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Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:01am On Oct 04, 2018
MichaelBukamzy:
guy,you are a man.you got the key,use your brain. all those girls advising you to let her know that she is your heart beat(as u made us know)if she finds out that you are drowning like you said,and you really need her to survive,samson and delilah will be your case. besides,at your early twenty when you are not ready for courtship,you are dating a girl that is still blossoming without a plan B? YOUR MIND DEY TELL YOU SAY NA ONLY YOU SHE GET?hahahaha,get ready for the shocker. am your age mate,and just like many other guys of our age,we don pass this level.
Hmmm.. weda am d only guy in her life or not honestly I don't know..
I was also skeptical about telling her my present situation.. It cud mk matters worst
Re: . by delugajackson: 11:05am On Oct 04, 2018
MichaelBukamzy:
bia nwokem,why are u stressing her nah? she has already given u tangible advice and tips on how to go about this,and you aint getting it. A girl you aint married to,stole your heart,mind,sanity and focus and you still dont wanna retrieve them with the numerous tips dished out here. if you are this insecure now,what will happen if u eventually get married to her. You are afraid of conducting an fbi investigation cos u are afraid of ur greatest fear.u get luck say men like biafra.bushboy,donstan.18,lefu.lefu, delugajackson, mimimile.93 no dey,dem for give u beta uppercut Dey there make pant dey wear u.
The irony of all these is that his name is "strongandmighty" but in reality, he's as weak as china battery. As at the time he was writing this book of lamentations, the girl was lying comfortably in her bed, laughing and smiling in her sleep while he was losing precious sleep over her. Them suppose flog nonsense comot for him body.

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Re: . by MichaelBukamzy(m): 11:08am On Oct 04, 2018
delugajackson:
The irony of all these is that his name is "strongandmighty" but in reality, he's as weak as china battery. As at the time he was writing this book of lamentations, the girl was lying comfortably in her bed, laughing and smiling in her sleep while he was losing precious sleep over her. Them supposed flog nonsense comot for him body.
smiling in her sleep or even riding another dickson. em case pass us oo,na why i kul my oga dem.

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Re: . by MichaelBukamzy(m): 11:13am On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty:

Hmmm.. weda am d only guy in her life or not honestly I don't know..
I was also skeptical about telling her my present situation.. It cud mk matters worst
you no know? you wan tell woman your weak point? why dafuk are u bearing strongandmighty while you act weakandconquered. where is the man in you?

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Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:17am On Oct 04, 2018
delugajackson:
The irony of all these is that his name is "strongandmighty" but in reality, he's as weak as china battery. As at the time he was writing this book of lamentations, the girl was lying comfortably in her bed, laughing and smiling in her sleep while he was losing precious sleep over her. Them suppose flog nonsense comot for him body.
Baba pity me nah... No be me do myself like this..
Believe me this isn't the real me.. Am Stil wondering wat happened to me.. Why I got myself 2 this point
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:18am On Oct 04, 2018
MichaelBukamzy:
you no know? you wan tell woman your weak point? why dafuk are u bearing strongandmighty while you act weakandconquered. where is the man in you?
I lost the man in me nd that's wat am trying to get bk
Re: . by Alexaonfleek: 11:23am On Oct 04, 2018
Dear, that's insecurity you're feeling. You sound like this is your first relationship or you've probably been heartbroken before
I'll advise you to talk to to her about it and anytime she doesn't reply a text or call find something else to do to keep your mind off it.
Re: . by Ghnaija(m): 11:25am On Oct 04, 2018
Yea stop worrying, maybe na u dey think dat way,e fit be say she no even get that kind mind.just slow down e fit be say u dey always chat am when she dey busy, by now u suppose know when to chat am, e fit be say she dey work, so bro no over think am pls





StrongandMighty:

So in ur opinion I should stop worrying.. What will be will be
Re: . by Maduawuchukwu(m): 11:44am On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty:

I understand ur point... You should also understand that it hasn't been easy for me dats why I brought it here

Yeah I know. Just know that it is a phase that will pass soon.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:50am On Oct 04, 2018
Alexaonfleek:
Dear, that's insecurity you're feeling. You sound like this is your first relationship or you've probably been heartbroken before
I'll advise you to talk to to her about it and anytime she doesn't reply a text or call find something else to do to keep your mind off it.
This is not my first relationship nida have I been hrt broken B4.. Maybe she's d one I've truly loved
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:51am On Oct 04, 2018
Ghnaija:
Yea stop worrying, maybe na u dey think dat way,e fit be say she no even get that kind mind.just slow down e fit be say u dey always chat am when she dey busy, by now u suppose know when to chat am, e fit be say she dey work, so bro no over think am pls





God bless you bruh
Re: . by Tripleclick(m): 12:16pm On Oct 04, 2018
First of all.. I think the girl you are in love with is not within your level.
Secondly I think you have low self esteem
Thirdly... You need to dish been too much emotional.. Thats how guys get easily manipulated by girls

Another thing is ..you seems not financially OK.. You need a get a job.


Build your value man.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 12:52pm On Oct 04, 2018
Tripleclick:
First of all.. I think the girl you are in love with is not within your level.
Secondly I think you have low self esteem
Thirdly... You need to dish been too much emotional.. Thats how guys get easily manipulated by girls

Another thing is ..you seems not financially OK.. You need a get a job.


Build your value man.
Bruh please wat do u mean by she's not within my level
Re: . by Nobody: 1:35pm On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty biko dont let ur happiness depend on a woman. Haba what u feeling right now is obsessive love and obsessive love aint healthy. If u feel ur girl is not being loyal to u why not break up with her. Why allow ur heart be going thru such emotional turmoil. If ur mind is telling u she aint faithful then she aint faithful abeg. U are young and still got time ahead of you. Just flex around and enjoy urself with girls.

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Re: . by Nobody: 1:41pm On Oct 04, 2018
Tripleclick:
First of all.. I think the girl you are in love with is not within your level.
Secondly I think you have low self esteem
Thirdly... You need to dish been too much emotional.. Thats how guys get easily manipulated by girls

Another thing is ..you seems not financially OK.. You need a get a job.


Build your value man.
i very much agree with the one about self esteem. Op really needs to build his self esteem but d one about d babe being above his level i fit no agree with that. There are instances wey a babe wey dey sell agbo go even dey form kim kardeshian over a guy wey dey track her. Na how a man take act towards a woman go make d woman know d way she go treat am.when a man acts too desperate and treats d woman like d woman is doing him a big favour talking to him the woman go waka all over his head and manipulate am to her satisfaction.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 1:45pm On Oct 04, 2018
lefulefu:
StrongandMighty biko dont let ur happiness depend on a woman. Haba what u feeling right now is obsessive love and obsessive love aint healthy. If u feel ur girl is not being loyal to u why not break up with her. Why allow ur heart be going thru such emotional turmoil. If ur mind is telling u she aint faithful then she aint faithful abeg. U are young and still got time ahead of you. Just flex around and enjoy urself with girls.
Bruh are you suggesting that I shud brk up with her?
Re: . by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 04, 2018
MichaelBukamzy:
bia nwoke m,why are u stressing her nah? she has already given u tangible advice and tips on how to go about this,and you aint getting it. A girl you aint married to,stole your heart,mind,sanity and focus and you still dont wanna retrieve them with the numerous tips dished out here. if you are this insecure now,what will happen if u eventually get married to her. You are afraid of conducting an fbi investigation because,u are afraid of your greatest fear.u get luck say men like biafrabushboy,donstan18,lefulefu,delugajackson,mimimile93 no dey,dem for give u beta uppercut Dey there make pant dey wear u,yabaleft dey lack patients sha.
haha he no need uppercut abegcheesy. All he needs is to be brought back to his sanity and dragged back to walk the path of manhood by the brotherhoodcheesy.he's still quite young and feeling the sweetness of loving someone and the girl is taking advantage of his naivitycheesy.make im build his confidence and self esteem back and the manipulative web wey d girl don pull over am go break off.
Re: . by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 04, 2018
Change your moniker to WeakAndFeeble angry
Re: . by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty:

Bruh are you suggesting that I shud brk up with her?
yes break off with her.u not happy in the relationship.a man is supposed to be happy in a relationship he's involved in. U can tell her on phone u no longer interested or u can just codedly cutt off her.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 1:51pm On Oct 04, 2018
lefulefu:
i very much agree with the one about self esteem. Op really needs to build his self esteem but d one about d babe being above his level i fit no agree with that. There are instances wey a babe wey dey sell agbo go even dey form kim kardeshian over a guy wey dey track her. Na how a man take act towards a woman go make d woman know d way she go treat am.when a man acts too desperate and treats d woman like d woman is doing him a big favour talking to him the woman go waka all over his head and manipulate am to her satisfaction.
I won't lie this situation has really dealt with my self esteem... It's practically at zero
Re: . by MichaelBukamzy(m): 1:52pm On Oct 04, 2018
lefulefu:
haha he no need uppercut abegcheesy. All he needs is to be brought back to his sanity and dragged back to walk the path of manhood by the brotherhoodcheesy.he's still quite young and feeling the sweetness of loving someone and the girl is taking advantage of his naivitycheesy.make im build his confidence and self esteem back and the manipulative web wey d girl don pull over am go break off.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 1:52pm On Oct 04, 2018
lefulefu:
haha he no need uppercut abegcheesy. All he needs is to be brought back to his sanity and dragged back to walk the path of manhood by the brotherhoodcheesy.he's still quite young and feeling the sweetness of loving someone and the girl is taking advantage of his naivitycheesy.make im build his confidence and self esteem back and the manipulative web wey d girl don pull over am go break off.
Thank you bruh.. That's why I brought diz issue here
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 1:53pm On Oct 04, 2018
ikhileomotayo:
Change your moniker to WeakAndFeeble angry
As strong as Samson is na woman kill am...
Re: . by MichaelBukamzy(m): 1:54pm On Oct 04, 2018
lefulefu:
haha he no need uppercut abegcheesy. All he needs is to be brought back to his sanity and dragged back to walk the path of manhood by the brotherhoodcheesy.he's still quite young and feeling the sweetness of loving someone and the girl is taking advantage of his naivitycheesy.make im build his confidence and self esteem back and the manipulative web wey d girl don pull over am go break off.
He aint even willing to be liberated.
Re: . by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 04, 2018
MichaelBukamzy:
He aint even willing to be liberated.
but at least he's listening nau.thats a positive signcheesy.

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Re: . by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty:

As strong as Samson is na woman kill am...

grin Na true sha

Guy just free your mind. You are too young to start getting high bp over woman matter. You can never monitor a woman. A woman that will cheat will cheat no matter what you do. Even the married women cheat talkless of just a girlfriend.

Put your mind in more productive things bro cool
Re: . by Alexaonfleek: 2:28pm On Oct 04, 2018
StrongandMighty:

This is not my first relationship nida have I been hrt broken B4.. Maybe she's d one I've truly loved
your love for her sounds kinda freaky.to be honest I'll be kinda scared and sad if my boyfriend is like this.try to keep yourself busy to avoid thoughts of her
I assume you work,right?
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 2:30pm On Oct 04, 2018
Ray97:
Its called insecurity. Fear of the unknow
What do you suggest I do?
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2018
duduade:
You need to grow up
How?
Re: . by mrphysics(m): 2:37pm On Oct 04, 2018
@strongandmighty, there are things you can't control because of your inability to be in all places at a time. Relationship I have come to understand is built on trust and tolerance.

From what you have written, you so much know with available signals from all places that she's with someone. Your instincts are right bro, your instincts are right. But first, you need to control yourself.

There is this believe in us that we can't do without someone, well, we are meant to believe this at a particular time in our relationship with a certain partner but the truth is, we can do without anyone, we can only not do without ourselves.

Most often, ladies are more developed psychologically, biologically, and emotionally than guys, they tend to be smart and take smart and cunny decisions. It means that, before you met her, someone already had her and led her learn so many ways of leading a guy on.

If you must be with her, then zero your mindset and damn the consequences, but if your mind is telling you that you're making a mistake, then end it in the next 1 month of not talking to her, you will get your life back.
Re: . by Botfuss: 2:52pm On Oct 04, 2018
grin grin

Let me make some assertions:

Your girl is very beautiful.
She has small money more than you.
Many rich guys(you know some) are chasing her.
You don’t know if she can wait for you to settle and marry her.
You didn’t know you loved her this much until now
You know if you broke up with her today,she will have another boyfriend(finer and richer) before nightfall’s.(she is that beautiful)



Here is the good news,she has cheated and still cheating on you. lol..Thing is,she is not yours honestly.

You have to break up with her before she does. That’ll restore some of your pride.

But if you are thinking this feeling will stop after the break up, you are so wrong. lol. As a matter of fact,it’ll grow stronger. But you have to let her go honestly. She is not yours.

This doesn’t mean she never loved you though ,it’s a decision she has to make as a woman.

The best news is,there are thousands of girls more beautiful than she is. Just make your money and steal the love of the life of another young guy who will in turn feel the way you feel now. lol. It’s a cycle bro...

You’ve enjoyed the love,now it’s time to suffer for it. Las las,ul be fine

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