Kidaholic:

Yea' I know you will pick on that one
My dear I don't give a fvck about that

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Makes two of us eh

Kidaholic:


Don't concern yourself with that. Thanks

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Though u concerned yourself with mine first

Kidaholic:

Makes two of us eh

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
compliment of the season my frd

ladywriter:


True!

ladywriter:

True!

ladywriter:
It is gradually sinking in.

She is not picking your calls nor replying to your texts.

You keep wondering: Is she losing interest in me or just stressed?

Hmmm! Take heart brother, it is obvious.

Sometimes in a relationship, one party loses interest in the other. In this article, I will show you 7 shocking things that can make a lady to lose interest in you.

1. You make her your emotional crutch

People have problems, I get it. What I don’t get is when a man tries to dump all his problems on his lady because he can’t handle them. I am not saying you shouldn’t share your problems with her after all, a problem shared is half-solved, but don’t dump your problems on her all the time.

2. You are a gentle man and not a Gentleman


Do you know there is a difference between a gentle man and a Gentleman?

No.? Ok. I will tell you.

A gentle man is a man that is gentle. A gentle man is a man that doesn’t want to offend anyone. He is timid and acts cowardly. He does his things gently as if he is handling an egg. A gentle man is unsure of his actions.

A gentleman is a man in control. A man that exudes confidence and is ready to take on the world. He believes in himself and in the actions he takes. He is a man of principles.

Ladies love men who are in control. Men who don’t ask for the next step to take. I mean action takers.

Are you a gentle man or a gentleman?

3. You stopped living your life and lives hers

You stopped living your life because you met a new girl. You stopped going out with your friends and doing what you love to do. She became the center of your world and you became her pedestal.

You don’t do the hobbies that make you happy anymore. All you do is to follow her around. She will not only lose interest, but she will also introduce you to her new man.

4. You are “a boy” who needs a woman and not “a man” who desires a woman


Do you know what it means to be a boy and a not a man?

A boy is needy. He has little respect for himself to the extent that he will do anything to make a woman happy. Of course, women love that. She will play along for a while and take advantage of you until she is tired and then she will lose interest and dump you.

A man who desires a woman is different. He is in control of himself and the relationship. He is strongly grounded, he knows what he wants and is incredibly decisive. Who will not want such a man?

5. You make yourself a limited time offer

You know when they say a product has a “limited time offer”? It means it is a quality product that will soon go out of circulation if you don’t buy on time.

Some men are like that. They make themselves look expensive. If a lady refuses to go out with you, it’s her loss. You flaunt your possession and wealth to intimidate her. You make her realize that it is one of you in the entire world and if she misses you, her world will not be the same.

6. You rest on your laurels

You chased her to get her to date you. But eventually, after she gives in, you stopped the chase. You stopped doing the kinds of stuff that make relationship fun and exciting.

When you do that, it makes the girl lose trust and interest in you since you can’t no longer deliver. It gets boring if there is no more chasing.

7. You are like a boat floating unguided over the waves

In those days, it is common to see children with paper boats by a small stream. They throw the boat into the water and watch it move. The wave of the water will carry the boat up and down.

That is how a man that lacks direction behaves and hear this:

Ladies will not like you.

If you don’t have a life ambition, it means you are an NFA (no future ambition). You have no passion for what you want to do or be in life.
You allow the current of life to carry you to wherever the wind is blowing, your woman will not be with you for long.

Women love ambitious men. Men who make effort to succeed in life. It is a sign of a good future; you know.

It is time to change for the better!
Don’t lose a gem while playing with stones


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/lady-lose-interest-in-you/

Ladies, it is your turn. What are the things that can make you lose interest in a man?

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