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Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by babyfaceafrica: 7:38pm On Sep 24, 2018
livelymatilda:

I don't really understand this 2 years thing.. What if he makes himself available and ready eventually.. Would it still take 2 years? Is that the minimum time to complete a divorce papers or what?
you need to see a lawyer...if you think you can get a divorce in absential easily..please rethink.. there are questions they will ask in court;


why is he absent?

if you say he does not want a divorce and he is running away?.. they will ask for proof...you may be lying you know?


if you say you can't find him?..they will ask you to contact him using all possible means like fv ,Twitter, his family e.t.c...are you sure he is dead?..has he been kidnapped?..


two years will clear doubt.



if you wasn't a divorce and he is not available..chill...they don't give award for the fastest divorce.... time will run out soon...see a lawyer fast
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Ishilove: 7:55pm On Sep 24, 2018
Dyt:
A month and dating?

Some people are fast ooo
grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
No time cheesy
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Ioannes(m): 9:24pm On Sep 24, 2018
livelymatilda:

The problem here is that shhe is no more interested... I think the 2 years part is why he didn't want to be available...Naija men.. Lol

You didn't even tell us what the problem is with your husband. If he is impotent, then the marriage was null and void to begin with because it was contracted under false pretenses and was a fraud.
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by livelymatilda: 12:24am On Sep 25, 2018
Ioannes:


You didn't even tell us what the problem is with your husband. If he is impotent, then the marriage was null and void to begin with because it was contracted under false pretenses and was a fraud.
Thanks for the reply, but Where did I mentioned that he is my husband?
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Dyt(f): 4:35am On Sep 25, 2018
Ishilove:

No time cheesy

Na so you dey do too?
cheesy cheesy
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Ioannes(m): 6:46am On Sep 25, 2018
livelymatilda:

Thanks for the reply, but Where did I mentioned that he is my husband?

Just an assumption since you mentioned earlier that you were going to discuss with your lawyer.

Apologies if not so.

Still my point has been made.
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by crackhaus: 6:59am On Sep 25, 2018
So much in a hurry to get out of a marriage she was once so eager, delighted, and joyful to get into.

Life indeed can be an ironical b1tch sometimes.
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by livelymatilda: 7:36am On Sep 25, 2018
Ioannes:


Just an assumption since you mentioned earlier that you were going to discuss with your lawyer.

Apologies if not so.

Still my point has been made.
Oh OK... I will discuss it with him... But I wasn't sure if there are special lawyers for divorce cases, that was why I brought it up here for wider view.. Thanks

What if it was contracted under false pretenses, would that make the divorce processlesser than the normal 2 years ?

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Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by livelymatilda: 7:42am On Sep 25, 2018
baby124:

Divorce in Nigeria takes 2yrs whether he appears or not. If he comes out to contest the divorce then it may take longer.
Hmmm
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Ioannes(m): 10:31am On Sep 25, 2018
livelymatilda:

Oh OK... I will discuss it with him... But I wasn't sure if there are special lawyers for divorce cases, that was why I brought it up here for wider view.. Thanks

What if it was contracted under false pretenses, would that make the divorce processlesser than the normal 2 years ?

Even though I'm not a lawyer I would imagine so. She would probably need to prove that the marriage was contracted under false pretenses. That would automatically dissolve the marriage contract like as if it never held in the first place. Contact your lawyers. I'm sure there are lawyers who specialize in divorce cases.
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Greenback: 7:33pm On Sep 25, 2018
Ioannes:


Even though I'm not a lawyer I would imagine so.


Si kindly leave matters for professionals,thank you.

grin
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by KanwuliaExtra: 8:31pm On Sep 25, 2018
Divorce in absentia. kiss
After 6 months of no response, the court gives a favorable judgment on grounds of abandonment. kiss

It makes the petitioner’s case easier with one person missing. wink
Re: Please, I Need An Answer And Explanation.. by Ioannes(m): 9:11pm On Sep 25, 2018
Greenback:


We know sir,that I am not a lawyer but a broomer...
I have a laptop bag but with a broom inside.
I will kindly leave matters for professionals because I am a useless goat. I was dumped in a garbage can when I was born so that is what is currently affecting me. I have lost all hope in life and my only joy is to come on Nairaland and spam your mentions. Please sir, don't deny me this joy. It's the only thing that keeps me from ingesting rat poison. Thank you for understanding my foolishness, kind sir. I curse my foolish parents for giving birth to me. I wish I was never born. I hope Nairalanders will tolerate my useless existence here. Nagode.

grin

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