Good morning nlanders.!

I will try to be very brief.
there is this girl I started talking to for about six months now (I know her from college before, but we weren't talking). we do chat always and became very close till she asked the question "who am I to u now", I didn't answer her, I changed to another topic .
fast forward to when we were chatting one night, I told her to be my girl, she said she's already my girl but not lover(she just got out of 2 relationships cos she caught the both of them cheating).
this girl is a virgin, she's not like other girls ( her previous bf wanted to have sex with her but she declined).
we are very close,she tell me everything about her
I love this girl so much(not lust). she said she don't want to rush into any relationship so that she'll not rush out. Her 2 exs have been begging her to come back, but she said once she's done., she's done.

now my question is please , how can I convince her to be my girl?

please ignore any typo.

PS. sorry for the long epistle

U cant tell her beautiful france is...till u visit it..."virgin"..how u take know?

No Nigerian girl worth to create a thread for!!

Here's my candid advise to you bro; It apparent this girl likes you, she told you about her past.
Now, since she said she don't want to rush into another relationship, then I think you should be patient with her, show her more care, let her know you value her and always be there for her.
I believe with time, you will win her heart.
(Thank God you said is not Lust but TRUE LOVE).
Be good bro !

Nehyooh:
Here's my candid advise to you bro; It apparent this girl likes you, she told you about her past.
Now, since she said she don't want to rush into another relationship, then I think you should be patient with her, show her more care, let her know you value her and always be there for her.
I believe with time, you will win her heart.
(Thank God you said is not Lust but TRUE LOVE).
Be good bro !

A tipper of thanks, sir.

ShiningStar001:
Good morning nlanders.!

I will try to be very brief.
there is this girl I started talking to for about six months now (I know her from college before, but we weren't talking). we do chat always and became very close till she asked the question "who am I to u now", I didn't answer her, I changed to another topic .
fast forward to when we were chatting one night, I told her to be my girl, she said she's already my girl but not lover(she just got out of 2 relationships cos she caught the both of them cheating).
this girl is a virgin, she's not like other girls ( her previous bf wanted to have sex with her but she declined).
we are very close,she tell me everything about her
I love this girl so much(not lust). she said she don't want to rush into any relationship so that she'll not rush out. Her 2 exs have been begging her to come back, but she said once she's done., she's done.

now my question is please , how can I convince her to be my girl?

please ignore any typo.

PS. sorry for the long epistle

She already like you which is an advantage, be yourself and be confident and just don't be all up in her business. That will really turn her off.

Tonyfx:


She already like you which is an advantage, be yourself and be confident and just don't be all up in her business. That will really turn her off.

thank you, sir.!

I didnt read what u wrote but I know it's about one girl like that.


my advice to u is that u should leave someones daughter alone. if the thing hungry u too much, give ashawo 500 naira make u do as u like.

Nehyooh:
Here's my candid advise to you bro; It apparent this girl likes you, she told you about her past.
Now, since she said she don't want to rush into another relationship, then I think you should be patient with her, show her more care, let her know you value her and always be there for her.
I believe with time, you will win her heart.
(Thank God you said is not Lust but TRUE LOVE).
Be good bro !

Since the girl likes him why is she emotionally hurting him then all in the name she dont want to fall for scam?

You can convince her by not having sex with her....

Thank you

Davash222:
No Nigerian girl worth to create a thread for!!

Are you that hurt?... Even your sister isn't worth a thing? Any small thing, y'all would ridicule Nigerian girls... Is it American girls that's worth it? ... All I know is that everyone's got a fault.. The fact that a girl has once hurt you doesn't mean all girls are the same...

Why did she break up with her 2 exes on the ground of cheating when she is cheating on both with each other. According to your story , she was dating two guys and broke up cos she caught them cheating .
Flow with it and see where it leads sha! My own na observation not advice .

Dzeimzb:
Why did she break up with her 2 exes on the ground of cheating when she is cheating on both with each other. According to your story , she was dating two guys and broke up cos she caught them cheating .
Flow with it and see where it leads sha! My own na observation not advice .

she wasn't dating 2 guys at a time...

it was when she broke up with the first one, she went into another relationship with the second one.

Lamanii22:



Are you that hurt?... Even your sister isn't worth a thing? Any small thing, y'all would ridicule Nigerian girls... Is it American girls that's worth it? ... All I know is that everyone's got a fault.. The fact that a girl has once hurt you doesn't mean all girls are the same...

as a lady, any advice ma'am?

ShiningStar001:


as a lady, any advice ma'am?

Just be yourself.. Make yourself a priority first... Make a difference, it's obvious she already likes you but she's tryna guard her heart... If you really love her.. Chase her.. Sweep her off her feet...

Give her time
.
Dont rush her or else you will regret

Lamanii22:



Just be yourself.. Make yourself a priority first... Make a difference, it's obvious she already likes you but she's tryna guard her heart... If you really love her.. Chase her.. Sweep her off her feet...

A bunch of thanks, ma.!

Hope u plan not to hv sex with her till she’s ready or after marriage

She told you she is a Virgin and you believed her ,after two bad relationships ?? Next thing she will tell you is no sex till you marry her. She will be messing around,and you will think you're dating a virgin. Don't let nobody scam you.. Be wise!

Now,you love her more than she loves you.. She will forever capitalise on that to make a fool of you.. Marry a woman that loves you more.. Seems this is gonna be your first relationship or probably you're a very nice guy..

DoubleEngine007:
She told you she is a Virgin and you believed her ,after two bad relationships ?? Next thing she will tell you is no sex till you marry her. She will be messing around,and you will think you're dating a virgin. Don't let nobody scam you.. Be wise!

Now,you love her more than she loves you.. She will forever capitalise on that to make a fool of you.. Marry a woman that loves you more.. Seems this is gonna be your first relationship or probably you're a very nice guy..

Mr Advicer leave him why are u denying nature of it work?

Let experience teach him lesson to aid him in his next relationship...

Akinbahm:


Mr Advicer leave him why are u denying nature of it work?

Let experience teach him lesson to aid him in his next relationship...

I'm just being my brother's goal keeper.. No vex my brother...

DoubleEngine007:
I'm just being my brother's goal keeper.. No vex my brother...

Vex ke, some people just prefer to learn in a hard way instead of a soft manner....

The part that got me was "She told me she's still a virgin" am not saying there are not virgin still remaining, I just hate it when that statement is being used to manipulate We nice guys just to equate s^x out of the relationship...

Since they dont want sex they should remain single just as we guys kikikikiki....