I always say the truth, even when I lie.

nikkypearl:
Well,from my own perspective, it could be either both or none. Intention is everything, or almost, I think.
A man who lies to his woman could either be a man who is a habitual liar, or one who wants to spare her feelings. A man who tells the truth could either be one who does so to deal her an emotional blow, or who wants to apologize for hurting her feelings.

Me, I'd rather be with the one who tells the truth. At least I'll know where I stand.

And, if you love yourself enough, you'll know whether he truly loves you — and you won't need to ask or read answers to such questions to figure it out.

Guys, over to you..

Just as you said the intent behind an action is everything. That being said, most people lie for selfish reasons with just a few exception. For me, I will always want the truth no matter how bitter it is.

nikkypearl:
Well,from my own perspective, it could be either both or none. Intention is everything, or almost, I think.
A man who lies to his woman could either be a man who is a habitual liar, or one who wants to spare her feelings. A man who tells the truth could either be one who does so to deal her an emotional blow, or who wants to apologize for hurting her feelings.

Me, I'd rather be with the one who tells the truth. At least I'll know where I stand.

And, if you love yourself enough, you'll know whether he truly loves you — and you won't need to ask or read answers to such questions to figure it out.

Guys, over to you..

Never tell any woman the truth....
There is a technic i use and its called Truthfulllies...:its a lie that looks truthfull

Fargbaba:
all men lies in a relationship either they love you or not.

bittered slay queen spotted

i tel the truth to my woman, but i also nid to guide the truth inorder fo me not to hurt her. if she must know, then i tel her, if it wil hurt her, then i must tel her half truth. but no lies. that will balance everytin

exactly. ... some lie just to protect the relationship .. but when the woman eventually finds out, He turns out losing the trust and feelings she had for him......

There is a high chance he loves none and just want to play around...

He tells one truth because she is deeply in love with him already and he is using it to his advantage.

He tells the other lies because he is still in the wooing process and doesn't want to ruin his chances of hitting her... so he takes her to fantasy world.

daveP:
I don't always get this personality separation from character building stones like honesty, integrity, etc. How are they different?

What makes up a personality? Is honesty alien or subjective?

Pls clarify.

Personality is what makes people who they are, your personality can influence your character as a person. Personality is your attitude and behavior, character is influenced by ones beliefs, this is my thought though, you are allowed to disagree

folake4u:


I always want the Truth to be told to me. It might hurt at first but I'd appreciate such person.

So I'm a unique lady

So you actually don't need a lie or two once in a while? cos I have a case study that it is considered boring being honest always by ladies. Lol.


Unique Folake

I dreamt you celebrated your next B-Day in Dubai. Saw me and you.....




Is this not sweet to the ears? But na dream and I'm not even telling the truth. Truly maroon 5 I agree it though. Girls like you...

daveP:
So you actually don't need a lie or two once in a while? cos I have a case study that it is considered boring being honest always by ladies. Lol.


Unique Folake

I dreamt you celebrated your next B-Day in Dubai. Saw me and you.....




Is this not sweet to the ears? But na dream and I'm not even telling the truth. Truly maroon 5 I agree it though. Girls like you...

I don't need no lies. I dont need no frauds.
Where do you meet all these girls that say being honest is boring.

I swear, I love honest people, even when you're a bad person, I'd still respect such person for being honest.

Celebrate B-day in Dubai ke? Abeg gimme the money you want to take me to Dubai with, I wan use am invest small thing. You know we igbo girls like money.

It does sound sweet to the ears but its flattery and I hate it, pisses me off.

Yup Maroon 5, I love that song

Na so, I love you so much
that is why I won't lie to you, and I won't tell you the whole truth either.

He lies to the one to whom he is infatuated and tell the truth to the one he loves.

Latter

Ihatelove:

Personality is what makes people who they are, your personality can influence your character as a person. Personality is your attitude and behavior, character is influenced by ones beliefs, this is my thought though, you are allowed to disagree

Hmmm. Interesting!!!


I'd like you to just relax and find out more about

Attitude
Character
Behavior
Personality.


Trust me, twill be very very vital to you.


Wish I could but it's best you search em all out. John C Maxwell can help!!

babyfaceafrica:
I am with you on this..I don't get it

I guess reality is getting more archaic a term. Hmm. Perhaps were back to the Legendary Babel Tower aka Tower of Confusion!!!

daveP:
I guess reality is getting more archaic a term. Hmm. Perhaps were back to the Legendary Babel Tower aka Tower of Confusion!!!

some people just want to Justice Justify their lack of self control on personalty

amiibaby:
The one he lies to ofcos... Cos he can't bear to hurt her with the truth....but at the long run the truth suffices

And when the truth suffices what do you think that would happen? She get hurt I guess.... so what's the need of lying at the first place?

Fargbaba:
all men lies in a relationship either they love you or not.

Not true sir...I quote you wrong for this, all men doesn't lie in a relationship but few does..

The key is Knowing when to lie and when to tell the truth and when to combine both, whatever it is the situation demands, Is what I vomit. Whether I love you or not is irrelevant, it's the reason that is.

RillJ:
I always say the truth, even when I lie.

nikkypearl:

I am Jayamma Abanobi.. Architect from UNN, I will be willing to work with you after seeing your profile here on NL. You can check my works on Twitter @abanobijay. Thanks

I prefer a man that tells me the truth even when it hurts..
I may get angry but will secretly build to be better..