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|Toasting In Church? by DeepSoul(f): 2:04pm On Jul 11, 2010|
Today after service, I was jejelly on my own when one "brother" tapped me and told me he had been observing me for a while and thought it the right time to declare his "affection(s)".
I was so uncomfortable I didnt know what response to give. Instead I proceeded to ask him what department he was in bla bla (small talk).
He asked for my phone number and I told him "we'd talk next Sunday".
I am definitely not interested in giving out my number nor having any conversation about the matter with this guy, but I am somewhat uncomfortable about communicating that to him. I'd easily be able to decline if a random guy stops me on the street or in a restaurant. But because it's a church environment, I'm undecided about the best negative response to give that would not make me look "insensitive".
What's the best friendly way to tell this "brother" no?
|Re: Toasting In Church? by mrmayor(m): 2:24pm On Jul 11, 2010|
Tell him you are fasting for 40 days and 40 nights, you don't want any love talk to cloud your thinking and prayers. Which church you dey go sef, maybe its time I repent.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by ice234: 2:27pm On Jul 11, 2010|
beta say yes now b4 u go bein run go white germent church for prayers oh. say yes now tey are coming before its too late oh
|Re: Toasting In Church? by Acidosis(m): 2:49pm On Jul 11, 2010|
mrmayor:Salvation Ministries, P/H.
ice234:true talk! If she no wan render songs like "I'm married to Jesus, Satan leave me alone. . . ."
|Re: Toasting In Church? by MissyB1(m): 2:52pm On Jul 11, 2010|
If You aren't single . . . .Let him know, there's someone already.
If You are . . . . a simple ''Sorry, I'm not interested'' with a smile on Your face should work.
If You want to massage his ego, just tell him You can be just friends.
I can't say it nicer than that
|Re: Toasting In Church? by DeepSoul(f): 2:55pm On Jul 11, 2010|
mrmayor:Repentance no be by going to church oh! Each is mutually exclusive of the other.
After the 40 days and 40 nights, wetin I go con tell am??
ice234:Tufia! So I should say yes to every man because men are scarce abi?? Msscheew
Terribly wrong guess
|Re: Toasting In Church? by snthesis(m): 2:58pm On Jul 11, 2010|
tell him "No " with a smile then give him a tract
|Re: Toasting In Church? by Agibecky: 3:00pm On Jul 11, 2010|
Toasting is common in churches.
A friend of mine was even smooching a babe inside the Church of Assumption in Falomo, Ikoyi, Lagos.
There is nothing wrong as long as it does not lead to FORNICATION.
Please, say the Lord's Prayer again.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by 190: 3:06pm On Jul 11, 2010|
why dont u check the car he drives 1st before Jumpin in2 conclusion
maybe if he has a mecedez benz CLS 550 or a Range rover vogue sports HSE,
Please Jump into his bed immediately~
Lol, Just kiddin,
please ure a woman, so u should be used to this~
|Re: Toasting In Church? by bug24(m): 3:08pm On Jul 11, 2010|
lol, i a have a broda who makes the sign of the cross before f4kin his gurlfriend. lol, i wonder what thats for.
@Poster, check first weda na oil worker o, no allow your salvation jump you bye because u dey prove levels. infact, in short, in summary, which side for PH u dey sef? weda i go come start my own toasting now.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by ice234: 3:54pm On Jul 11, 2010|
i dey advise u now no come here they cry day u need a bf oh. i go bi the first t laugh u oh
|Re: Toasting In Church? by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:25pm On Jul 11, 2010|
Church or no Church, if you ain't interested tell him off!
|Re: Toasting In Church? by eyoniggar(m): 4:31pm On Jul 11, 2010|
So whats the essence of your going to church when you are
asking people how best to lie to this brother? By so doing
I would advise you to give the brother a chance since ur already sinning.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by r231(m): 4:33pm On Jul 11, 2010|
the lord has answered your prayer
dats if you are single
|Re: Toasting In Church? by 912(m): 4:38pm On Jul 11, 2010|
So it's right to be blunt to guys that don't attend your church and be "nice" in your response to "brothers" that attend your church even when you are clearly not interested in what they have to say? This our christianity na wa o.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by bug24(m): 4:50pm On Jul 11, 2010|
discrimination of d HIGHEST ;Drder
|Re: Toasting In Church? by Marhoski(m): 5:21pm On Jul 11, 2010|
|Re: Toasting In Church? by dre11(m): 7:10pm On Jul 11, 2010|
do what u feel suits u and don't come crying dat
i though know[/b][b] i would have accept his proposal
|Re: Toasting In Church? by DeepSoul(f): 7:25pm On Jul 11, 2010|
eyoniggar:I'm not asking how best to lie to him. I'm asking how best to tell the truth. Shikena!
9-11:Bluntness is not a synonym for being rude. Spot the difference. I also asked myself why it's generally easier to tell "non-brothers" off than it is to tell "brothers". The difference is: with a stranger on the street, I can be blunt (not rude) because I'm free of any bias(es) and I most likely will not bump into him every sunday! But with the church brother, some level of extra tact has to be applied because we will most likely see each other every week or more! But then, that's entirely from my perspective.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by mrmayor(m): 9:27pm On Jul 11, 2010|
I think the Lord Had sent him to you. don't reject him, holy spirit say na him go marry you.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by dobodobo(m): 10:47pm On Jul 11, 2010|
you people made me remember the last time I pastor said used condom was found in the church, I think it all started the same way you people want to start, next time the bros come and knock at you again, let me him enter according to the bible which said, KNOCK and IT SHALL BE OPEN UNTO YOU. and you OPEN YOUR LEG AND IT SHALL BE ENTER INTO YOU
|Re: Toasting In Church? by DeepSoul(f): 10:56pm On Jul 11, 2010|
It is not mandatory to comment. If you no get wetin to talk, pls kindly waka pass
|Re: Toasting In Church? by dobodobo(m): 11:17pm On Jul 11, 2010|
Deep Soul:You should have used the word compulsory but you can email me your number maybe we can fix everything in person for better understanding. but Hbabe is still in my number one LIST
|Re: Toasting In Church? by makajibbz(m): 11:29pm On Jul 11, 2010|
this is the best advice:
tell him " In my village, I have vowed not to date a guy that we wont get married after three days''
He'll never near you again!!!
|Re: Toasting In Church? by 912(m): 9:16am On Jul 12, 2010|
I'm indeed embarrassed by these comment, no sign of maturity whatsoever
Will it kill you if you made sense just once?
Seriously how old are you?
|Re: Toasting In Church? by SeanLewis(m): 10:09am On Jul 12, 2010|
If to say i be the guy, walahi nothing go stop me
|Re: Toasting In Church? by tkb417(m): 10:11am On Jul 12, 2010|
Option 1 : "Fck off; do you think im a LovePeddler. Hey, next time you come forward with your unholy advances, ill report you to the pastor"
Option 2 : "Please, i dont want to sound rude, but please, do not let us discuss this issue and any other issue again. I beg you in the name of the Lord we serve". If he asks why, tell him you are not ready to entertain such discussions at this point in your life. If he asks again,say "its none of your bizniz brother, its mine"
Option 3 "Do you want me to start attending another church cos of you? please, ill appreciate if you leave me in peace and look for another sister in the curch"
Option 4 : "The Lord says youre not my man."
|Re: Toasting In Church? by adaybola(f): 10:23am On Jul 12, 2010|
No is No! church or no church. pls save yourself all these hassles and tell the broder off. By saying NO now doesn't mean you are impolite, just be factual. C'est finir.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by MrAnus: 10:32am On Jul 12, 2010|
nuff chicks in church. i love those heavy ikebe big thigh sisters, 4real
|Re: Toasting In Church? by sevule(m): 12:44pm On Jul 12, 2010|
Tell him that you like him as a brother in the Lord. Ask about his spiritual well being and thank him nicely for his unsolicited attention.
Emphasise that you are brethren in Christ then drop the bombshell. Tell him that even though you like him as a brother in the Lord you do not
want any relationship but you are sure he would find another sister that would love him.
|Re: Toasting In Church? by ice234: 12:58pm On Jul 12, 2010|
Girl my last advice to u is that you should be carefull. Time isn't on ur side dont forget
|Re: Toasting In Church? by 190: 1:09pm On Jul 12, 2010|
wale star, ***Your comments always leave me on the floor Weak after laffin**
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