mapet:


Madam,

with due respect, your position is that of a by-stander and will never be the reality to both parties. The reality here is that we have to bear the consequences of our actions & inactions. Having kids outside wedlock just most of the time never turns out well. It makes enemies of the two parties. You cannot in all sense judge who is wrong or right because you do not understand perspectives of either parties. Like I wonder how Shola expects communication to be on her terms (if I were Whizkid)? If I were Whizkid, I will purposefully try to avoid Shola if I can help it. And for Whizkid, how do you not expect a woman that has a child for you not to depend on you for virtually everything. To her there's actually not lines between necessities and luxuries, and considering Whizkid's wealth......I imagine how Shola feels, that Whizzy other kids have more "attention" (whether true or not) and contrasts this to how Whizzy prays Tife turns 18 like yesterday.

Many people cursing Whizkid will not change anything, except the grace of God. Someone should tell Shola to take this matter off social media. Get elders of both families to establish a trues and let wisdom guide them.

Amberon1:
Who doesn't know what a consent letter means? Did you also skip the part where he put a smiley there to show he was kidding? Also, how can a mother kidnap her own child that is in her custody...
Wizkid puppets please try to get sense.

CROWNWEALTH019:
The gal really suffer, the guy is an asshoole

Amakavula:
Exactly you hot the point. I feel for her but that's the truth. He doesn't want her love but she is in love.

PRESENTATION:

He kept skipping seeing his boy

hardeydara213:
SHOLA you are getting it totally wrong.With the look of things it shows that WIZZY doesn't love you anymore and that the only bound is TIFE...Fine there is always away to go about it not through media or bloggers naaa....WIZZY you need do things normal if not for her do it because of TIFE naa.Learn to treat your ladies equally don't create unnecessary enmity within your children....We love you & will not be happy seeing this

tintingz:
Read the convo, I'm see two immature individual.

Girl playing smart, dude forced to take responsibilities.

magicminister:
Im not half as successful as Wizkid right now but I know how busy I get. I'm always on the move. Lagos today, abj tomorrow, international trips.

It's very difficult to keep up with my family And friends and I have cery little time for petty conversations.

After reading all the chat messages, I can tell that wizzy is being exploited and he actually pays provides for the boy.

Such a shame for this lady to out him like that.

Shola Don fuckkk up!!

xendra:
Abeg make d girl go sit down, you open your legs for a jerk and now want to force a man out of him. What does she want really? Yet more foolish girls are bearing kids for that he-goat and tomorrow they want our sympathy

SonofDevil:
the babymama body language says she is craving attention from wizkid.i read the chat from the start to end.there was a passage that wizkid said he can't wait till 16 so that he can take custody of his child so that she stop the emotional blackmail.
wizkid even warn her to stop posting his son pictures for public consumption because of his safety and he want the kid to grow and live a normal life.
the lady is obviously doing everything to get wizkid back but wizkid not interested.she was even praying for him that God should soften his heart towards her.
she even invite wizkid to new year party in her pent house in usa just to get his attention.you cant force a man to love you.
wizkid is obviously done with her she was just pushing her luck too far to get wizkid back

jessikoholic:
very true

Boss13:


Please read properly. He takes responsibilities. He may pay the bills late, but he pays. The lady is scheming to keep tabs on him and that’s why he is ignoring her.

She uses excuses like “your son wants to talk to you” in order to hear his voice and when he doesn’t respond she gets mad. She wishes him merry Xmas, but he doesn’t respond. That’s her annoyance - Emotional loneliness

Boss13:


Please read properly. He takes responsibilities. He may pay the bills late, but he pays. The lady is scheming to keep tabs on him and that’s why he is ignoring her.

She uses excuses like “your son wants to talk to you” in order to hear his voice and when he doesn’t respond she gets mad. She wishes him merry Xmas, but he doesn’t respond. That’s her annoyance - Emotional loneliness

Buffalowings3:
He pays for everything and the useless bitch thought she has a point.
How does wiz keep his sanity?...
Texts everyday of the week.. that gets tiring
Bitch was happy to blow money on vacation then cries foul the kid isn't being taking care of.
Blood sucking, Desperate, broke hoe...

Wetin consign us...

Adalyon:


I personally don't think she's trying to get him back sha, I think she just wants at least conducive Co parenting is all... They don't have to be sworn enemies or lovers, there's something in between these two extremes... Bottom line is he shouldn't be reminded constantly about carrying out his responsibilities to his child and the child's mother,he obviously still has some bad blood towards her... He mentioned how she insulted him years back, he has resentment towards her but none of that matters because she's not a girlfriend he can forget about... She's his baby mama and no matter how they feel towards each other they should put it aside because another human being is involved now.. He is a documented parent of that kid so he should sign papers on time, speak and see the kid as much as he can, and make payments for upkeep on time... Let him do these ones first and if she's still bugging then we know it's beyond Co parenting

Boss13:


Please read properly. He takes responsibilities. He may pay the bills late, but he pays. The lady is scheming to keep tabs on him and that’s why he is ignoring her.

She uses excuses like “your son wants to talk to you” in order to hear his voice and when he doesn’t respond she gets mad. She wishes him merry Xmas, but he doesn’t respond. That’s her annoyance - Emotional loneliness

Adalyon:


Of course I only judged from the screenshots, no one is close enough to know the whole story that's why I added "if the screenshots are authentic"... You made a lot of sense,at least both parties should be responsible instead of he and his fans that have no idea what's happening constantly calling her a hoe, it's unfair... Yes she's living a bit above her means but for basic stuff like fees he should not be reminded at all, haba he can have someone handle it so she gets prompt payments for the kids upkeep without having to constantly remind him... If he did what he ought to on time I doubt she'd text him so much... Tho I think she should be sensible and get a lawyer, draft an agreement and let communication be btw their lawyers...simple

Adalyon:


I personally don't think she's trying to get him back sha, I think she just wants at least conducive Co parenting is all... They don't have to be sworn enemies or lovers, there's something in between these two extremes... Bottom line is he shouldn't be reminded constantly about carrying out his responsibilities to his child and the child's mother,he obviously still has some bad blood towards her... He mentioned how she insulted him years back, he has resentment towards her but none of that matters because she's not a girlfriend he can forget about... She's his baby mama and no matter how they feel towards each other they should put it aside because another human being is involved now.. He is a documented parent of that kid so he should sign papers on time, speak and see the kid as much as he can, and make payments for upkeep on time... Let him do these ones first and if she's still bugging then we know it's beyond Co parenting

Adalyon:


I personally don't think she's trying to get him back sha, I think she just wants at least conducive Co parenting is all... They don't have to be sworn enemies or lovers, there's something in between these two extremes... Bottom line is he shouldn't be reminded constantly about carrying out his responsibilities to his child and the child's mother,he obviously still has some bad blood towards her... He mentioned how she insulted him years back, he has resentment towards her but none of that matters because she's not a girlfriend he can forget about... She's his baby mama and no matter how they feel towards each other they should put it aside because another human being is involved now.. He is a documented parent of that kid so he should sign papers on time, speak and see the kid as much as he can, and make payments for upkeep on time... Let him do these ones first and if she's still bugging then we know it's beyond Co parenting

tintingz:
I didn't say he didn't take responsibilities, From that chat Wizkid is forced to take responsibilities, if the lady didn't frequently buzz Wizkid, I'm he will abadon his responsibility.

The lady is smart, she has reasons she buzz Wizkid(an A list naija celebrity) frequently, she's smart that she's also using Wizkid as her ATM.

If they are both mature, they should have gone to the court and Wizkid child support plan will be listed to him. No excuses.

Boss13:


Wizkid is a musician and may not have time for co-parenting. Co-parenting would be a dangerous attempt because she still has feelings for him. I could deduced they even had sex in Atlanta based on her next message. The guy is ignoring her on purpose. If she really wants wizkid’s attention, let her get a man who loves her, but I go pity the man because Okafor’s law still applies

SonofDevil:
Bleep up for what exactly??
i read the chat all through i didnt see anywhere wizkid default in payment of child support

Yuceeluv:
The chat says it all...if I were her I wouldn't have let this out...it only portrays her as a nagger with low self esteem seriously longing for wizkid's love...the babe has been emotionally distressed...all she really wants is WIZKID'S LOVE.

iamrammy:
we haven't heard from wiz yet so i won't conclude, but from these chats i think, she has been constantly using the son to make demands and the boy is fed up, cos it's more like whenever she calls she wants to ask for something in the name of their Son....Damn she is too bitter, she needs some good dicking!

Omoluabi9:
But he doesn't love her

Dem no dey force am!

The most important thing is the boy's (TIFE) well being.

And although Wizkid can do better, he is far from being a dead-beat dad Shola is trying to paint him as.