akinsmyk:


This is the worst advise I had ever seen. You are wicked madam. You never talked about the damage and loss of trust the secret for a long time had made him. You think it's that simple right? You are very insensitive, bias, hypocritical and mean. You talked about the man using him, all I can do is shake my head. To make matters worse, you are already suggesting her to leave the marriage.

I just pity the men who liked your comment. You are very toxic and you are a kind men should watch out for. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh.

babyfaceafrica:
the lady was dishonest... simple!!!.. she should have told him from the beginning and damn the consequences..

Kinggnicole:
You were wrong and you apologised.
I just hope you are not considering quiting your job. He's already rubbing it in your face that you are not fertile. Imagine adding jobless to the mix. He'll rub that in too forgetting he asked you to leave.

He's already abusing you emotionally. You have to be strong dear. And by being strong you have to know when to leave.

anochuko01:
there was more chances to marry her than not. he was ready to marry her at 31 afterall, and there was a solution to her challenge.
so why not?
Best is NEVER TO HIDE ANYTHING, NO MATTER WHAT YOU MAY LOSE.

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is that you deceived him. Well we all deceive men one way or the other. You started dating when you were 29, what happened between 21-28, you were sleeping around with married men I guess

This is as a repercussion for the evils you must have done in school and to other women’s homes. Now yours will be shattered. We ladies don’t hear or listen and eventually it will lead to our downfall


Let your husband look for some one fertile and responsible. By the way Are you sure those kids are his?

victorian:








He can marry another woman but am taking my children along with me.

No two ways about it

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is that you deceived him. Well we all deceive men one way or the other. You started dating when you were 29, what happened between 21-28, you were sleeping around with married men I guess

This is as a repercussion for the evils you must have done in school and to other women’s homes. Now yours will be shattered. We ladies don’t hear or listen and eventually it will lead to our downfall


Let your husband look for some one fertile and responsible. By the way Are you sure those kids are his?

stuffs4me:


This is how we know kids online.
Insulting another woman's husband shows you are not married yourself but you are not even marriage worthy.

If the man decides to have 1,2,3 or even more kids, it should be his decision and not being received by a cunning and dangerous wife. I would not even advice the man to continue to eat her food because she could poison him if things go wrong.

Kinggnicole:


Ok.

Princedapace:


My goodness. This has nothing to do with kids. It has everything to do with deception.

The man would be like so, if not that God just helped them, na so the woman for deceive him into marriage and they will be running up and down for kids..

pls, if na ur brother be that man, u sef go feel angry biko.

Alexk2:
You goofed big time by keeping such secret before marriage; it's called deciet and pls stop justifying your actions with such shallow reasons but the deed is done already and now unto the way out.
Don't talk to your parents until all other means fails...pls don't?
"Genuinely" say you're sorry and apologize while taking responsibility for your insincerity prior to now; don't try to justify or find excuse for your action while doing that.....I know you claimed you've done that severally but trust me, you may need to do it properly if you want him to understand.
If the above failed, look for someone he "respect" and listen to like his pastor or anybody that he respect dearly and talk to him/her about the whole issues and let him apologize on your behalf and talk to him.
If that one fall too which I doubt, then report him to his parents.

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is that you deceived him. Well we all deceive men one way or the other. You started dating when you were 29, what happened between 21-28, you were sleeping around with married men I guess

This is as a repercussion for the evils you must have done in school and to other women’s homes. Now yours will be shattered. We ladies don’t hear or listen and eventually it will lead to our downfall


Let your husband look for some one fertile and responsible. By the way Are you sure those kids are his?

Homeboiy:
young girls una dey see am so

Marry on time but una go dey form say u can't marry a man wey no de earn 200k


Well I already know that any man wey dey marry woman wey don pass 30yrs Na rescue mission he go so


It's like buying newspaper in the evening

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is that you deceived him. Well we all deceive men one way or the other. You started dating when you were 29, what happened between 21-28, you were sleeping around with married men I guess

This is as a repercussion for the evils you must have done in school and to other women’s homes. Now yours will be shattered. We ladies don’t hear or listen and eventually it will lead to our downfall


Let your husband look for some one fertile and responsible. By the way Are you sure those kids are his?

Kinggnicole:


He's already abusing you emotionally. You have to be strong dear. And by being strong you have to know when to leave.

skarlett:



Your anger should have a limit! The thing that happened to her wasn't her fault but the most important thing is, they have children now, that erases what ifs, what would have beens etc. He should forgive her but not ask her to quit her job so she can look after the kids. That's very harsh and uncalled for

Princedapace:


she is selfish.. For every action u take in life, be ready to pay the price..

She deceived him.. And for deceiving him, she should be ready to pay any price for that.