If a man stops you from going to a vigil because ur in a long distance relationship and he thinks that how girls get spoilt and start using vigil as an excuse.. What should you do. Is he right to stop you or is he wrong

Just talk to him and make him understand, I think he already has that perception about ladies using going to vigil as excuses to commit different vices.

Candyflox:

If a man stops you from going to a vigil because ur in a long distance relationship and he thinks that how girls get spoilt and start using vigil as an excuse.. What should you do. Is he right to stop you or is he wrong

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I don't blame the dude though

But again he don't trust you, stop asking if he's right or wrong, just try and build trust between you both, I'm sure if there's trust he wouldn't give such excuse as why he don't want to to attend the vigil...




Though girls are chameleon you can't change them

DIs cuss with him, tell him he could call you during the vigil
Put your phone on vibration during vigil, if he calls pick at once let him hear the background prayers.
I think the trust building stage you are in still need more reassuring, but make sure you demand this from him as well

DIscuss with him, tell him he could call you during the vigil
Put your phone on vibration during vigil, if he calls pick at once let him hear the background prayers.
I think the trust building stage you are in still need more reassuring, but make sure you demand this from him as well

I know trust is not easy and yes girls are this and that but hv been with him long enough and we r about to tie the knot i feel having trust issues nw feels somehow.. He is calling it being overprotective anyway tnx for all your advice i will build the trust

Pls do not allow anyone to tamper with your spiritual life be it your father husband whoever. He is stopping you now and you think he'll allow you when you get married. Do you also control him over there

trust issues.
beginning of the end of relationships.
next time take a selfie and and send it to him

chiommy123:
Pls do not allow anyone to tamper with your spiritual life be it your father husband whoever. He is stopping you now and you think he'll allow you when you get married. Do you also control him over there

lol. he's not stopping her. man is just scared. she should make him trust her, and he should also learn to trust her.

I sincerely can't count the amount of times I've had smashed girls who were going to “vigil”

If you have a brother or sister, always go with the person and tell your guy to be calling you even while in the church to confirm by talking to your brother or sister as well preferably your brother.

Who is he to you ?

Are you serving God for him or for your own intentions

What you are asking God for, will he do it for you ?

What has your vigil got to do with him maybe he taught you are praying with his name, if he feels that you are using it as an excuse to hop around then let him do the necessary things and take you inside his house the proper way

He is restricting your movement because he thinks you want to flex

Person wey go flex go still flex no matter how you pin am down.

Mtcheew

pharmagba:
DIs cuss with him, tell him he could call you during the vigil
Put your phone on vibration during vigil, if he calls pick at once let him hear the background prayers.
I think the trust building stage you are in still need more reassuring, but make sure you demand this from him as well

She can put a tape or audio of Pastor Tb Joshua and fast forward to where the crowd is praying then call her bf.that does not stop her from opening her legs

Long distance relationship gives us the privilege to enjoy ourselves. It is you guys that trust is a lot and it kills you. We don’t like putting our eggs in one basket.

As we always say ‘Closed legs does not pay bills, Open legs does’

Nah as some girls of this generation dey do na nor be the guy fault..
But on this ground if u ar clean why should u stop worshipping God cos one boy get trust issue is not right.for u to talk thinz out

Candyflox:
I know trust is not easy and yes girls are this and that but hv been with him long enough and we r about to tie the knot i feel having trust issues nw feels somehow.. He is calling it being overprotective anyway tnx for all your advice i will build the trust

what are you looking for at night, can't you do the vigil in your house.Be bold, tell him you want to taste something different.