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I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 6:39am On Sep 21, 2018
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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Yambee: 6:48am On Sep 21, 2018
Both of you are emotionally immature.

If you are in a relationship with a woman, then stop being over friendly with some other females. It does not matter if you are sleeping with her or not.

If she is a good woman according to you,then get your acts together by not trying to destroy your relationship. Then as for her, she should grow up,and not use the threat of sleeping outside to make you get back to your senses.

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by GOFRONT(m): 6:48am On Sep 21, 2018
I hope una don do genotype

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by iammo(m): 6:51am On Sep 21, 2018
you guys should tie the knot already. that is what marriage is for. the moment you guys start nursing the feeling of cheating (whether sexualy or emotionaly) the marriage oath and vows would make you guys think straight. you hanging out with other girls can't go down well with your girl, regardless of how Platonic you think it is. don't strain your relationship with such third party.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 6:55am On Sep 21, 2018
iammo:
you guys should tie the knot already. that is what marriage is for. the moment you guys start nursing the feeling of cheating (whether sexualy or emotionaly) the marriage oath and vows would make you guys think straight.

Yes, but have a project at hand. So, i planned ut for next year befre this new behavior.

She gets jealous easily.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by okomile(f): 6:57am On Sep 21, 2018
Relax.
Think deeply if truly she is the one you want. If yes, concentrate on her. Tell her details of whoever you chat it.
Make a call and tell her to also speak to the person.

You need to build back the trust.

Wish you the best

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by alterswerve(m): 6:58am On Sep 21, 2018
I actually thought I'd have something to contribute
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by madridguy(m): 7:00am On Sep 21, 2018
You should learn how to always clean your tracks. Why keeping chat with other girls after conversation when you know your woman will see it? To hurt her or make her jealous?

My contribution, apologize to her and stop jumping around because to see faithful woman hard no be small.

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by madridguy(m): 7:02am On Sep 21, 2018
She gets jealous easily when you're rubbing your other affairs on her face? She is human like you. Respect her.

hypertension:


Yes, but have a project at hand. So, i planned ut for next year befre this new behavior.

She gets jealous easily.

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by iammo(m): 7:03am On Sep 21, 2018
hypertension:


Yes, but have a project at hand. So, i planned ut for next year befre this new behavior.

She gets jealous easily.

good luck with that, am sure you've invested a lot these past 4 years. just give her some more assurance, revalidate your love and commitment to her. because if she doesn't love you I doubt she would be acting jealous and trying to spite you. As the man in the relationship, sadly you must be the one to make more sacrifices and perhaps reduce your relationships with third parties.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 7:03am On Sep 21, 2018
Yambee:
Both of you are emotionally immature.

If you are in a relationship with a woman, then stop being over friendly with some other females. It does not matter if you are sleeping with her or not.

If she is a good woman according to you,then get your acts together by not trying to destroy your relationship. Then as for her, she should grow up,and not use the threat of sleeping outside to make you get back to your senses.

Being in a rship does not put me in a cage. She is a very fine girl and guyz call her everytime even at night. She talks for more than 10 mins with other guyz.

I dont bother checking her phone or asking her who called.

The moment a girl calls she is suspicious. Midnight, whe im sleeping she gpes through my phone, calls, chats, and checks my messages.

I am getting tired of this kind of thing. breaking up keeps cpming to my head fr the past 3 weekz.

Im only confused because sge has been a good gurl abd we've been so good together for years now.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:11am On Sep 21, 2018
iammo:
you guys should tie the knot already. that is what marriage is for. the moment you guys start nursing the feeling of cheating (whether sexualy or emotionaly) the marriage oath and vows would make you guys think straight. you hanging out with other girls can't go down well with your girl, regardless of how Platonic you think it is. don't strain your relationship with such third party.
So tying the knot would make everything better? The op knows the kinda gf he has, simple logic is to keep these things away from her. How hard is it to clear your chats.

She has probably fvcked another person to get at u sha.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Yambee: 7:12am On Sep 21, 2018
hypertension:


Being in a rship does not put me in a cage. She is a very fine girl and guyz call her everytime even at night. She talks for more than 10 mins with other guyz.

I dont bother checking her phone or asking her who called.

The moment a girl calls she is suspicious. Midnight, whe im sleeping she gpes through my phone, calls, chats, and checks my messages.

I am getting tired of this kind of thing. breaking up keeps cpming to my head fr the past 3 weekz.

Im only confused because sge has been a good gurl abd we've been so good together for years now.


She talks to other guys too?you did not state this in your earlier post. If she does that, she is not a good woman then.

You keep referring to her as a good lady. What is your definition of a good woman?the one that keep men friend for chats?
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 7:13am On Sep 21, 2018
iammo:


good luck with that, am sure you've invested a lot these past 4 years. just give her some more assurance, revalidate your love and commitment to her. because if she doesn't love you I doubt she would be acting jealous and trying to spite you. As the man in the relationship, sadly you must be the one to make more sacrifices and perhaps reduce your relationships with third parties.

Thats true..thanks
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:14am On Sep 21, 2018
hypertension:


Being in a rship does not put me in a cage. She is a very fine girl and guyz call her everytime even at night. She talks for more than 10 mins with other guyz.

I dont bother checking her phone or asking her who called.

The moment a girl calls she is suspicious. Midnight, whe im sleeping she gpes through my phone, calls, chats, and checks my messages.

I am getting tired of this kind of thing. breaking up keeps cpming to my head fr the past 3 weekz.

Im only confused because sge has been a good gurl abd we've been so good together for years now.

Breaking up isn't the solution cos you might not even see another faithful lady out there. So don't just throw away 4 years. Work on it ok and things will be fine.

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 7:16am On Sep 21, 2018
Yambee:


She talks to other guys too?you did not state this in your earlier post. If she does that, she is not a good woman then.

You keep referring to her as a good lady. What is your definition of a good woman?the one that keep men friend for chats?

Talking to guyz does not make a girl bad. Most times, she is plain with who calls her. something i dont care about.

But she is sha...(to the best of my knowledge)..and thanks for the reply

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by iammo(m): 7:16am On Sep 21, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So tying the knot would make everything better? The op knows the kinda gf he has, simple logic is to keep these things away from her. How hard is it to clear your chats.

She has probably fvcked another person to get at u sha.

the truth is the op still seeks companionship from other girls. tying the knot might calm things down, because a 4 years relationship without engagement or proposal is a frustrating affiar, a lot is going on in the girls mind, and if he doesn't quickly do the right thing, one of them would stray
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 21, 2018
iammo:


the truth is the op still seeks companionship from other girls. tying the knot might calm things down, because a 4 years relationship without engagement or proposal is a frustrating affiar, a lot is going on in the girls mind, and if he doesn't quickly do the right thing, one of them would stray
So the op will stay one place after tying the knot? Or she'll turn a blind eyes to these things after tying the knot? Lolz I wish them well o. The op should stop making his gf jealous.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by peepydelano(m): 7:29am On Sep 21, 2018
you are a philanderer, this is the same patient you talked about earlier in your previous post and you know what she wants and you are also very ready to give it to her.I wonder why people don't appreciate the good ones,you just wanted to pick her on her angry words to validate your lustful intention towards that patient of yours.Don't worry your eyes go clear when this beautiful soul you have now is gone for good.How come you still don't know that you made her to be the jelouse Lady she is now,you cheat and flaunt it to her face nd wat really were u expecting to b her reaction? Keep your tracks clean if you must flirt, apologize to her and be sincere with ur apologizes,appreciate wat u have now kos u may never see her type again (beautiful nd faithful),you also tell her u ain't comfortable with her receiving calls freely from other guys nd tell her to adjust.package urself nd don't use ur hand to destroy d beautiful tin UV got.peace
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by IamPlato(m): 7:32am On Sep 21, 2018
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Hahahahaha.



Mr. Hypertension!



So She Sent You That Message. Then You Have Nothing To Worry About. Your Girl Is So Very Much In Love With You...


Stop Getting Angry, pay Her A Surprise Visit. Hang Out With Her, kiss Her, make Her Feel Like A Woman. Fvck her Crazy, her Head Go Calm Down
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:34am On Sep 21, 2018
You are contemplating breakup because she got angry about your inappropriate conversations I think you don't deserve her. See how you are justifying your actions, you may not be cheating physically but you are cheating emotionally.
Why lie about your actions if your hands are completely clean?? Stop giving room for girls to tell you how lovable and caring you are undecided and stop sending money to random girls.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:39am On Sep 21, 2018
peepydelano:
you are a philanderer, this is the same patient you talked about earlier in your previous post and you know what she wants and you are also very ready to give it to her.I wonder why people don't appreciate the good ones,you just wanted to pick her on her angry words to validate your lustful intention towards that patient of yours.Don't worry your eyes go clear when this beautiful soul you have now is gone for good.How come you still don't know that you made her to be the jelouse Lady she is now,you cheat and flaunt it to her face nd wat really were u expecting to b her reaction? Keep your tracks clean if you must flirt, apologize to her and be sincere with ur apologizes,appreciate wat u have now kos u may never see her type again (beautiful nd faithful),you also tell her u ain't comfortable with her receiving calls freely from other guys nd tell her to adjust.package urself nd don't use ur hand to destroy d beautiful tin UV got.peace

Thank you o. He knows what he wants to go and do, he's just gathering excuses for it. You can't do something to annoy someone and not expect to get a reaction! I know someone that acts like that, they trivialise their own actions and magnify your reaction. angry
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 7:55am On Sep 21, 2018
peepydelano:
you are a philanderer, this is the same patient you talked about earlier in your previous post and you know what she wants and you are also very ready to give it to her.I wonder why people don't appreciate the good ones,you just wanted to pick her on her angry words to validate your lustful intention towards that patient of yours.Don't worry your eyes go clear when this beautiful soul you have now is gone for good.How come you still don't know that you made her to be the jelouse Lady she is now,you cheat and flaunt it to her face nd wat really were u expecting to b her reaction? Keep your tracks clean if you must flirt, apologize to her and be sincere with ur apologizes,appreciate wat u have now kos u may never see her type again (beautiful nd faithful),you also tell her u ain't comfortable with her receiving calls freely from other guys nd tell her to adjust.package urself nd don't use ur hand to destroy d beautiful tin UV got.peace

Thanks
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by hypertension(m): 7:59am On Sep 21, 2018
SBL28:


Thank you o. He knows what he wants to go and do, he's just gathering excuses for it. You can't do something to annoy someone and not expect to get a reaction! I know someone that acts like that, they trivialise their own actions and magnify your reaction. angry

The only reason she is seeing traces is becaue im not cheating or have plans to. Thats the truth..

she is just extremely jealous
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 21, 2018
hypertension:


The only reason she is seeing traces is becaue im not cheating or have plans to. Thats the truth..

she is just extremely jealous

She's not extremely jealous, I went to read your post about your young patient and I know for a fact you are cheating emotionally. Cheating is not until you actually sleep with the person.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by peepydelano(m): 8:07am On Sep 21, 2018
hypertension:


Thanks
you are welcomed, don't spoil the beautiful relationship you have kos of DAT young gal,u know how ladies of DAT age behaves,I also noticed you were quick to defend your gal wen sm1 said she's bad kos she receives call too,so DAT implies she's really a good lady nd decent,work on yourself nd tame her to who u want her to be nd go ahead with ur next year plans for her.four years no b beans abeg.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by peepydelano(m): 8:11am On Sep 21, 2018
SBL28:


Thank you o. He knows what he wants to go and do, he's just gathering excuses for it. You can't do something to annoy someone and not expect to get a reaction! I know someone that acts like that, they trivialise their own actions and magnify your reaction. angry
lol,no mind am,he wan chop dat girl but he want to pick offence with his lady first so as to clear guilty conscience.

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by DABREEZYTOS(f): 8:50am On Sep 21, 2018
Guy,,,,if you are in her shoes,seeing guys hover around her,see flirty chats and all,send few of her male friends money all in the name of assistance,how will you feel?you said you've been faithful for 3yrs in a 4yrs r/ship?duh...i'm not taking sides on this but bruh if you truly love her as you've claimed,,,you'd figured out how to win her again and make her calm....but if you truly wanna quit cuz she said she's done with you as well,d ball is in your court.....na only the person wey wear shoe know if the shoe dey pain am or dey comfortable for am,na only him fit decide to pull am off or not as well
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by Randy100: 8:58am On Sep 21, 2018
Learn to be wise like a serpent. Always cover your act. Simple cheating you can't do.
Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by capsule(m): 10:36am On Sep 21, 2018
SBL28:


She's not extremely jealous, I went to read your post about your young patient and I know for a fact you are cheating emotionally. Cheating is not until you actually sleep with the person.
your head there their, cheating involves a whole lot. in fact, once you're onto that act you wouldn't naturally do when your babe / guy is around. it's cheating. Good thing is that we're always on the know, but just choose to accuse the innocent and voiceless devil

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Re: I Am Considering Breaking Up With My Girlfriend by kunleweb: 11:54am On Sep 21, 2018
SBL28:


Thank you o. He knows what he wants to go and do, he's just gathering excuses for it. You can't do something to annoy someone and not expect to get a reaction! I know someone that acts like that, they trivialise their own actions and magnify your reaction. angry


Women can fight to protect their own ehn. Chai

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