndindiatu post=71203724][/quote] shut d f up niga or whosoever u are..if u read my first post i clearly stated except if domestic violence is involved..i didnt quote u the lady i quoted must hav gotten d point.. Learn to mind ur business or ask questions just incase u miss sumtin or if sumtins are beyond ur understanding...dumb ass |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by flyca: 10:16pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Goldmaxx:Giving what to other guys? Can't you read? Are/were you an undergraduate at 30? Morally-bankrupt soul! Get out of my mention! |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by BENEAMATA: 11:34pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Admitwithschola:oh , thanks for the reply to my post , appreciate the feedback . |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by msylva2147(m): 11:36pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
DaddyNimo:You will be surprised that your spouse has kept a worst secret from you because she really knew the kind of animal you are and people in your category doesn't deserve sincerity because if they choose to be sincere to you you might end up taking advantage of them instead prefer to keep it to themselves so would continue to wallow in your stupidity. 2 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by BENEAMATA: 11:41pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:thanks to you too , i appreciate and we pray God fix our respective homes . 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Nobody: 12:12am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Kiishii:It's a serious issue. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Goldmaxx(f): 12:28am On Sep 15, 2018 |
flyca:you are very wicked. how can you date a guy for 4 freaking years with giving him toto.. Nawao |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by donkuso(f): 12:47am On Sep 15, 2018 |
U be real odo. Why Nigerians no get sense. As you have gotten children u would have planned with the doctor as if u don't know what is wrong with u,then run some tests. Booza the result comes out POF. Then the case will be nobody fault. He will be by your side appreciating you till the rest of ur life. That secret would have remained with you till you die. But as it is ,if u like ur marriage obey him. 4 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by newdawn2017(f): 2:54am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Belafonte:issorite. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by flyca: 4:49am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Goldmaxx:Dirty disgusting mind! |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by stuntman007: 8:14am On Sep 15, 2018 |
msylva2147: bro, I am not going to argue with you or anyone about this. all that matters to me is the union between the man and woman. the lady knows what is best for her. beside, we have not heard from the man. the man never had issues with her job until the news broke to him and if you are a man, I pray nothing like this befall you. no man wants to hear story of loosing his child especially when he knows he can't have another which brings me to conclude that the man is paranoid which is understandable. she just need to calm the man down assuring him that she doesn't need to quit her job to assure the children safety, but if he insist let her do it just till everything calms down. hence the man can provide for them. don't say the man is childish because he's paranoid, everyone have their own way of reacting to situations but at this point it is the safety and continuation of the union that matters. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by EagleNest(m): 9:08am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Your husband is over-reacting. We don't have to live in the past but in the future. If you have not given birth, then may be his reaction is justified..but you've got three kids for him. Please don't quit your job unless there are other issues we don't know. 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by msylva2147(m): 10:12am On Sep 15, 2018 |
stuntman007:I understand what you are trying to say but the question here is that how sure are we that this said man is willing to let go of what has happened? You never can tell after she might have agreed to quit the job he will still jump to a different condition and one thing you should know is that finding a job in this country is a hot cake and quitting the job is not a good idea because if he later calm down and decided that she should start working again the job probably must have been taken by another there by sending her into a fresh labour market in search of job. Though we have not heard from the man whether he has been asking her to quit her job before the development but if he using the development as a bargaining tool then I must say he is being childish. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by DaddyNimo(m): 11:37am On Sep 15, 2018 |
msylva2147:well if she had kept a secret it better die with her, cos the day she confessed is the end the marriage ends...if you have no womb lemme know from the beginning, if you're AS lemme know from start, don't wait and confess later and expect forgiveness... fork all dat. 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Artistree: 7:18pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
thorpido:I've been reading through the comments to see if anyone would say this and voila, here you are!!! She didn't have any business telling the husband about the past...she should have just pretended she's noticing for the first time and let them go see a doctor and the man would be happy he even had three kids before it occurred. What was the essence of telling it all? Love sometimes can make us do funny things... 2 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by thorpido(m): 9:12pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Artistree:That's all.Why did she have to dig up everything? 1 Like |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by readyornot: 3:27pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
I really sympathize with the op. The mistake has been done already. My opinion is that she should urge her husband to marry a second wife, while retaining her job. The husband would be able to have all the children he desires & she would still have a source of income without having to depend on him for anything. Before critics try to crucify me: the man does not have to put the 2 wives under one roof & even if all his attention might go to wife 2, the first wife should put it @ the back of her mind that God forbids, if the husband should die today, life would still go on. I bet u that if she succumbs to the man & stops working, her suffering will know no bounds. 2 Likes |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by frozen70(f): 10:23pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
CSTR1005: Says who ? |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Fearcom(m): 10:57am On Sep 27, 2019 |
SMEConsult: Yeap. Except the truth comes out in the most unplanned, unexpected way. Then What |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Ezypretty: 12:22pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Please madam never you quit your job, your husband is more wicked than you. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by armadeo(m): 12:23am On Sep 29, 2019 |
Ezypretty: Now this is harsh. |
Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by sammirano: 5:55pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Kinggnicole: You lot are unbelieveable and misleading your fellow females with your erratic and insane advices. So being is simply knowing when to leave. Many females of this generation are truly doomed. |
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