8 Ways to make Your Girlfriend Miss You in a Distance Relationship


One of the difficulties faced in distance relationships is not knowing if your girlfriend is missing you, or if she is too busy doing other things to even think about you. Here are some ways to help your girlfriend miss you no matter how far apart you are.


1. Don't call her for a while. Make her wonder what you are up to:

Act like you don't care as much as her about conversing via phone/internet. When you do talk, make inside jokes about things she hasn't been a part of. Be aloof and she will start to chase you and that will make her want to make more frequent contact with you.

2. Have a healthy social life:

Hang out with your friends, make new ones and do things that you enjoy. Post pictures of your fun on social media. Tell her how great of a time it was. She will start to miss you and wish that she could be a part of it.


3. Dedicate yourself to your work:

Keep busy. Put in extra hours at your job or do more work in your free time. She will see how dedicated you are to your work while still trying hard to make time to talk to her and it will make her miss you even more.


4. Change your appearance:

Work-out, grow a beard, dye your hair or make-over your wardrobe. Try changing up your look a bit and brag about it on social media. She will see how much attention you get and worry about others finding your new look attractive and she will miss seeing you in person that much more.


5. Pursue your own interests:

Take up something you have always wanted to try. This can be anything from learning how to play the guitar to joining a bowling league. Find something that you enjoy and derive fulfillment from and try it out for a while. It will not only keep you busy, it will also peak her curiosity. She will miss you, even more, when she hears how you are following your dreams independently.


6. Send her a hand-written love letter:

Write her a love letter or poetry. Be open, honest and sweet. Don't tell her about it and let her be surprised when she sees it. Remind her how much she means to you even though you are apart. She will not only miss you but she will be romanticized by your gesture.


7. Plan a trip to see her:

To make her miss you, sometimes you need to remind her of how great you two are together. Try and arrange a visit, even a short one, to visit her and have a romantic date before you have to go back home. This will not only jog her memory of how happy she is to be your girlfriend, she will be missing you, even more, when you leave.


8. Remember important dates:

Whether it's an anniversary, birthday, special occasion or upcoming appointment you should pay attention to the dates that matter to her and remind her on those occasions. Mark the dates on a calendar if it helps you remember but she misses you and will be touched by your attentiveness.