Jozzy4:


No, am a man ... Well, that's what the world has become , am glad reading your comments which shows at least some conscience are Still functioning , I like having morally sound ones like you as friends , , Keep it up .

thanks. Do take ur number off NL tho. Not safe

Brightgem:
who are u quoting? Seems ur confused! Too quick to comment. High queen, what are u high on?

Tell the guy to edit.

Brightgem:
thanks. Do take ur number off NL tho. Not safe

Tanks for the advice, I will.

That's why it's in quote , so it can never be quoted .

highqueen:

Tell the guy to edit.

I have already, capturing it in quote is to prevent any situation where another person quote and take it with their comment. I can always remove it

highqueen:

and you later dashed out your number after screaming like a bulldog, reason i hate hypocrites like you.
We have seen you.
And dont even qoute, i wont go down to your level of hypocrisy.

Despite your premise was wrong you still went ahead and likened her to a bulldog , not only that , you further went to label her hypocrite. for something she never did , How would you feel if it was you that someone wrongly say all this to ?

Brightgem:
who are u quoting? Seems ur confused! Too quick to comment. High queen, what are u high on?

I probably caused that. Am sorry!

Jozzy4:


Tanks for the advice, I will.

That's why it's in quote , so it can never be quoted .

Oh I see. Lolz! In any case this is Nairaland, to be on here one has to have thick skin.

Yoighaman:


Although I don't support it but this point kinda makes sense, a new perspective to me. Downside is both parties can pretend during this period and only get to show their true selves after getting married.

To a large extent but the whole purpose of cohabitation is to remove the need for pretense

Remember how when you all get to campus everyone acts like they don't fart? But 4 years down the line everyone is strolling with dirty boxers and farting female collegaues rooms

Cohabitation removes the need for.pretense naturally Hy both parties getting so used to each other that the premarital pretense is removed and both parties get to know each other

Dnt mind d babe,she's looking for a husband

highqueen:

and you later dashed out your number after screaming like a bulldog, reason i hate hypocrites like you.
We have seen you.
And dont even qoute, i wont go down to your level of hypocrisy.

CAPSLOCKED:


IT'S DISAPPOINTING THAT THIS IS YOUR OWN IDEA OF COHABITATION.

i was refering to the campus type of co habitation and not that b/w matured couples.

DaddyNimo:

for me o, I see nothing wrong in it :let's say for instance a boyfriend and a girlfriend both live far away from their respective workplace and dey both can't individually rent a decent apartment...instead of them renting a room or selfcon, I think it's better if they join financially and rent a flat and each owning a room. why I mentioned sex is cos that's what everyone thinks when they hear about cohabiting, where as its a normal thing in the western world. you find male and female cohabiting in apartment with each having individual rooms. what I'm against is a guy living in a selfcon or a room and cohabiting with a lady...dats just so uncomfortable and stupid. best way a cohabiting can work is when the guy and the guy has their own room....it would lessen the rate of temptation and also it's for matured folks.

those are flatmates nah.in western countries a guy and a lady who not necessarily into any relationship but jus friends could rent a flat with each one having his or her own space. I even heard there some landladies over there who rent out their visitor's room or basement to a tenant.

Realname:


To a large extent but the whole purpose of cohabitation is to remove the need for pretense

Remember how when you all get to campus everyone acts like they don't fart? But 4 years down the line everyone is strolling with dirty boxers and farting female collegaues rooms

Cohabitation removes the need for.pretense naturally Hy both parties getting so used to each other that the premarital pretense is removed and both parties get to know each other

and at the end if the guy don tire for the babe he will kick her out of the house and in some cases even sieze part of her property and claim its his..other cases the guy could kick her out in the middle of the night. If a lady must cohabit with a dude she should make sure its a very well defined relationship..their relationship should be geared towards marriage and both parties should be contributing to the rent so one party wont lay claim to everything. Even if all this is observed risk go still dey cos if dem breakup and she starts dating another guy and cohabit with dat one and den break up again and cohabit with another guy again then she's building an undesirable tag on herself.

lefulefu:
yea a lot of ladies dey do am on campus wella.its always disadvantagious cos the thing go be distraction to the girl and she will unable to study. Bros wat will u also ask be say how many of d girls wey dey cohabit with these guys for school dey marry dese guys in d end? Lol wich babe dey quote u?

My Ex girlfriend tried it and failed woefully. he said he wants to marry one guy at school, that he wants to marry graduate.

after cohabiting and cooking for the guy, the guy chop punna and called it a day.

hahahhahahahhahahhahah

in conclusion, 70% of school cohabiting relationship always end bad.

lefulefu:
yea a lot of ladies dey do am on campus wella.its always disadvantagious cos the thing go be distraction to the girl and she will unable to study. Bros wat will u also ask be say how many of d girls wey dey cohabit with these guys for school dey marry dese guys in d end? Lol wich babe dey quote u?

My Ex girlfriend tried it and failed woefully. he said he wants to marry one guy at school, that he wants to marry graduate.

after cohabiting and cooking for the guy, the guy chop punna and called it a day.

hahahhahahahhahahhahah

in conclusion, 70% of school cohabiting relationship always end bad.

Na one ferminst de quote me oooo

Brightgem:
Hunku! I was buying land na! Point expanded now.

space bookers association

how much you wan sell am?

lefulefu:
and at the end if the guy don tire for the babe he will kick her out of the house and in some cases even sieze part of her property and claim its his..other cases the guy could kick her out in the middle of the night. If a lady must cohabit with a dude she should make sure its a very well defined relationship..their relationship should be geared towards marriage and both parties should be contributing to the rent so one party wont lay claim to everything. Even if all this is observed risk go still dey cos if dem breakup and she starts dating another guy and cohabit with dat one and den break up again and cohabit with another guy again then she's building an undesirable tag on herself.

Best assessment ever!!!

I didnt see this coming

well done

No matter the time you spend with a man, it is never enough.
Human are dynamic. Only what we need is to compliment each other.

Simplep:
As for me,its nt a bad idea,infact any man I'm to get married to,we will stay togeda for at least 3months,lets see hw we handle and tolerate each other before going to d big institution
Btw,I'm only talking abt people who are ready for marriage ,not teens please

take this

Twoclans:
Its a capital NO for me,not because I am morally upright but because I love my space

Brightgem:
Will answer you best way I can. The tags are just still a reality of our society we must live with, it isn't appearing to shift soon, tags used to subdue socially and even politically in the bigger picture.

Why does who gets pregnant or is having an abortion bother me? We live in a web like society don't we, like the human blood vessels, all interlinked, so tell me how what is happening to one part doesn't affect the other. You don't see the multiplier effect of these actions on us all. I guess because u are coming from the what is ur business angle, well I am concerned for a woman destroying her body and sending babies to death because she kept opening her legs, that's troubling. I am troubled at the increasing number of babies without present daddies or mummies, who sometimes grow to be the gangstar that will come and stab someone I know in the streets or rob them or get married and be unstable because they had a shaky upbringing. I am disturbed about bringing my own kids into this kind of society of wanton abortions and pregnancies. I am disturbed because we are destroying the family unit with things like cohabiting, baby mamas, wanton sex and abortions. I am disturbed that there are people who think it's not my business so what's ur own. To me that is the bigger picture. Excess freedom is exactly how we are securing our undoing.

...if truly you are a woman I am very much impressed with your reasoning faculty. You are very much intelligent.

Pusyiter:
take this

I hope your weekend rolls fine

Newmanluckyman:
...if truly you are a woman I am very much impressed with your reasoning faculty. You are very much intelligent.

Lolz! Yes I am truly a woman and thank you.

E pain am o,,keep on ranting wailer,i dnt hv ur time...i already told u u got my last quote,eleribu

I'm not in support of cohabiting..I wouldn't even wanna see my partner's face all the time.

Did you eventually visit Afikpo?

highqueen:

Thanks.

CaptainMitch:
Did you eventually visit Afikpo?

Lol.piko,good morning.
No,my sister that went there told me not to bother cos its not interesting.

Good morning, You have a sister I am looking for wife o, it's a boring town especially if you don't have friends around, I will be there later with some of my guys.

highqueen:

Lol.piko,good morning.
No,my sister that went there told me not to bother cos its not interesting.

CaptainMitch:
Good morning, You have a sister I am looking for wife o, it's a boring town especially if you don't have friends around, I will be there later with some of my guys.

Lol ,yeah.

The place tire me shaa.
Okay,safe trip in Addy.

You go show face o make I show you around o.

highqueen:

Lol ,yeah.

The place tire me shaa.
Okay,safe trip in Addy.

[quote author[s][/s]=CaptainMitch post=71595858]You go show face o make I show you around o.

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Lol. If i change my mind but now, i don't think of coming again.

Not nice, I wanted to meet you offline.

highqueen:

Lol. If i change my mind but now, i don't think of coming again.

Without you? Unsure

Twoclans:




I hope your weekend rolls fine