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Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by drezzyx(m): 5:19pm On Sep 27, 2018
The nice guys often attach conditions to the favours they give to girls.

Girls simply can’t get enough of bad boys. 

Arguably, it has long been said that girls generally get attracted to bad boys. The nice guys often are on the periphery of things, sometimes getting into the core when the bad boy has wrecked havoc, and he is the only last refuge, picking up the shards of her heart. When it is up and running, she bolts for the next bad guy. And there are reasons for that. 

The nice guys often attach conditions to the favours they give to girls. He gives expecting something in return. The trouble is, the nice guy is always there for the girl. He even escorts her during odd hours to her boyfriend’s house, expecting that one day he will be the one. I think it explains why a man may educate a girl and in the end, she leaves him for another guy. It is about the favours he expects back, and not only that, covertly demands. The bad boy just gives, because he wants to. 

What stands out between the nice guy and the bad guy is that the bad guy makes his intentions clear in the beginning, either covertly or overtly. On the other hand, the nice guy focuses on being nice, as if telling the girl of his interest: "see I am the nice guy here, you should be dating me". Nice guys generally are less expressive when it comes to emotions because they want to appear likeable first before making a move. 

On the point of appearing likeable, nice guys are often afraid of speaking their minds. Things that bother them are shelved for the simple reason that they do not want to create antagonism between them and the people they like. 

People who generally tend to agree on everything tend to appear less attractive, as they always go with the flow. Girls want someone assertive, and unafraid to voice their opinions no matter how strong they are.
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Uglymugg: 5:26pm On Sep 27, 2018
Sounds like you used to be a nice guy yourself.
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by drezzyx(m): 5:33pm On Sep 27, 2018
Uglymugg:
Sounds like you used to be a nice guy yourself.
You maybe right and at dsame time u maybe wrong .

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Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by highqueen(f): 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2018
Just shut up.
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Merimental(m): 5:41pm On Sep 27, 2018
all dis good/bad guys talk is trash.
wit money u can attract any UKWU.

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Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Uglymugg: 5:41pm On Sep 27, 2018
drezzyx:
You maybe right and at dsame time u maybe wrong .
"Maybe" is enough for me.
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by mikejj(m): 5:45pm On Sep 27, 2018
highqueen:
Just shut up.
you will not coman say the truth now o.

Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by drezzyx(m): 5:54pm On Sep 27, 2018
highqueen:
Just shut up.
Spotted... But please can u keep quiet if u have nothing reasonable to say..
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by overcomer90: 9:06pm On Sep 27, 2018
highqueen:
Just shut up.

U want to keep using nice guys brains I see
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Wilfredpat22(f): 9:23pm On Sep 27, 2018
We ladies live for you men. That is why most of us rub all sorts of charcoal to look beautiful

Best thing is to be straightforward with her and let her know your intentions but be careful not to fall as a maga. All of us use men as we use tissue papers.

Also I have noticed ladies on nairaland type Good comments on nairaland to get clicks on their profit, PMs from men based abroad or working class because of marriage. Beware of them. We are all hungry. Buhari has made all of us hungry. We don’t have Good clothes.

Just use your head!

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Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by youngberry001(m): 9:43pm On Sep 27, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
We ladies live for you men. That is why most of us rub all sorts of charcoal to look beautiful

Best thing is to be straightforward with her and let her know your intentions but be careful not to fall as a maga. All of us use men as we use tissue papers.

Also I have noticed ladies on nairaland type Good comments on nairaland to get clicks on their profit, PMs from men based abroad or working class because of marriage. Beware of them. We are all hungry. Buhari has made all of us hungry. We don’t have Good clothes.

Just use your head!
sad
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by DaddyNimo(m): 9:50pm On Sep 27, 2018
Merimental:
all dis good/bad guys talk is trash.

wit money u can attract any UKWU.
money can't make a girl love u man, she will only give your money to broke guy she's really feeling. stop this mindset of yours.

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Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by finalboss(m): 11:02pm On Sep 27, 2018
DaddyNimo:

money can't make a girl love u man, she will only give your money to broke guy she's really feeling. stop this mindset of yours.

grin stop deceiving yourself
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by FOWOSHERE01(m): 11:25pm On Sep 27, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
We ladies live for you men. That is why most of us rub all sorts of charcoal to look beautiful

Best thing is to be straightforward with her and let her know your intentions but be careful not to fall as a maga. All of us use men as we use tissue papers.

Also I have noticed ladies on nairaland type Good comments on nairaland to get clicks on their profit, PMs from men based abroad or working class because of marriage. Beware of them. We are all hungry. Buhari has made all of us hungry. We don’t have Good clothes.

Just use your head!
I respect your forwardness and honesty
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by drezzyx(m): 5:22pm On Oct 01, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
We ladies live for you men. That is why most of us rub all sorts of charcoal to look beautiful

Best thing is to be straightforward with her and let her know your intentions but be careful not to fall as a maga. All of us use men as we use tissue papers.

Also I have noticed ladies on nairaland type Good comments on nairaland to get clicks on their profit, PMs from men based abroad or working class because of marriage. Beware of them. We are all hungry. Buhari has made all of us hungry. We don’t have Good clothes.

Just use your head!
They will crucify you for making this bold statement...
Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Oreofepeters: 5:43pm On Oct 01, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
We ladies live for you men. That is why most of us rub all sorts of charcoal to look beautiful

Best thing is to be straightforward with her and let her know your intentions but be careful not to fall as a maga. All of us use men as we use tissue papers.

Also I have noticed ladies on nairaland type Good comments on nairaland to get clicks on their profit, PMs from men based abroad or working class because of marriage. Beware of them. We are all hungry. Buhari has made all of us hungry. We don’t have Good clothes.

Just use your head!
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Re: Why Nice Guys Are Considered A Losers In A Relationship. by Punishment1: 6:23pm On Oct 01, 2018
Nice guys have volcanic anger.

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